Personal, I think not all the elderly are willing to stay with their children, like my mother does not feel lonely at all, nothing to go to my grandma's home to walk around, aunts and uncles old aunt also live in the village, summer planting a little bit of vegetables, usually with the neighbors nagging, this time because of the epidemic are closed to the village, can not get out of the can not get in, she began to study with the neighbors of the older women to do cold skin, research to make a casserole, life is tasty, we go back to at most stay a week, I think she was too bored with us. The most we can do is to go back and stay for a week, and if we stay for a long time, I think she will think we are annoying and affecting her normal life.
But my mother-in-law feels lonely, the original we are not in a city, I feel that this is quite good, meet twice a year, we can ensure the best mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship, but my mother-in-law is always crying, want to grandchildren, want to son, want to live with us, my husband also said that his mother is old and need to be accompanied by people, we are accompanied by the mother-in-law in order to be able to give up the original life of the city, to the city where she lived, to start from scratch. The city started from scratch, and my mother-in-law said she was accustomed to living here and was not used to changing places, but after living together for a long time she felt that it was not a good idea to live like this.
The old man is just like a child who needs a sense of freshness, too close, too far away, this degree is really difficult to grasp, or live in a city, want to see to meet, do not want to see in their own homes, this is also quite good, the loneliness is also their own to find, go out to dance, play mahjong, chatting is not good?
If one day I am old and my children are far away, I would like to go back to the place where I lived when I was a child, clean up the old house, plant some fruits and vegetables, and enjoy the life, this is what I want, it is best that my parents are also in the outside world to work for a lifetime, it is time to keep them company, the children and grandchildren have the blessings of children and grandchildren, the children have their own lives, do not give the children trouble, find something to do for yourself! The first thing you need to do is to find something for yourself.