Idle can also be a kind of interest, a kind of busy after the relaxation. See online all kinds of not with the idle people do friends trolling article. But I have to say, that is, you did not meet the realm of the idle. Now the society is fast-paced, fast to almost slow down, and even some people stop at a loss for words, long-term inertia, can not normalize life. So what's all this online drumming about running hard to be the biggest winner? You're out of business if you don't work hard, etc., I disagree.
Is it possible that life is all about running hard without stopping? Of course not, life is the main theme. After work will plan, know how to enjoy, have fun, have hobbies, is a person's highest realm of "leisure".
Small Ya, looks particularly beautiful, no matter the body and appearance are very outstanding, just not much temperament. I don't know her very well, but I know her from my circle of friends. The education is not high, single, work is also temporary, free time seems to be more, every day in addition to sunshine beautiful photos is to complain about life, are negative energy text, a lot of friends so blocked her friend circle.
Recognizing her also so many years, the tone has not changed. So, in many people are talking about her beauty, I have never agreed.
I've heard that she had a breakup in the previous period, and her negative and resentful words were all over the circle of friends. From her complaining words can be seen in her values, is to rely on their own beauty to find a rich man to support her, never thought of digging to improve their own value. I've been in a lot of relationships that have failed, and I don't even know how to summarize them.
The world has long since moved on from the days when you could rely on your beauty alone. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots. Which man is willing to marry home a bloodsucker? Such a person is like a scale, will hang on you, sooner or later you will not be able to afford the weight.
If these years if she makes good use of her free time, not complaining, not eyes only on those quality men, more to improve themselves, through these contacts to find a better job or resources for themselves, rely on their own ability to make their own want to live a life, then these sparkling qualities are enough to attract the eyes of a good man.
Friend Xiruo, I always forget her age, because how to look at it is not like close to 50 years old, that she is young not just because of looks, but her inner spirit, always give a person a kind of vigor.
She is not so busy at work, and her children are in college, so she has a lot of free time. However, she will not chat all day gossip, will not go to the square dance, and will not waste a lot of time in the beauty salon shopping and so on. People play are high.
She sets a small goal for herself every year, and then she is determined to carry it out. When her child was still in middle school, she used her spare time to study psychology and yoga at the same time. The first one is the one that is not a good idea, and the second one is the one that is not a good idea. Then she taught yoga at school and then did psychological counseling on the side. Although the salary will not have any change, but enrich the challenge of their own value is not the same, the teachers and students are therefore very like her, which is priceless wealth.
One person quietly insisted on practicing calligraphy for five years is not everyone can do, and the year before last, I was learning piano, playing every night seriously, the goal is to be able to independently play their favorite famous songs.
Last year, I enrolled in an oil painting class, and after only one year, I was able to paint beautiful landscapes and difficult figures, which was a joy to see.
Writing is her dream, so she has been keeping a diary for many years, and occasionally writes a little novel about her feelings.
The most enviable thing for me is that she has been hooked on fitness since the beginning of this year, dealing with those heavy machines every day, four times a week, for almost 100 minutes each time. That's why she's tightly muscled and well-proportioned.
She's also such a great swimmer that whenever she's in the pool she always gets compliments on how beautiful she swims.
These have been enough to prove that she is how to idle out of the new heights, but she has more beautiful in the impact on me and her friends around, she raised cats and flowers, full of balcony flowers, plus cats around, full of a peaceful little life, and occasionally all the people in the K song to go to send a few favorite songs is also a large number of fans 。。。。。
She is really a glowing little sun, although not a lot of money and not a powerful family, but everyone just like and she is with, because, you will be rendered by the inculcation, but also want to leap forward.
When you meet such an idle person, you will realize that life can be like this! If your free time is utilized properly, you can not only enrich and improve yourself so as to get happy, but also beautify your life and infect the people around you, so who can refuse such positive energy.
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3. Idle loose and tight
A friend of mine, Rain, is a leader, and has a busy schedule. But he has always insisted on participating in the one-hour hike two nights a week. He wakes up at 5:00 every day to record his life experience and post it on his blog, which has gained him a lot of fans.
On weekends, he usually goes fishing alone, and sits there all morning. He says he enjoys these moments very much, emptying himself in nature, sometimes waiting for the fish to take the bait, and sometimes combing through the week's events to get rid of those dirty things.
If you take a long vacation, you will be planning a big trip. The year before last, a few friends drove to Tibet, all the way to the experience was written into his travelogue, language humor and ease of writing, very smooth, completely out of the leadership of the official position of the formalities of doing.
This suggests that a reasonable arrangement can be made between busyness and idleness, depending on whether you want to do it or not. It is not efficient to be in a tight working condition all the time, but to make some adjustments appropriately, instead of promoting the quality of the work.
It is because of his looseness and relaxation, it will be in the work and life in the free conversion, ease of use, both to improve the efficiency of work and enrich their lives.
I'm sure you've all heard the story of Grandma Tasha! She was the one who knew the most about life and took idleness to the extreme. In a flash it became popular all over the world, blowing a warm rustic wind.
At the age of over 90, this grandmother surprisingly has a delicate heart. She lives alone in a suburban estate, surrounded by flowers and fruit trees in front of and behind her house, and occasionally she goes to pick flowers, followed by chickens, ducks, geese and dogs at her feet. She wore the most rustic floral dress, the fabric is also her own hand-woven, wearing a small square scarf on her head, like living in the tenth century.
Occasionally, she would sit in front of her door and draw, and many of her illustrations were used in magazines. Her home is almost always self-sufficient, and she never buys what she can make herself, a simplicity that has been far from us for far too long.
Grandma Tasha's charm does not stop there, what we admire most is her strong and deep inner spirit, she does not like the hustle and bustle of socializing, she is at ease doing what she likes, and living the life she wants to live, quiet and leisurely and full of interest.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with idleness, we are living a life that needs to be filled with a variety of content, rather than being a slave to work. But leisure is by no means free and loose, doing nothing, that kind of person that kind of day let a person look at the end, over a hundred years and a day are not much difference.