Ordinary story
Ordinary story 1Ordinary happiness
Wen/San Thing Jun said so
Previously, I have always felt that there is a kind of ordinary worry, although not intentionally want to be famous and head of the world, but also do not want to mediocrity, there is no pursuit, at least would like to try to struggle a little bit to go to the goodness. I don't want to be a hero, I don't want to spend my life like this. After work, or on weekends, sleep a lazy, watch a TV feel in the waste of time, waste of youth, there is a kind of life of guilt and self-regret, only to read books, writing only feel frank and peaceful. After experiencing some life and death, bizarre life, life is like a change, life has become more precious, honor has become more casual, feel lost tomorrow, the future is in a trance, life is incredible, and unfathomable, the only thing you can do is to be gorgeous at the moment, happy at this moment, and the future will go with the flow.
Ordinary, put down the aristocratic mind, do what you want to do, no longer for the blows of others, slander, ridicule, indifference, abandonment, burying and anger, and no longer because of the sound of praise and applause and rejoice, because I know all the hustle and bustle will pass by, because I know that life in the calm and meager will also be great and intriguing.
Ordinary, think the love is the most important, find a lover, let love drown out the hard life, let the Secretary full of youthful years, with leisure, and even boredom of the heart to waste time also do not feel uneasy. Less calculation, more tolerance, less perfect, more love, thanks to the blessing of love, life turned out to be ordinary also cozy like poetry.
The ordinary, think health is the most important, only health to love, to live a long life with the family to walk more, to go to the book, writing, in order to implement their own dream of literature. Literature is no longer like the past to imagine so hard, long, luxuriant, arduous and outstanding, but still sacred as yesterday, it can already be like an orchid, can be small and fragrant, it can be like a butterfly, dashing and free, stop and go.
Ordinary, sometimes there are ordinary tangled, but no longer have the ordinary panic before, perhaps because of the recognition of the Taoist law of nature, but I believe that I am not to admit defeat, not to see through the world, and not negative degeneration.
In the past, I wanted to write a lot, I wanted to create a large part, I wanted to encompass everything in the novel, the grandeur, now I don't want to, one is to know the greatness of the ordinary, I want to pursue the greatness of the easy, from the ordinary to meet the monumental, and the second is to know the preciousness of the human life, the real life.
Ordinary, not unintentionally great, but go with the flow, less purposeful, not deliberate, not forced, not seeking reward, not counting the results, and learn to savor more of the road to the wonderful scenery.
We work so hard to be an ordinary person
Wen/water annabella
When one day, you suddenly found that once stood in the same starting line with you and even less than your small partners all of a sudden dumped you far far away, and now you can only look up to him, and his aura makes you You'll instantly realize that you've wasted your time. You will be instantly remorseful that you wasted a lot of time, and will blame yourself for not being diligent enough. But the truth is, it doesn't quite work that way. Because most people walk, or ordinary road.
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He starred, you dark
Summer and a high school friend to meet, many years have not seen, and now she is in a world-class university to read the doctor. Along the way, she told me a lot of interesting stories about studying abroad, and also talked about some of the bullish characters around her - all of them are the world's top academic figures, including the Nobel laureates in her field of study. She said she was the only Chinese in her office, and the others were from Italy, England, Argentina, and Germany. They live together as if in a global village. She talked about the laziness and efficiency of the Italians, the seriousness and rigor of the Germans, the English humor of the British, and the laughter of the traditional European aristocrats when they talked about their disdain for the North American tycoons.
She spoke with a great deal of energy, and her several years of overseas experience have made her more confident and open-minded, with a broader perspective, but still so humble. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it in a few hours. Once in a classroom with the same academic performance are the same top, and now I and her platform and achievements are so different, do not feel that they are sad.
