When you have a lot of work to do, you look forward to it
When you have a lot of work to do, you start to look for things to do
There are many things to do when you have a lot of time on your hands
Wen/Dahui
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Recently, I've been catching up on the movie "Faking it", and I remembered a quote from the narrator very well. It was something to the effect of "When a man is idle, he looks for things, and things look for him."
This sentence can be said to be very appropriate when applied to Uncle 8 and Ju. Uncle 8 and Ju are very idle. Uncle 8 hugs the hairy egg every day, guards his ex-wife, and makes a big fuss because of a dog, which sounds like a funny thing to say, but for those who are too idle, they always have to find things to do in their own lives, so that they can be regarded as not living in vain this day.
And all of Ju's actions can be described as nothing to do, the oldest person, every day nothing to do, only in the home nothing to do.
For people like Shunzi and Dazhuoer, who are busy earning money every day, they don't have the heart to think of anything else, and they have exhausted all their strength just to feed their families.
People always have to find something to do, life is not empty, despite the busy weekdays, always hope to be able to stop one day, slow down, quietly feel the life, but when the day comes, will only feel the life is very empty and boring.
2
Some time ago, the body had a situation, need to be at home half a month, half a month of time, I slept every day to wake up naturally, get up after the nest in the sofa to watch TV, to the midday meal after dinner and began to sleep, a sleep to close to the evening, the evening after dinner, and then watch a little bit of TV, continue to sleep.
At one point, I fantasized about sleeping through the night, but when that day came, I started to miss my busy days and couldn't wait for my body to get better so I could get back to work.
And in that period of boredom, but also with the family most of the time, we must have this experience, busy weekdays, parents always look forward to you can stay at home more time, no time to go back to the time, often call you to go home, once a week back, will feel very close.
But when you don't do anything every day, stay at home, you will start to find your trouble.
Once people are idle, they have the leisure to do nothing, nothing to do, they will start to look for trips, looking for trouble, which is human nature.
3
Girlfriend Ling Ling in a business unit to work, we must also know the nature of the work of the business unit, occasionally busy, often idle.
What do you do in your free time? Chatting, chattering, this chatting process, always can not help but talk about gossip, talk about others.
Company colleagues have a girl 31 years old is not married? I don't know how to think, eighty percent is what she has a problem with it. I heard that so-and-so divorced some time ago, and whoever met something, Lingling are in the discussion of others to learn.
She comments on other people's relationship problems, speculates on other people's families, and is best at gathering people to talk and point fingers at other people's lives.
If one person doesn't join in such chats, he or she will be treated as out of touch. There was a time when Lingling was preparing for the Practitioner's License Examination, and the rest of the day, apart from work, was spent in headlong study, which inevitably led to sarcasm.
In the place of idleness, it is not allowed to appear against the emergence of such an environment, once appeared, will be isolated, it appears to be out of touch.
4
When people are busy, they don't have time to point out other people's lives, because it's not enough just to mind their own business, where is the time to interfere with others?
When people are busy, they are filled with all sorts of things, focusing on what is in front of them, devoting themselves to it, blocking out all the noise around them, and having no time to think about anything else.
When there are many things to do, look forward to being able to idle, but once idle, will begin to look for things, people idle, heart empty, physically and verbally it is difficult to go idle.
When I was young and busy, I was always looking forward to the day of retirement, but after I really retired, if I didn't find something for myself to do, I was ruined.
Even if it is a dance, go out and travel, take a walk, than always stay at home, lying in bed more can feel the meaning of their existence.
5
The human body can not be idle, the busier the body, the more full the heart, no time to think about the West, when the body is idle, the heart will become empty, want to forget people, want to not think of the troubles, will run to the heart, interfere with you.
When you want to forget a person, you really can't be idle, and those who have been there together, experienced things together, will slip out in the idle time, so that you want to forget and can't forget, want to escape and can't escape.
It is said that the only way to forget a person is to have time and a new love, but in fact, time is second to the efficacy of a new love really does not work, I think busy is to forget a person's medicine, when you are busy, life is full of up, there is no time to think about it when you will find that the person who misses a long time has not been run into the heart.
The more leisure people, the more annoyance, all the time spent in the imagination, not to act, fantasize to be better, have a better time, a envy of others, the others have and gain are attributed to good luck, but ignored the other side of the pay.
When you are idle, your heart will become impure, and you can't help but think of many things in a bad way, but for busy people, you just have to fight and fight, and leave the rest to the time.
Find something for yourself, don't go looking for something. Fulfill your life a little bit, the body is busy, the heart will not be empty.