"The feeling of hot and cold is really painful, she is like a gust of wind, come and go in a hurry, everything is not by me." Looking at a face of melancholy Ah Kun, I seem to see a lot of many men who are trapped in love.
Many men are powerless in the face of feelings, they are y in love with a woman, but they can not figure out each other's mind.
The girl's attitude towards them is always loving, cold and hot, they are sometimes happy, sometimes despondent, their emotions are difficult to control even for themselves.
In love, people often can't help themselves, their hearts have others to hold on to, this feeling is both sweet and painful, in the face of two feelings of affection, everyone's perception is happy, and in the face of the elusive emotions, everyone's heart is often insecure, and painful.
Women to you cold and hot, never without reason.
While the woman's heart under the sea needle, the general public can not guess, but a woman will never casually cold and hot to others, if she is cold and hot to you, probably because of the summer.
Not too interested in you
When a woman is not interested in a man, but also often show the state of cold and hot and cold, happy to respond to a few sentences, boredom, chat a few sentences, once there is no time, or there are other chatting, she can not afford to think of you.
In the end, it's just that you're not interested enough, if she has you in mind, she will never be cold and hot for you, and she will always be attached to your words and deeds.
Women in the face of feelings, often very direct, although their performance is not direct, but the attitude is to show.
You pay too much, she is accustomed to
You are not all the time to pay hard, and without asking for a return, over time, you let people have a kind of illusion, you're like a lion has been chasing people to run.
Why do some people turn themselves into "licking dogs" in the process of chasing girls? One of the main reasons is that they are so eager to please that they forget some very important things.
You think that as long as you try to pay, you will be able to get the corresponding return, in fact, not so, chasing the girl this thing is never to pay a certain return, sometimes you pay too much, but people are accustomed to, and you ignore.
You may think that this kind of girl character problem, but this is a phenomenon, this is also a psychological reaction, as the so-called favored emboldened, this sentence is a certain reason.
You are just a member of the spare tire
You are so hard to pay, but the other party's attitude towards you has not been warm, which is a large part of the reason is that you are just a spare tire for her, and you do not have any outstanding points in the many spare tires.
Women for the state of the spare tire is this, you will only hang, but definitely not with you to confirm the relationship with you a little closer to immediately keep the distance, for fear that you think nonsense.
A woman like this to you, you will naturally feel very sad, after all, most people hope that their own pay can get the corresponding return, may be in the minds of people, originally is a dispensable existence.
So in the case of this situation, how should we be good? Don't worry, as long as you can adhere to the following 4 steps, you can do the reverse, she will be in deeper than you.
The first step, adhere to the initiative to pay
Adhere to pay, this is the first step, and is very critical step.
Office Wang is an emotional master, he has used these 4 steps to pursue a lot of girls, and every success, the key to his condition is not particularly good, but he knows how to use psychological tactics, which is where his advantage lies.
He is a person who especially knows how to give, such as getting up early every morning to ask for good morning, caring about each other to eat breakfast, in the middle of the time to find each other to chat, wait until the night time no matter how late he is busy to the night, he will surely give each other to finish the good night before going to bed.
In addition to this, he also acts as a warm man, such as often calling to ask for warmth, but also to the other party to order takeout.
Most girls are emotionally dependent, and if a man is good to her for a long time, she will become mentally dependent on that person after a long time.
Even if she doesn't say it on her lips, the thing is real.
The girls that Xiao Wang pursued, without exception, all have similarities, all of them have become dependent on him in the middle of noiselessness, without knowing it themselves.
Step 2, see the good and show a new life
Unreservedly give can last for a while, but do not stick around for too long, if you stick around for a year and a half, you are likely to be ignored by the other side.
The best time period is three months, three consecutive months you are unreservedly pay, like a warm man on the other side of the life of unquestioning care, so that she will be dependent on you.
When you find that she expects something from you, immediately stop the previous attentiveness, she is no longer so positive, and no longer care about, and then in the circle of friends inside the show their new life.
Why do this? Because a girl always has a drama inside her, which she compiled herself.
If a person who has been good to her for a long time suddenly snubs her and displays his new life in his circle of friends, she will start to panic and think wildly, she thinks that this man must have a new love, otherwise it is impossible to be like this.
This time she will gradually feel afraid, after all, she has been accustomed to each other's existence, if the man suddenly to another person good, her position was replaced by someone else, she will not only be upset, but also feel very lost.
That's right, what you have to do is to create this sense of loss. Only by letting her have the feeling of loss, you can pull her emotions, instead of being led by her nose from the beginning to the end.
Step 3, the desire to escape
When the girl noticed your change, most will try to salvage the relationship, or that she is reluctant, always want to try your attitude, so you will start to be a little more attentive to you.
Did you realize that she was like this before, when you were about to give up, she suddenly became enthusiastic about you, so you became enthusiastic, but when you were enthusiastic about her attitude and immediately cold down.
This time no matter how you can not be held by her nose again, you have to know how to tackle, she saw you no longer enthusiastic so they took the initiative to look for you, you do not show too much attentiveness, but she love to ignore, so that she has a sense of frustration.
In short, it is the way she treated you before, so that she felt as if she was a dispensable presence for you, you occasionally chat with her, and occasionally show cold.
Step 4, wait for her to fall y into it
People's emotions will gradually change with the fluctuation of certain things, slowly she will fall y into it, perhaps she herself can not tell, in the end, in the end, is the heart of the heart is not willing to or really deep love for you.
But no matter what, her emotions can be affected by you son for you is the best time.
Remember the desire to escape can be, but do not overdo it, you do overdo it, she is natural really go.
The girl's emotions come and go quickly, wait until she is really in it, you must seize the opportunity.
You can always ask her to come out for a walk, and then find the right time to confess to her, and tell her that if she doesn't say yes, you shouldn't see each other again from now on, and don't contact her again.
Usually you will be successful, because by this time she will have been drawn to you.
Men who want to catch a woman's heart need to pay attention to the strategy, a lot of men always want to touch the way to achieve the purpose, we do not rule out that efforts can be rewarded.
In real life, it is true that some men through their own efforts and touched each other, but that is, after all, a very small minority, some women are very adamant about self, no matter what you do she will not feel touched.
Do a wise man, do not be held by others all day long, the pursuit of girls to pay attention to the method, so as to achieve twice the result with half the effort.
Of course this series of methods, are to make love better, rather than simply to deceive.