Young people and older people grow up in two different times, so there is a natural gap between their values, habits of thinking, and habits of living. However, this society is composed of the old, the young, the young and the young, and young people inevitably have to deal with the elderly, so how should they communicate with the elderly?
In fact, it is very simple, only need to follow a principle: stand in the position of the other side to think about the problem, so that you can be very good communication.
To illustrate, there are two common examples:
1, the young and the old go out to eat.
If the young people stand in the perspective of the elderly to think: Oh, I have bad teeth, to eat soft and rotten some of the food; gastrointestinal problems, to choose easy to digest some; lipids and high blood pressure, you must eat oil and salt are light some of the; and, the price is also affordable some of the ...... When these factors are taken into account, they should go out to eat what and where to eat has become very simple, and there will not be young people want to eat such and such, the elderly want to eat that, and in the end both sides are not satisfied.
2, young people and the elderly for children's clothing requirements.
Young parents will feel: to dress up the child is very decent, fashion, so as to cultivate the child's aesthetic ability from an early age, clothing with the level. And older people will feel: the child grows so fast, a year a kind, spend so much money, buy so many clothes, can only wear a year can not wear, really a waste.
If the young people stand in the perspective of the elderly to think, you can so communicate with the elderly: 1, the child lives in the city, the need to dress decently, so that the child's aesthetic ability to cultivate the future will also be helpful. 2, the child is in kindergarten or elementary school, the other people to see the child dressed in a decent manner, behave politely, but also will look at him, to give him more help. 3, we can select some of the We can choose some good quality and cost-effective clothes for our children to wear without having to buy expensive ones.4. If our children can't wear the clothes anymore, we can donate them to children in poor areas, so they won't be wasted. This communication, most of the elderly will be able to accept very well.
Of course, life, young people and the elderly to communicate with the things involved in all aspects, the above is just to cite two examples to illustrate, regardless of young people and the elderly in the concept of values, habits of thought and other aspects of the difference, as long as the stand in the other side of the position to think about the problem, to respect the other side of the idea, and then patiently communicated, there can be a very good result of the exchange.