My elder brother bought a foundation for a retirement house in the suburbs, which is now in ruins.
My elder brother has not yet retired, for the post-retirement life arrangements, has always longed for a courtyard, courtyard planting flowers and vegetables to raise dogs and chickens farm life, yearning for fresh air, quiet and calm old age world, so the investment is not a lot of money, bought a piece of land in the old country, made a two-story small house, before and after the yard. After the house is done, the older brother was delighted, set up a good home, the yard planted a variety of trees, the backyard also planted fruits and melons, the older brother tends to car to go from time to time, and sister-in-law to live for a few days, over the days of the gods.
After retirement, the older brother wants his sister-in-law to live with him in a small building, sister-in-law is not willing. Because the sister-in-law every evening to dance square dance, to play with her sisters, where life is not familiar. Big brother had no choice but to go alone, but found the countryside in the countryside, hot days, mosquitoes, not to mention that a power outage, air conditioning can not be used for a long time, no one, the refrigerator frozen things, a rotten running water. The house is overgrown with weeds, finishing a tired to lie down.
Later, my brother suffered from gout, and had to take injections for pain relief, living in the countryside, foot pain can not drive, get a motorized car, find a hospital to spend half a day's work, tossing people. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money from the company, and then you have to pay a lot of money.
After two years, my brother and sister-in-law do not want to live in the countryside building, feel uncomfortable, inconvenient, my brother's small building has been abandoned, want to sell, the price of low paddle, the price of no one asked for, became a hot potato.
Ideal is very rich, the reality is very boneFirst of all, the ideal is very rich, many friends in the suburbs to buy a pension house, want to wait for their own retirement to live in the past, and by the way, raise some flowers, planting a little vegetables, in order to get away from the world, and even learn a Tao Yuanming, "pick chrysanthemums under the East Fence, leisurely see the South Mountain", want to think of a very beautiful, looks like it is also indeed very beautiful. I think it's a very beautiful idea, and it does look very beautiful.
Besides, the reality is very bone dry. As a traditional agricultural society, even if you are a city dweller, the last three generations are basically from the countryside. The first thing you need to do is to ask yourself why you want to escape from the countryside in the first place. Of course, there are many reasons, such as low output of land, earn less money, can not fill the stomach; such as supporting incomplete, infrastructure is not perfect, transportation, living, medical and other inconveniences; and so on, really want to go to live in the winter, no heating, no air conditioning in the summer, mosquitoes, insects, snakes and rats are a small matter of a nest of fixed in a geographical area, that is, so that you deal with the left-right relationship, enough to make you scratch your head.
After all, Comrade Marx said, people are the sum of social relations, a person, no matter how much you are tired of society, but you can not leave the community, really to the countryside, drink a small wine, rub a small hemp, you do not necessarily find the right friends. Thinking back to the home to fight the epidemic, we in addition to food and drink what we need the most on the know.
In short, buying a house in the suburbs is a good idea, but when you retire and go to live there, you will know that you may be able to live there for a long time, and it may still be unrealistic.
The beauty of nature in the suburbs
makes the heart wide and happy
So you buy a house
The most pleasant place to live in retirement
The days after retirement
You have a relatively healthy body
Feeling a different style
Breathing fresh air
The mood is not pleasant.
It's just that as time goes by
the body gets weaker and weaker
there will be problems
getting to the doctor is a big problem
the big hospitals are located in the city
it's a long way to travel, and the traffic is so congested
it's physically exhausting
the best thing to do is to take a taxi
plus it costs money to get to the doctor
you'll have to pay a lot of money.
It costs a lot of money
Once you go there
It's really exhausting
It's too late to regret it
There is a feeling of regret, and the idea doesn't fit the reality.
Not yet retired, they aspire to buy a house in the suburbs and live an idyllic life.
I've been dreaming about a small yard with a vegetable patch, and it's not a bad idea to plant flowers and vegetables.
Cutting a spring leek, pulling a little cabbage, frying the earth egg sauce, eating a little sorghum rice, can be quite appetizing.
The yard to build a grapevine, summer, get a rocking chair, sip tea, smell the rural grass, ride the cool. The feeling is quite moist.
The dog barks, the rooster crows, the hen lays eggs, the sparrow makes a nest on the eaves, and the swallow wraps around the beams of the house, and it feels like it's very cut-throat, and the sky is the limit!
And then install a ping-pong table, invite a few friends, play ball, grill some kebabs, drink some beer, enjoy the old age.
But the reality is not so, in the city life is used to, the park is lively, the home is quiet, clean, clean, everywhere there are people, big supermarkets and shopping malls randomly shop. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you'll be able to get your hands on some of them.
Really in the suburbs to buy a room to live, tired not to mention, summer mosquito bites you can not stand, winter is also cold, living suffering ah!
Then someone will ask, how do people stay in the countryside, I can tell you, people and people's living environment is not the same, endurance is not the same. One side of the water and soil to raise people, they have been used to adapt to that kind of life.
There is another point, mainly the city people are most afraid of loneliness, circle of friends in the city ah! The first thing I'd like to say is that I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this, but I think I'm going to be able to do it.
I have a friend is this, go to the suburbs of the countryside to raise geese to go, the results of the goose did not earn money, people also stayed stupid, once we went to see him, far from looking at him sitting at the gate, two eyes straight out of the shadow of the place where there is no one to look, daze ah! When we left, he was reluctant to leave! Later, insisted not to continue, the goose is not raised, after the disposal, retired from the rented house back to the city to live.