Later on, I learned that the undergraduate H students have published a second book, sleeping in the bunk Y students immediately went to the United States to study for a doctorate, often eat together with the L students will soon be settled in the famous university teaching, weight loss practice hula hoop W students a year ago on behalf of their company to recruit students at the University of Sichuan. --Originally, three years after graduation, it was too late to take a closer look, so many people around me were polished into a shining gold, the shining beam of light pierced my eyes can not help but tears. From the bottom of my heart, I am happy for them, yet more for their own mediocre sadness.
The turning point of life requires so much luck and boldness
People say that five years after graduation, the gap between students is highlighted. During this period, the individual's degree of effort, opportunity and luck, the opportunity to grasp, God's favor a variety of factors led to the final result. Many successful friends have said that it was the selection of the "international class", the introduction of a "Bole" or an unobtrusive offer that changed the trajectory of their lives. The fact is that the most important thing is that you have to be able to get the most out of your life, and you have to be able to get the most out of your life, and you have to be able to get the most out of your life.
Of course, success in life also requires boldness and vision. The two girls with similar grades, L and G, the college entrance examination L played normally, to a domestic key university study. G played poorly, went to an ordinary college, but G enrolled in that university just with foreign universities have cooperation mode, G chose the school's 2 + 2 mode. G spent the last two years of her undergraduate degree in Canada. She then applied for a master's degree at a well-known university in the UK, and with her hard work and luck, she was accepted. Now she continues to study at that university for her PhD. L, on the other hand, chose a stable job after her undergraduate studies, and everything went according to the traditional pattern of life.
Perhaps many years from now, L will still remember that she was just a little bit short of boldness and vision, and her life would have been much different.
Don't just look at the surface of the shiny
The view from the other side is always beautiful, because anyone who is willing to put the shiny show, and the lonely and sad cover.
A good sister of mine, Z, quit her good job in Chengdu this year to study in the United States. When everyone is in her "higher level" have to congratulate, only she knows this is how many sleepless nights "boiled" out of the choice. Boyfriend is in the United States can not return to China. For the sake of this relationship, she endured the pain of cutting off the domestic work, re-entry to the United States to study a master's degree to find a job. What she sees in her eyes is the prospect of being uprooted from her home country, the uncertainty of her future, and the sacrifice of the present to chase an uncertain future. This is a dilemma, she even has no choice but to be pushed forward by fate. But who knows what will happen in a few years? We all believe that the two of them can create their own bright and happy space in the domineering United States of America!
Most people's ordinary road
Before being ridiculed as still in pursuit of the childish stage of the bombardment, I admit that at that time, not yet understand the "ordinary is true" realm. I've been growing up and slowly realized that the road to mediocrity is probably the destination for most people. Because no matter how hard they try, most people still end up becoming one of the many. After all, the people at the top of the pyramid are too few and far between.
You carry your own water, eyes envy those who carry colorful fruity cups, but maybe those sodas do not have you this cup of water to quench your thirst. Even if this with a little Q spirit flavor, but it is healthy and full of positive energy. You practiced their own trajectory on the ground, it should be compared with the previous self, and the last moment of their own comparison, so the vertical comparison, relatively objective and fair and practical.
Yes, Park's song "Ordinary Road" sings the heart of many people, we are that flower that grass, we lost disappointment lost all the direction, until we see ordinary is the only answer.
The last thing I want to mention is that a 90-year-old friend of mine opened a black bean flower store in Chongqing porcelain mouth, business is booming, earn a lot of money. This year, his son was born, a family of three happy, but also live a happy ah!
Ordinary and warm happiness
Wen/Walking in the clouds
The summer in Jiangnan, rainfall is abundant. In the rainy days, in addition to sleep, the most suitable thing to do is to make a cup of tea, hold a book to read a volume, will be immersed in the thoughts of famous writers with the words piled up in the kingdom, sometimes smiling, sometimes contemplating, or touched, or heartbreaking. Let the rain outside the window, like a scratchy old film, the past will be cut into death. And those half-sad and half-bright stories, like the rain outside the window, silently moisturizing the dry heart.
