Many women in this life are entangled in how to live, there are people who have come to tell you, live a good life to live in fact, there is a template, just they tell you, you may not listen to it.
But no matter what age you are now, may wish to listen to the feelings of those who have come before, interviewed 100 women over the age of 50, their views on living a happy life are almost uniform, that is:
First, 20 years old, to learn to let loose, to learn to pursue freedom, don't be so knowledgable.
Adolescence, do not attach too much importance to right and wrong, go to like the people you want to like, go to do the things you want to do, go to pursue the life you want to do, in making a decision, do not care about the matter of the front is there a wolf or a tiger, is the abyss or mountains, even if you are in the road all over the body and bones, it does not matter, as long as there is still a breath of air, you know that this road is wrong.
But until you know it yourself, it's useless for anyone to say anything, in case one or two people talk you out of trying it, then you'll regret it too, and in your 20s regret is the least worthwhile thing, you've got a lot of years to try out all kinds of life experiences, make sure you don't miss them.
Too early to understand the people, mostly compressed their emotions and desires, most will usher in the rebound in middle age, such as married to the first love of the people prone to middle-aged derailment, while the rich love affair of the people are at peace with the status quo of the marriage, such as entering the system with an iron rice bowl will brag about if I start a business in that year how how to start a business, and really entrepreneurial people early or successful across the hierarchy or failure to learn to cherish.
It doesn't matter, you have 10 years of youth can come to trial and error, your parents spend their lives trying to work hard, is for you to give you the bottom, so that you have no fear in adolescence to pursue their own. Saying this now you may not understand what I mean, by 30 you will.
Secondly, when you are 30 years old, you should know how to cherish and learn to take people and things seriously.
The 30-year-old capricious shall not be, is your own do not want to let loose, do not believe you go to ask 30 + child-bearing girls afraid of unemployment, afraid of death, afraid of illness, when a person cares about more things, she will become careful.
No more jumping from job to job in three days, no more moonlighting, no more eating cold things and not wearing fall pants. They will move the center of gravity of their lives away from their egos a little bit, spreading their love into pieces, but always feeling that they don't love others enough and can't do enough.
So, they are cautious, treading on thin ice, living an awkward and heartbreaking life, "I'm too hard" is the first thing they say when they wake up and see so many unfulfilled wishes and dreams. It is the first thing they say when they wake up and see so many unfulfilled wishes and dreams, and it is the phrase that carries them into old age.
Busy and loving, their wrinkles crept into their faces.
Third, 50 years old, to understand that "everything that exists must be reasonable" to accept everything.
An aunt once said that the square dance aunt's happiness and smile is the most heartfelt, they do not care 30 meters away from the puppy just finished urinating, regardless of the fifth floor of the old colleagues are saying bad things about him. What does it matter, and what does it matter.
The dog would then be taken away by its owner, and the old coworkers, one of whom had lung cancer and the other had lost her husband, were the only ones who were happy to have warm dumplings, an old man reading the newspaper, and grandchildren who hadn't returned from school.
Satisfaction so that they know, other people's business has nothing to do with their own, only the emotions and the body is their own, do not go back to be the day-to-day "Prime Minister", shut down their own, accept everything around them, is wise.