The questioner asked if retiring to the suburbs is really a good idea. I can tell you clearly, go to the regret. Or don't buy, nothing to which small resorts temporary short tour is okay.
To tell the truth, people to the old time, more like a kind of idyllic life, more like no hustle and bustle, no people and cars to and from the scene. So if there are a lot of people who choose the elegant place to retire, it is also considered an extenuating circumstance.
I was in 2013 to my parents in the city to buy the building, the building bought, my father and mother let me how to persuade, can not give up his bungalow, and insisted on taking the bus. Go back to the bungalow pickles, all kinds of land. Anyway, with the mother they say, this life is the best, living in the cottage, the most comfortable in the summer, so that this way of life has continued to the present, the father and mother said, we are like migratory birds, like the winter back to the building. The summer back to the bungalow is really quite good.
I think people will go to live, but may not be a long-term residence, because:
1. When they really retired, a variety of objective reasons will make them go to live in the determination to shake.
2. Pension house, as the name suggests, is a house for the elderly to live in leisure and recuperation. The city people in the suburbs to buy a retirement home, looking at the location of the house, the surrounding natural environment, the acceptable price of the house. There are a number of variables that people overlook when buying a house:
First, whether or not your body will allow you to live far away from the city, your children and relatives, and the familiar big hospitals.
Secondly , whether the spirit is truly willing to live in a completely foreign, quiet environment, free of the human affairs around us.
Thirdly, whether the family can let go of their children and grandchildren.
To summarize, in the suburbs to buy a pension house most people are going to - to live, but fewer people live in the long term. So it's more appropriate to call a house bought in the suburbs a seasonal house, a leisure house or a holiday house.
Speaking of two home truth:
First, my father-in-law retired teacher, mother-in-law retired doctor. 1997 Spring Festival, the two old man back home, Guizhou Province, Bijie County, Guizhou Province Zhongshan Township. On the second day of the Chinese New Year, my father-in-law suffered a cerebral hemorrhage. The children and nephews under the command of the mother-in-law, carrying the father-in-law into the township hospital. But at that time, the medical equipment of the township hospital was backward, so it could only be sent to the county hospital urgently. The first time I saw this was when I was in the hospital, and the second time I saw it was when I was in the hospital.
If they were in the year, located in the back door of the Guizhou Provincial Medical College in the house of the Ji district home New Year's Eve, from the Medical College Hospital, less than ten minutes walk, father-in-law will have to be rescued over the hope.
Second, we are now living in Guiyang City, Jinhua Park neighborhood, is a better school district housing. I'm not sure if I've ever been in the same place before, but I'm sure I've been in the same place before, and I'm sure I've been in the same place before. Because of the fact that the children can get into a good school after buying a house, the second-hand houses in this neighborhood are actively traded and have relatively high prices.
My former colleagues in the same age group are all around 50 years old, and their children are now in college or working. The school district housing is not very meaningful to them. So many of my old neighbors sold their houses and bought a non-good school district house of the same size, and got a lot of money from the difference in price.
My husband and wife had the same intention, and were about to change their house when the province's top-ranking hospital, the provincial people's hospital new site, was planning to start construction in the neighborhood.
The new provincial hospital is less than a ten-minute walk from my home. Through the windows of my home, I can see the two buildings of the provincial medical center that were built first.
So, we completely canceled the intention to change the house.
So we're not going to change our minds about this.
Suburbs that are foreign to the countryside, will not live long.
Fantasize that you can grow vegetables, soil barren seedlings sparse fertilizer dirty.
The weeds are overgrown with mosquitoes, and the culverts may be full of shit.
The infrastructure is not fully equipped, and the neighborhood is as noisy as a playground.
Neighbors are mostly mercenary, no friends or relatives come to visit.
Far away from children and units, bullied to scold.
When I bought the house, I thought it was a good idea, but I was alone in the house.
Once you're sick, you'll have to retreat, and it's ridiculous to buy a house at a low price.
I am one of them, from childhood to live in the center of Shanghai in the most lively place, in the City God Temple on the side of a live is fifty-five years, but how many times a year to go to the crowded City God Temple to play or go to buy things? Will not go! Except when friends and relatives from abroad come! From their own home is very close to the Bund Nanjing Road will not go once or twice a year, to do what? Shopping? Expensive! To see the scenery, too many people? Seriously want to find the most after retirement to live, is the front of the garden patio or reserved land, after a dozen square feet to live in the place, the sunrise and rise, sunset and rest! Cultivate your body and mind! A pot of tea, plant some flowers, raise some birds! After the 60s, we should have met all of them! The netizen said away from the city will be inconvenient, in Shanghai, the third-class hospitals in the suburbs opened a branch, the subway **** there are sixteen lines, what is the emergency taxi, drop car minutes and seconds to the door, still afraid of what?
I don't have the experience or the money to buy a house in the suburbs to retire. I can only say that between sixty and eighty years of age in the twenty years, you still have enough mental energy physical ability? Raising flowers and growing vegetables and trimming hedges and planting chrysanthemums is fine for rural people, but harder for you... Old age does not come together, but like the popularity of the child. Personally, I don't like the environment with many trees and few people, so I'll live wherever I feel comfortable and convenient! The last part of the road is not good.