Once, I suddenly saw this passage in a magazine: "Loved ones, I do not need anything, I just want you to live in my life happily and contentedly for many, many years, I want to see your face slowly add a wrinkle, your teeth slowly shaking down one by one." When I read it, my heart couldn't help but soften for it. I cover the scroll and sigh lightly, what a beautiful emotion. This is worthwhile to keep a lifetime of emotion as if the winter gloves and scarves, warming people's cold hearts; and as if an iron, the soul of people's porous folds slowly ironed flat.
In this world, there is always an emotion that makes us cry. Whether it's friendship, affection or love, it's the driving force that keeps us going.
It's been nine years since Grandma left us. Grandma loved me the most when she was alive, and she always left the best food for me, but she couldn't even spare a bite for herself. Every morning, I would wake up from the smell of my grandmother's food. As the weather changed, Grandma would always take great pains to urge me to add or subtract clothes in time.
One time, I was so sick and limp that I didn't even have the strength to speak. I wrapped myself in a thick quilt, but I was still cold and shivering. My grandmother was so anxious that she called the doctor to see me. Whenever it was time to take medicine, Grandma would hand me long-prepared pills and a cup of warm boiled water, urging me to take the medicine. "Take the medicine quickly and have a good night's sleep, you'll be fine in no time." She made sure to see me finish the medicine with her own eyes before she left to work on other things with peace of mind. Looking at my grandmother's thin figure of hard work for me, at that moment, my eyes burst into tears, and my heart surged with a burst of warmth.
As far as I can remember, it was my grandmother who took good care of me, and I never seemed to do anything for her. If Grandma was still alive, I would make it up to her twice as much. How I would like to wash my grandmother's feet, cut her nails and comb her hair. Unfortunately, it's all too late.
Since my grandmother left, there are several times to wake up from a dream, I seem to vaguely see a ray of sunlight is pouring down from the two bright tiles on the roof of my grandmother's house, in the white and thin column of light, my grandmother in the kindness of the smile at me, every crease of my grandmother's face in the sunshine appears to be extraordinarily gracious and serene. And when I reached out my hands, ready to embrace the grandmother, but found himself embracing just full of cold.
In fact, those ordinary and warm affection, never far from our lives. Just we have this seemingly ordinary affection, often do not know how to cherish, do not know how to return in time and pay, only when this is like warm water as bland and strange affection suddenly one day from our trivial life after the absence, we only too late to regret, began to feel ashamed of their ignorance. Love is mutual, we receive the love of loved ones, do not take it for granted, we also need to learn to express their love and care for their loved ones in a timely manner.
Happiness is in our own hands, the key lies in how we grasp. Life inevitably leaves some regrets, perhaps, occasional shortcomings is another happy experience of life. We are all so happy and rich, because we have the magic of love in the world. This magic power woven with love will be in the fog after the disappearance of the barrier, after the ice gradually melted, after the fire gradually extinguished, such as the green peaks, such as the spring river, such as weeds in our world, inspired us to become a better version of themselves.
The Heart of an Ordinary Man
By Gu Pi Xi
I once went to such a family to eat hot pot. When I first entered the house, I was attracted by a green-colored plant. I asked what kind of plant it was. The owner said the plant was a vegetable called pea shoots. The owner's surname is Hu. She and her husband run this hot pot together and have been in business for many years. Out of curiosity, I asked her why she grew her own vegetables. Don't they deliver vegetables outside? I was shocked by her answer. She said that they get up at 4:00 a.m. and go to the market to buy the vegetables themselves in order to keep them fresh. The purpose is to keep the vegetables fresh so that the guests will not have diarrhea after eating their hot pot. I am touched by such an answer. In this materialistic and money-oriented society, there are too few bosses like them who think of others in every way.
I looked around and found that this hot pot restaurant specializing in repair is not luxurious, hanging on the wall with a few cross-stitch, but rather set off the simplicity of the small store. The wall also has a paragraph written on it, completely written in Chongqing dialect. I do not understand the meaning of this paragraph, Hu boss explained to me that this paragraph is a TV station guests ate their hot pot wrote on their own initiative, roughly the meaning of the word "red bench" to introduce the origin and meaning.
