What moved me most was the dancing attitude of my sisters. Yi Nengjing is dancing happily in the kitchen with green onions in his hand. Behind him is his brother-in-law. Gina danced happily in slippers, regardless of other people's eyes; Bai Bing danced with other aunts in the community. Isn't this the rhythm of square dance?
In the video, their theme song dance may not be so perfect, but that kind of self-confidence and free and easy, casual happiness infected me. For them, time is no longer a butcher's knife, but a meat cleaver, carving their original appearance little by little, which is more beautiful and natural.
At the age of 30, they are not flattering or hypocritical. They want to win, not afraid of losing. The most attractive thing about this program is not who can form a group, it has cured many people's age anxiety. See each sister's different charm; Seeing that my sisters can still choose an extraordinary life even when they are 30 years old; Seeing that my sisters can dance happily with neat bangs even when they are 50, I feel as if our 30-year-old is not so terrible.
Roman Roland once said, "Many people die at the age of 30. After this age, they just become their own shadows and spend the rest of their lives imitating themselves, day after day. " Thirty seems like a terrible thing, especially for many women. After 30 years old, life, society, psychology and all kinds of pressures will follow: why not get married? Why not have children? Did you buy a school district house? Why do you get old and ugly? Nobody wants to work? All this is forcing us to get into the shell set for us, get married, have children, be husband and wife, make money, take care of the family, make us lose ourselves and become the image of a 30-year-old woman in everyone's imagination.
Is this what we want? Do we need others to define our own lives?
Don't! No matter how old we are, we can all have our own lives.
Some people may say that people are stars, have money and capital, and can have sex with each other. And I am an ordinary person, how can I be like others?
In fact, money is only the superficial reason why sisters are so attractive, but it really makes them confident and charming.
Every girl's business ability is very capable and strong, and her performance on the stage is also amazing. At the same time, they all have their own proud careers and occupy a place in their respective fields.
Career is the real thing you have, and it is also your confidence. He can make you see your own value, gain a sense of accomplishment, make you willing to devote your feelings and love to it, and make you feel down-to-earth happiness.
As Venus said, "A woman should be an independent tree, not a vine that clings to it. Otherwise, the tree will fall and the vine will die. " Occupation, for women, carries the love of life. With this kind of love, time does not make you old, but makes you grow.
Many women care too much about other people's eyes. I chose to get married because I was afraid of the advice of my seven aunts. I had a baby because I wanted to please my husband and mother-in-law. They always try to please people, but in the end they are embarrassed.
Maybe women will be born with more prejudice, so we should break the prejudice and ignore those malicious eyes and gossip. You have to believe that as long as you have a clear conscience, there will always be people who love and support you. And those who talk about you, laugh at you and accuse you are just stumbling blocks on your way forward. Kick it away. There is no need to delay your life for unimportant people.
As Yuqi Zhang said in response to the octopus incident, "I did it. What happened? The big deal is to be embarrassed. " She dares to express her emotions. If others want to scold me, they will scold me, but I can't be myself if I want to scold me. No way! This is her attitude, and it should be the attitude of each of us.
It is said that the program group "Braving the Wind and Waves" is the most inconspicuous program group, and it is simply too difficult for sisters to ask them to send milk and clothes to look good. And in life, I dare not order food when eating with friends; Obviously busy, others dare not refuse to ask us for help; I wanted my boyfriend to pick me up after work, but I finally found out that I could do it alone.
In fact, the sisters' demands are not too much. It is normal to record for more than ten hours and ask the program to deliver milk. We should also speak out our normal and reasonable demands in life.
However, in real life, many people would rather grieve themselves and suppress themselves than express their inner needs, because they think it is troublesome and incorrect to express their needs. In fact, expressing your needs is to let others know more clearly what they need to provide you, but it will save some contradictions that may arise from poor communication.
Communication is very important. Only when you say it, others will know what you need, pay attention to you and help you. And you, too, will get what you need after you say it. But if you don't say it, you will feel dissatisfied and feel wronged and sad. At this time, your mentality is not good, the conditions you need have not been met, and the final result will not be good.
Seeing my sisters shining on the stage, I think none of us can beat time, but we don't need to beat time. Time goes by, but it leaves perseverance, determination, courage, self-confidence and charm. There is nothing to be afraid of in the future. Each of us is a "priceless sister".