When we were young, we didn't feel too much pressure. When I was in my forties, I suddenly felt so stressed that I really crushed people. My parents are getting older and sicker every year. Do you think two meals are enough? The real cost is getting sick. So many people don't want to live with their parents, and one of the two brothers has one, so a brother really has no choice but to live with them. Some brothers are also separated, and their own play is more comfortable. After decades, there is no turning back. It is difficult to achieve anything in the next few decades. Without original efforts and too much knowledge, some inherent cognition has indeed been formed, and the age at which people can live is indeed here, at most, 100 years old, and the rest of the time is to take care of their families. This is much less likely than when they were young.
No one can guarantee that his health will be disease-free and disaster-free. Our health will not always be good, so some people only accumulate some capital in the first half of their lives, and their families are healthy, so there is no need to worry, but their physical conditions are absolutely not allowed to fight like young people. If people around you get along well, they will find it difficult to maintain the status quo. Keep it up. Just in case, don't screw it up. Who will support the family and feed themselves? When the time comes, the body won't stay up. Who will take care of this family? You will be anxious if you don't get along well, so will your development. Why are others better than themselves? And before you turn around, you used to hang out with young people.
What people want after middle age is a quiet life, without disease or disaster. As long as you are in a good mood, you can be open-minded, live long and work hard. Leave it to young people and keep their accumulated capital. In order to support their families, middle-aged men have to work hard. The more dangerous they are, the higher their wages are. In desperation, they had to exchange their lives for money, earn their own money, and let their son go to school. What if my parents get sick without money? What about my son's tuition? Is it free to marry a daughter-in-law in the future? Without a house and a car, people can't come, and the pressure is even greater.