Boss Hu's explanation further piqued my interest. She was thrilled to see me so interested in their hot pot, and perhaps in her eyes, we all have a strong love for hot pot. So she also sat down on the bench next to me.
I am naturally a person who likes to observe my surroundings wherever I go, from big buildings to small cups. Just then, I also realized that Boss Hu has a nostalgic heart. Perhaps because she grew up in a poor era, she has a fondness for wooden furniture. The tables and benches, cups and chopsticks in the store are all very old.
There were two old men in their 80s sitting next to them. The hot pot they ate was obviously different from what others ate. Boss Hu said it was old hot pot. Perhaps only in their place I can see the old man eating authentic old hot pot. Why is it not the nostalgia of that generation? At the same time, it reflects the love of each other, which has always been glorified by the literati.
Boss Hu is a standard Chongqing local, and her character is very bold. For me, a foreigner, she showed extraordinarily affinity. She told me a lot of stories.
For eighteen years, a group of employees have been following their boss, who treats them like his own children. The employees are also very understanding, never make them angry, and when they find them in a bad mood, they will quietly do all the work and try not to let them worry.
Initially, they feel that everyone is away from home to fight is not easy, people are born of parents, not easy. The staff no matter what happens to the difficulties, they try to help. 20xx years, Chongqing's house is not too expensive, but a set of houses at least a hundred thousand dollars. And the staff hand only one or two million dollars, they feel that since we have come to Chongqing with them in the fight for many years, can not live every day in the rental housing. So, they had an idea, let everyone ask their families to temporarily borrow some of the rest of them to find a way. In the end, everyone put together just two or three million dollars, a dozen or so, leaving a gap of nearly a million dollars that they need to fill. Finally after she and her partner discussed, unanimously decided that it was better to lend them. This money, for Chongqing at that time, is still very large.
In later years, it has continued to this day. They would all take out a certain amount of money each year, between 500 and 1,000 yuan to help employees' children pay tuition. They have to worry about the medical expenses of the employees' parents who are sick, and the tuition fees of the students. One of the employees, his brother went to college, because of family difficulties, every time he came back to him, the boss's wife will give him a few hundred dollars, and even every time they go to the train fare are they to buy. At that time, the employee's salary was only three hundred dollars.
In many years they never scolded their employees in front of the guests, because they feel that people have dignity, and it's not easy for everyone to come out to work. If some of the guests are rude to the staff, they will also be on behalf of their employees to seek justice. But their employees have been following them for more than a decade.
When Mr. Hu finished telling this story, I was very moved and shocked. It felt like writing a novel, and when I was about to ask if the story was true, Mr. Hu smiled with a sense of accomplishment and said that these employees were the same ones who worked at the hot pot restaurant.
It took me a moment to realize that this couple turned out to be Boss Hu and her husband.
I asked what made them do it.
She just blandly said, because of conscience, nothing else.
What a plain answer in the world! In the world, if everyone can harbor a heart of gold, when spring comes, it will surely blossom into a gorgeous flower.
Only happiness is hard to escape the ordinary road
文/忧离
Some time ago, the movie "Regret No More", I was most impressed with a line: "Every time you say goodbye, it's best to push a little harder. One more word, may be the last. One more look, could be the last." I used to be dismissive of these blank, powerless sayings until I actually zeroed in on death.
It turns out that when you say goodbye to someone properly, maybe they won't leave any regrets. When you others say one more word, others may be because you have no intention of words to change the whole life track. When you look at others, they will become the most beautiful scenery in your life.
This is the happiness of ordinary people, but these happiness is ignored by most people, discarded.
