The latter we usually call introverted, often such a person, the mouth is silent, the heart has light.
A friend of mine, every time we get together, is as shy as gold, and rarely speaks, but as long as he speaks, he is sure to hit the nail on the head.
A few days ago when the party, talking about the project has a customer, several companies in the fight, I do not know how to securely take. When everyone was talking, a friend interjected:
"Listen to what you guys are saying, in addition to competition at work, see what other needs he has in his life, such as children to enroll in school, there is no way to pull a line."
A word of caution, according to the prescription, successfully taken.
Introverted people, it is not that they will not speak, just do not talk nonsense, they are generally clear thinking, energetic, focused, often are a small team of key opinion leaders.
Love of solitude, hard thinking, emotional stability, such friends, please give me a dozen.
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Introverts, enjoy being alone
For introverts, being alone is a pleasure and the best way to recharge.
My roommate in college was a very introverted boy. He seldom spoke at dormitory sleeper sessions, and he rarely participated in the usual breaks, when people played ball games and drank wine together. He was always sitting down and dealing with his own business without any distractions.
On one occasion, I asked him, "What are you doing alone on your break?"
He replied, "Resting is resting, do what you like, you guys play your games, I play mine, read and write and laze around, I feel comfortable."
I followed up with, "Isn't it boring?"
He shook his head, "I'm more comfortable alone."
While he is not very social, but introverted, he is emotionally rich and sharp, very strong **** emotional ability, coupled with a long time alone to think, writing is very good, the editor of the school magazine magazine, coupled with excellent professional ability, when we are still running for the job, he has long been the preferred offer.
Introverted people are willing to comply with their hearts, in a space, delving into their own field, such people tend to be focused, rarely disturbed by the external environment.
Solitude is solitude, loneliness is solitude, preferring to be alone doesn't mean they are lonely, on the contrary they have a rich inner being and know how to get along with themselves.
Any hustle and bustle for people is a kind of consumption, people in the hustle and bustle after will feel tired and empty. Any tranquility is a kind of nourishment for people, and something can grow inside more or less.
So there is nothing wrong with introverts, they choose to live in a way that makes them feel comfortable, that's all.
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Introverts are good at thinking
There is a saying in the "University" that: when you are determined, you can be quiet, when you are quiet you can be at peace, when you are at peace you can be at ease, when you are at ease you can be at ease, when you are at ease you can be at ease, when you are at ease you can be at ease.
The creator of the famous Nobel Prize, Alfred Nobel, was born weak and sickly, and his poor health prevented him from being as lively and joyful as other children, often acting as a bystander when other children were playing.
The circumstances of his childhood made him a withdrawn, introverted character. But at the same time, he also has the quality of tenacity and bravery that his peers do not have. He often went with his father to experiment with explosives, and spent his childhood almost to the sound of rumbling explosions.
Nobel's inventions were numerous, and he was awarded 255 patents, including 129 for explosives alone. The introverted character has never become a stumbling block on the road to success, on the contrary, let Nobel do things more focused, more pioneering thinking, and constantly pursuing the pinnacle of their careers, and ultimately become a scientific giants.
The introverted person is usually stubborn, and it is hard for others to change him when he decides to do the right thing. They are often able to work towards a certain goal from the beginning to the end, and their chances of success are obviously much higher than other people.
Introverts often have their own unique way of thinking about things. For them, what the world looks like is not as superficial as what they see in front of them.
See the sunset sunset will lament the rush of the morning and evening;
See the feet of the ants will be curious about the fragility and strength of life;
See the streets of traffic will suddenly lament the sea of change;
See the pain of the beggars will be sad and compassionate sighs of the red dust and the vicissitudes of life.
To see things y and thoroughly, because they have a deep inner world, can only insight into all things.
For them, the beauty of the world, sometimes only their own can appreciate, not necessarily to say out loud, say it may not be someone will understand.
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Introverts, not surprised by changes
Introverts, may not have a strong willingness to express, precisely so, in the event of a crisis, on the contrary, more sedate, in their own world to think about the maturity of the people around them to give strength.
Particularly that kind of keen insight, and soon be able to seize the key to the problem and find a solution, if you have a friend around you who likes to be silent, please be sure to cherish him, because in the event that you are in trouble, he just need to open his mouth, and he will certainly give you the solution to solve the problem of the thinking approach.
I have a friend, usually warm and genial, the work of the cold, rarely speak, subordinates privately called him "iceberg".
But this is such an iceberg, every time you meet someone else can not solve the problem, he always shut himself in the office, silently pull a good list of problems, and then open the door, the meeting. Listen to the report of the relevant people, quietly listening to often find the contradictory points. Then give ideas and clear plans.
He was as shy as gold in his work, but as long as the opening often hit the nail on the head, so that subordinates are convinced.
It is such an "iceberg", but gives a person a great sense of security, the whole department as long as he is in, will always be stable and efficient. Especially the ability to control emotions, no matter how tricky things are, he will always just frown and know it lightly.
This lightness and silence gave everyone confidence.
There are two kinds of power in this world, one as bright as a firework and one as deep as still water; the former is brief and brilliant, the latter trickles on.
There is no end to the day's arches, and the end of the work is like the sea. Every quiet thought behind the quiet, one day will be turned into a dust.
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Introverts, light in the heart
In the long river of history, there are many names that shine in the era are introverts. For example, Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, Spielberg, Haruki Murakami ......
However, we often look at those extroverted people in the center of the stage and ignore the introverts who are in the corners with the loneliness and the silent efforts to build up their strength. We always unconsciously treat introverts as incompetent and weak.
Because they are not good at socializing, accustomed to be an audience in the life, the sense of existence is not strong; they are not good at speech, prefer to stay away from the center of the stage, silent efforts; they are delicate and sensitive, even if they are aggrieved, but also will only be in the late night alone to lick their wounds.
But introverts, in fact, also bring their own light:
Introverts, the most affectionate.
They are slow to warm up, not good at making new friends, and are naturally resistant to socializing, but as long as you can get into his life, you'll find that introverts are genuinely enthusiastic and sincere about their old friends.
Introverts are most kind.
They are the most **** affectionate heart of a group of people, take care of your feelings, listen to your life, and they are together, it is always a spring breeze, silent.
Introverts are the most profound.
They are accustomed to using mature thinking to withstand the storms of life, everything to plan and move, the feeling of things deep and unique, always able to seize the key, a shot in the arm.
The introverts are strong at heart.
Still waters run deep, they are always in quiet, unhurried and strong.
Sunny, positive and optimistic is certainly desirable, but those who are quiet, calm, persistent, introverted souls, but also has its own vitality, not to mention a charm.
May you be an introverted and confident person in this world, pleased with yourself, enjoy the solitude, even if there are ten thousand feet of red dust inside, but also will not panic to keep the initial heart, and move forward!