It happened in Luoyang. A group of grandmothers occupied the whole basketball court in order to dance square dance. The young people who came to play basketball had an argument with their theory. Then the grandmothers swarmed and besieged the little players, besieged the little players, and besieged the little players. ....
In the video, the square dance troupe composed of square dance grandfathers and aunts is a set of "combination skills release" for young people in their twenties, and the picture of the group's extinction is simply too tragic.
This incident has once again caused people to discuss whether the bad guys are getting old or the old people are getting bad. In a word, the tendency of public opinion is obvious: firstly, these old people are at fault.
Therefore, in addition to the basic judgment of right and wrong, mixed with the anger of the square dance disturbing the people, the vast number of "people who eat melons" came to the same front and asked the basketball teenagers for advice. All kinds of jokes about the moral decay of the elderly and the square dance elderly reappeared, and the square dance elderly once again became the object of ridicule.
A picture of Zhang Hecheng is widely circulated: Ten years ago, the old man and his children competed for the bus. Ten years later, when the children grew up, the old man came to compete with them for the basketball court. A picture, the changes and invariance of two generations are clear at a glance, and the meaning is clear at a glance.
Too much coverage of this kind of thing can easily lead to the idea that the old people "don't respect the old" and "rely on the old to sell the old", but this is only a symptom.
Have we thought more deeply: What is the real reason for this phenomenon?
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The phenomenon of "old people cheating" is common on the Internet.
Not just a square dance.
There are also online reports that on a bus, the old man swore when he saw the girl not giving up her seat. After the girl said a few words, the old man punched and kicked her and pulled the girl's hair at random.
Also, the old man accidentally slipped on the road, and the kind-hearted young man passed by and asked about the situation enthusiastically. As a result, after the young man helped the old man up, he was caught by the old man's backhand and shouted at passers-by, claiming that the student had knocked him down.
Public opinion is always keen on such reports that "the old man is cheating", and even the literary programs in the Spring Festival Evening and online film and television dramas insinuate the improper behavior of the old man by performing such scenes.
I don't object to the news of this unfair phenomenon, and I also express my anger at the unreasonable behavior of some elderly people with low quality, but I object to this kind of behavior that only reports without in-depth research, discussion and analysis to solve this phenomenon.
Because if you just report it, you can't solve this kind of problem well. In the future, such square dance fights, buses not giving up their seats, and roads touching porcelain will still happen one after another.
Our elderly friends seldom play in the circle of friends and brush Weibo. You speak fast on the Internet. Although you are cool to young netizens, can you guide the old, especially the unreasonable old?
Moreover, blindly "digging graves" will also cause a phenomenon: deepening the gap and opposition between young people and old people and between two generations.
The way of thinking of old people is very different from that of young people. These 60-and 70-year-old generations, who have never read any books, have been brainwashed by the party and organizations all their lives and belong to the kind of death. Most of our post-90 s and post-00 s are well-educated, have their own views on right and wrong, and have labels such as "self", "personality" and "independence".
These two kinds of people exist in two spiritual worlds. Now, this kind of "emotional" reports are more, and the opposition and even "hatred" between the two generations are more profound.
Ever since, when it comes to square dance, there is an idea of "you get it when you are good"; On the bus, young people are even more reluctant to give up their seats to the elderly. The "good guy" is embarrassed to sit down because of his face. Even if he is very tired, the "old bad guy" will ask for his seat unreasonably; On the way, the old man fell, and no one wanted to help him, even if the old man was injured, he didn't care. ....
At this point, who will protect the social morality of "respecting the old and loving the young" advocated by our society? How can we inherit the traditional virtues of our country?
This is all caused by your "emotional" report. You still have time and energy to dig graves and report all kinds of bad behaviors of the elderly. Why not think more about how to solve such a problem?
I believe that "measures" are more meaningful than "complaints" at any time.
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What's the problem?
Back to Luoyang Square Dance, there is no other responsible party except for beating young uncles and aunts. Not necessarily.
The essence of this incident is the dispute of "site", and the reason behind it is the unreasonable planning of urban land resources.
China society is experiencing the biggest urbanization change in history, and the land price and use scale of the city have become precious and scarce because of the influx of population. A large amount of land is used for housing construction, but the corresponding supporting facilities have not been effectively followed up.
This leads to the lack of public space, so the needs of different groups will conflict, which is also the fundamental reason why the square dance aunts and grandfathers compete for the basketball court.
If the managers also plan a plot of land for the elderly aunts, set up an activity center for the elderly, and let these aunts and uncles dance square dance there, will they still compete with the boys for the basketball court?
This phenomenon exists not only in Luoyang, but also in other places. Essentially, we still don't pay much attention to the elderly.
Few people can pay attention to the living conditions of the elderly. If you hadn't reported these square dance incidents, bus beating incidents and road porcelain incidents, would you still pay attention to the elderly?
As is often broadcast on TV and advertisements, children generally don't visit their elderly parents, and the elderly go back to see them when they are sick. If you don't pay enough attention to your own flesh and blood, who else will?
Therefore, some managers do not pay enough attention to the elderly and do not give them a special venue. Old people can only warm each other and comfort each other to pass the long and boring time after retirement.
Why not pay attention? For society, the elderly, as a special group, are no longer creators of social values, but users of the fruits of labor, so naturally they will not care too much about them, but more about their emotions.
The old people are in sharp contrast with the "flower of society". The whole society will always pay attention to children, and almost all good resources will focus on them to train them, because they are the future. There can be no activity center for the elderly in the community, but there must be kindergartens, maintenance centers, nurseries and so on.
In the final analysis, our society does not pay enough attention to the lives of the elderly. Our whole society and managers have the responsibility.
The problem of the elderly is a very heavy social problem. While exposing this problem, we should actively think about how to solve it, which is a very meaningful thing for the whole society.
Let care be implemented, and society can progress!