To be fair, who didn't have an ignorant first love when they were young?
The emotion of first love, like the mist in the morning, is elusive and unpredictable, and the most affectionate gaze can't cross this confusion. It is this vague emotional psychology that makes countless boys and girls involuntarily fall into it. Eyes so hopelessly stay on someone, just want to cross the depths of the fundus, just want to guess this heart, just want to be sad and happy with him, just want to hold his hand and go to spring together, feel the color of first love together, and accept the changes of the four seasons together. This feeling is not straightforward and reckless. It has a hint, a vague hint, a mysterious and unspeakable meaning, and what can best be expressed is to stop and talk about it.
Zhang Lin, who is in the second day of this year, doesn't know this is called love. All she knows is that she wants to see him all the time. Every look back, every smile and every back of his head fascinates her and never tires of watching it. Whenever he inadvertently turned his eyes to her, Zhang Lin's heart would be filled with waves of the lake, and the water lilies in the lake would quietly bloom in a dream, wake up and become eternal in an instant. In daily communication, she always remembers everything he said to Zhang Lin and often looks for his shadow in the crowd. She is used to silently praying for him and enjoying his enthusiasm and vitality all the time. Zhang Lin almost lived for him, lived for him, died for him, and even willingly lived in this ecstatic fantasy. Zhang Lin doesn't care about the final result, right or wrong. In a word, she likes this wonderful feeling. Although sweetness is accompanied by bitterness, it will never be forgotten.
It can be seen that emotional psychology plays a vital role in this stage of emotional change of middle school students. I don't think my heart moves with him, and every scene must have his presence. In fact, middle school students love and hurt without regrets in their first love, but they are more holding such a psychology: they don't care about eternity, but only care about possession. Because eternity is out of reach and impossible for students, because middle school students simply have no ability to bear love. So they can only endure the inner pain and struggle. It's not that they don't long for vigorous, vows of eternal love, but that they are more oppressed by reality, because this kind of love can only blossom but not bear fruit. Therefore, we can only seek a good unrequited love in the plain and take care of our first love. And this kind of emotional psychology, just right to the ignorance of the first love feelings to the extreme. First love is beautiful, it is the only way for every middle school student's life, and everyone will bump into youth.
First love is the easiest flower to bloom, but it is the most difficult fruit to bloom. No matter how beautiful, sad and magnificent, this kind of beauty can only exist in your memory and in the passionate chapters of literati, but the emotional psychology lurking in human beings is changing.
The emotion of first love is like a drizzle in spring, which is constantly being cut and confused, nourishing the hearts of boys and girls and their clothes. Although standing in the rain can feel each other's breathing, but can not see each other's faces, can not penetrate the layers of drizzle tightly embrace; The feeling of first love is like the charming sun in summer, shining every inch of the earth's skin, but burning many flowers and trees. It makes boys and girls feel the light, but they are afraid to go near it, fearing that it will die soon. The emotion of first love is like the fruit of autumn. Although it is the harvest season, it is also accompanied by more hard work and sweat. If you are not careful, you will get nothing, and all your efforts will hit Shui Piao, which is unpredictable and unpredictable. First love is like snow in winter, crystal clear and flawless, which makes people unable to bear to destroy this piece of silver. The emotion of first love makes people fondle it, but it also makes people feel the biting cold, which makes people unable to see through how many puzzled and helpless emotional psychology are hidden under its appearance.
Hui fell in love at first sight, and Hui couldn't express that feeling in words. In short, this is a strange excitement. At the thought, Hui's heart will vibrate inexplicably, and then a smile will float around her mouth. Hui wants to look at her quietly like this, but she always makes eyes at him involuntarily, almost recklessly. Over time, the two young hearts began to approach each other. Huihe can understand each other's thoughts well without using any language, only using body language. Unfortunately, the good times did not last long. Middle school students are doomed to love without a happy ending and to separation. At the graduation ceremony, Xiang Xiang told Hui that she would obey her father's orders and go back to work in the south, but Hui wanted to stay in this quiet city to work and live, so she reluctantly left. With the passage of time, a few years later, Hui got married and had children, but she never forgot that hazy feeling, and often buried it in her heart and took it back from time to time to speed up. It was not until the class reunion that Huihe met again, but they were not as excited as they thought. He found that there was nothing special between Xiang Xiang and other women. The two sides just greeted each other politely. "How have you been these years?" Hui just woke up at the moment. It turned out that he just missed the feeling of being with Xiangxiang. At that time, she was frozen by him, and now she is not the same as before. Then he smiled. It turns out that love is just first love.
From this story, we can easily see the mystery. The beauty of first love lies not in a person, but in the process. But in real life, there are still so many people who miss their first love. In fact, missing the first love does not mean how eternal that person is, but how important it is to commemorate that process.
The famous female writer San Mao once wrote: "First love is a milestone in life." Middle school students, in particular, are too young to really understand what love is. I only care about the temporary feeling, but this feeling is all in the world, and I don't need clever means of love. As long as it is consensual, you have a feeling that I intend to hit it off, but the fact is not that simple. Emotional psychologists believe that middle school students' time is not the season of love at all, and the reason why they have restless hearts is entirely because of the improvement of physical and mental development with age. But it is not the right to love with certain development. Middle school students who have this idea are caused by wrong emotional psychology. Because middle school students simply have no ability to bear love, therefore, middle school students must correct their emotional psychology. It is only a matter of time before the first love can pass. Some middle school students are willing to die for love and travel around the world to find love, thinking that they can pass the test on the road of love. In fact, emotions will undoubtedly cause serious psychological load. Therefore, middle school students should correctly face the ignorant first love emotion.
The feeling of first love is confused and ignorant, sacred and vigorous, deep and mournful, hot and intense. First love brings hope to boys and girls in the flower season, and also brings them countless disappointments; First love makes young life full of vitality, but also makes young life suffer; First love can make teenagers in the flower season devote themselves to their studies with full enthusiasm, and it can also make them suffer psychological torture of dragging their feet. Therefore, whether emotional psychology is healthy or not plays a decisive role here.