Thinking back to one thing my friend told me, I realized that happiness is so accessible. In those days, after class on evening study, everyone was holding a flashlight all the way home. However, my friend was a rather careless person who took the flashlight home every other day and forgot to take it to school that night. So, every night she went home in the dark. I asked her if she wasn't afraid of walking at night as a girl. She smiled and said, "I got most of my courage from then. In order to make me not be afraid, my mom would light up my whole building at night on time. Every time I looked at the light from afar, my heart would be filled with courage because there was always someone waiting for me to come home under the light. I didn't worry that I would get lost or scared." Later on, my friend's mom passed away, and there was no one to light the lamp for her at night. She realized how happy she had been, and that happiness came from the silent interpretation of love by an ordinary mother.
When I was a kid, I thought that getting a valuable toy was happiness. Now, even a room full of toys can't move my heart, can't hook me any interest. If I get something too easily, I'll just think it's a very common thing, and I won't be able to say that I'm happy with it.
Perhaps, people are greedy and have a feeling of envy for what others have. The first thing you need to do is to get a good look at the scenery, and then you'll be able to see what's going on, and then you'll be able to see what's going on.
The moon decorates your window, and you decorate other people's dreams." The other people have no need to envy, they have to learn to cherish, this is the real belong to your happiness. This reasoning, I did not know until a long time later that happiness comes from the most ordinary small things in life.
Out of the society, I found that I can sit in the library quietly read a book is happiness. After work, I said to my friends the most two words: "in the busy", busy writing reports, busy contact customers, busy busy even sleep time is a luxury, ask me how to quiet read "who's youth is not lost", "this life, wait for the time to test".
After working for a while, I was once not adapted to the phenomenon of insomnia. I'm not sure why I didn't listen to my parents, but I did want to go to the big city to get my feet wet. I've been through countless interviews, countless failures, and finally got a job that barely supports me. These difficulties as well as setbacks, I have never mentioned to my parents, one of the first is their own choice, should bear the consequences; two to avoid them for me to worry about fear, worry that I do not eat well, do not sleep well, get bad health.
Only I do not say, parents do not know my difficulties. The first thing I'd like to say is that I don't want to be a part of the world's most famous and most famous company. Mom is concerned about the weather forecast in my city every day, cold remind me to wear more clothes, rain remember to ask me to bring an umbrella. These tiny things, every time often cause me to secretly shed tears. The first thing I did was to ask my parents to do something that would make them proud, but they still treated me like a treasure and loved me to the core.
There is one thing that I still y imprinted in my mind. The year of the college entrance examination is approaching, I because of the pressure of the examination, often forced themselves to late-night review. I was surprised that the more I tried to study, the more my grades slipped, and my body couldn't withstand the destruction of my high intensity, so I eventually fell ill.
Later, my mom sat down next to me and said, "Nui Nui, don't force yourself to study, the college entrance exam is not the only way out. Every piece of land has a suitable seed, and when the seed is not suitable for the soil, it cannot germinate and grow. If you're not study material, do your best, your dad and I won't blame you." Dad chimed in, "Right! I don't ask you to be so smart, you just have to be kind and upright all the time, that's my biggest reward." Later, I put down my psychological baggage and lightly embraced the college entrance examination. This thing won a lot of people envious eyes, envious of me have a happy home, a pair of parents who love me y.
Sometimes I will face the temptation of the beautiful, the pursuit of fame, money, desire, but I still adhere to their own principles of human behavior, moral bottom line. Not for any flashy reasons, only to stand up to the father taught: to be honest and kind, only qualified to obtain the right to happiness, if the smart did not use in the right way is also in vain.
To this day, when I think back to my father to explain what is the ordinary people's happiness, he said profoundly: "alive, is the greatest happiness, any happiness in the world are difficult to escape the ordinary people's path."
Now, I look up at the sun in the hands, the voice of Park Tree singing in my ears: "I used to cross the mountains and the sea, but also through the mountains and the sea of people, I used to have all the things, in the twinkling of an eye are scattered like smoke, I used to be lost and disappointed lost all the direction until I saw that the ordinary is the only answer." I understand that the true meaning of happiness is the most ordinary behavior, the only way to move the heart.