Even if the grandmother does not want it, it should be given. The elderly help to bring up the children and give labor, the children give return; therefore, the elderly demand for wages is not justified and should be supported.
No matter which way you look at it, the elderly are not obliged to bring up children for their children, they sacrifice their own time for square dancing to help, they should be paid a certain amount of money; to take a step back, if it is to ask for a sister-in-law or a nanny, the market price to be even higher, and now the elderly as long as the monthly salary of 2,000 yuan, but in fact, still give the children a great deal of help.
But some people think that the elderly are older after the children to take care of, in the case of physical allowances to help with the children is also desirable, if you also want to pay too much out of the ordinary, it will cause damage to the family affinity.