The heart to heart, to daughter-in-law filial piety in-laws, first of all do in-laws is good to others ah! There is that key person, the man in the family, don't be an ostrich all day long ah, you can only attack the heart. Because this kind of thing is not good, you are good to others, they will be good to you! Elementary school students understand the truth, some people live to dozens of years, just still do not understand.
They always feel that the daughter-in-law is not filial to those in-laws, because their subconscious mind feels that their son married someone else, they have to serve them! The standard of the old society to demand others, to get up at three times and clean up at four times, now who can stand it? Others have to get up in the freezing cold to cook breakfast for them while they are pregnant. If you don't do it, you are unfilial. If you don't serve them well, you are being disrespectful.
You don't have to look at yourself in the mirror, you're just an in-law, you're not someone's master. What ability do you have to make others please you as if they were servants? Without recognizing the status of the daughter-in-law, you can't afford to step down and keep putting others down. The result is that no one is convinced of anything, and you accuse and I curse you. This is originally the daughter-in-law has been aggrieved, she is not happy, of course, lazy to please you.
Other people are filial to their parents because they are family. But you never treat others as outsiders, and they don't owe your family anything, so they don't want to listen to you, and they have to look at you.
Some in-laws are even more disgusting, thinking that because they gave such a high gift, their daughter-in-law should be subservient to them. Ridiculous, that should go directly to hire a high-level nanny, the identity of the nature of the wrong positioning, is also one of the triggers.
And then there's that husband, you're a little better to your mother-in-law before you say it. Don't blame others all day long, examine yourself more.