Then I looked for a course on fetal education and tried it out, and found that fetal education is really amazing, and although I didn't do it very formally, I did notice in many cases that I was interacting with my baby in the right way, in a benign way. After listening to the course, I finally realized why my Doudou is so good to bring up.
There are two common misconceptions that we generally have:
One is that fetal education means having interactions with the baby and listening to music; the other is that the baby is actually small and doesn't feel anything.
In fact, the real meaning of fetal education is to do the right thing at the right time to stimulate the growth and development of the baby.
Studies have found that the neuron connections in the brains of babies with and without FET are different.
2 important stages of a baby's brain development are accomplished during the fetal period:
3-6 months gestation: brain cell proliferation, with 250,000 new cells added every minute.
7-9 months of gestation, the stage of brain function development, brain structure close to adult.
1 year after birth: myelination stage, brain network is richer
? The teacher who gave the lecture said that after she did fetal education, after giving birth to the baby, specifically with no fetal education to compare the baby, her baby is very good to bring, the baby is very secure not easy to cry, love to laugh, emotional intelligence is also relatively high.
Is fetal education really so magical?
I think it's really necessary to do fetal education, not necessarily to go to the offline learning, but must have some understanding of action.
My baby I do how to do fetal education?
I interact with my baby according to the different stages of growth and development. For example, during the baby's hearing development period (above 6 weeks of pregnancy), I pay attention not to go to noisy environments, and if it's too noisy, I'll leave very quickly because I know it's not good for the baby's hearing development.
At 8 weeks gestation, when my baby's sensitivity to the outside world increases, I would touch my belly a lot and talk to my baby. Telling her what I was experiencing every day, what I was doing, what was on my mind.
In the baby's sense of taste development period (12 weeks of pregnancy and above), I every time I eat, I will tell the baby, what I am eating, what flavor, I'm not very picky eaters, almost everything, that time the canteen food is very bad, but also did not add any additional food. The baby from the addition of complementary foods to now can be said to be much better than the average child, not picky eaters.
In the fifth month of pregnancy, the baby's hearing developed well, and I myself had already clearly felt the fetal movement. Because the production workshop is really too noisy, I obviously feel the baby's fetal movement is more frequent, and then every day the environment is inseparable from the gasoline, all kinds of mechanical processing sound, overtime busy to the night, I'm afraid that the back will affect the development of the baby, and then in the pregnancy of 5 months I resigned.
The baby was born until now on the sound of the hair dryer or similar sounds are very sensitive and afraid, I guess with the influence of the pregnancy period has a lot to do.
During the time I quit my job and stayed at home, I had a regular routine in order to give my baby a good night's rest. I cooked most of my meals at home, and occasionally went out for snacks. Every morning at 7:00 am downstairs in the neighborhood on time to put square dance, I get up at 8:00 am.
Then cook a millet porridge, boil an egg, and then add an apple. Then read a book, shopping, go out at noon to buy some food back to cook their own food, then nap at noon, 3-4 pm to get up and then to the downstairs to sneak around, life has been moist.
It should be the most relaxing vacation I've had since I graduated. You don't have to think about anything, just take care of yourself.
What if I miss the birth control?
Then give the baby rich stimulation in the 0-3 years old period, so that his brain has a faster development. 3 years old is the critical period of brain development, miss this time later is not good to make up for it.
Now many mothers and fathers are doing it wrong, put the child into the home to let the old man look at, 3 years old to go to school only to put the side of their own with. 3 years old before the old man is too lazy to move, but also seldom take the baby out, often holding watching TV all day, this is very unfavorable to the baby's brain development, but also make the baby's development of a lot of can't keep up with.
This is one of the major reasons why I choose to still stay home with my child now. Give her plenty of love and freedom, and enough stimulation so that she can naturally absorb a healthy environment and grow up happy.
If you are ready to have a baby, or are expecting a baby, I would suggest that you learn about fetal education, and make a conscious effort to stimulate your baby's brain development and various sensory development.
If you don't have Fetal Education and your baby is already born, then do early education before the age of 3 so that your baby receives enough stimulation to help him grow up healthily.
This is the 13th post of the New Year's Daily Shift, and we will continue to share breastfeeding care knowledge later.