Life, old age, illness and death, I am afraid of all, before I am most afraid of death, but now I am most afraid of the disease.
In the previous grandfather will finish the last days of life, in fact, we can all feel, after all, the body is too weak, the body index are almost in the lowest value of the critical point of hovering, at that time I think the death, is a very scary thing, it means that we can no longer see each other, can no longer live as before, a lot of good things, can no longer be repeated, will become a good memory. It would be a good memory. Actually, it's okay, it's just that the days when a loved one dies can be very uncomfortable, and there's more sadness and dismay inside. In those days, you found back home, less a person's figure, dinner time, there is a seat is empty, the inner feeling of something missing, very hard to grab something, but can not help.
But illness is different, it is the most serious of these four words. It is even worse than death, much, much worse. Has rarely been sick mother in the last week suddenly because of the cough old bad, go to the hospital to take pictures to see the reason, the town hospital doctors look at the CT after the lungs have shadows, as if the situation is still very serious, immediately said that do not receive patients, to go to the city hospital, suddenly as a thunderbolt from a clear sky, scared us. We rushed to the city hospital, all kinds of tests, treatments, medicines, needles and fluids came as they came, and in this week, there was an endless stream of them, and my mother was super resistant to the medicines, as if she was dizzy to the needles, when she touched the medicines, she was dizzy and threw up again. The scene, very difficult, but also very heartbreaking, do not dare to imagine in this disease before the recovery, my mother need to bear how much pain.
Sick, sick people suffer from physical and psychological destruction, every day do not know what will happen tomorrow, every morning full of hope, the night and are disappointed. Taking care of sick people, but also very hard, every day, forced to smile, said a good lie, but back home, shed a lot of tears, and who knows it.
Birth represents hope, a new beginning.
Even though it will be accompanied by pain and tears, it is more of a joy.
I had a normal birth, which wasn't very long, so I'm probably one of the luckier moms.
But there were tears, and it hurt so much to sit still while breastfeeding.
But I had a tear, and it hurt so much that I couldn't sit up when I was breastfeeding. I had mastitis, and my nipples were cracked, and I wanted to cry every time I saw my baby come over to breastfeed.
But it's only been a year now, and I've already forgotten all about these pains.
I only remember the child from the newborn will only lie down, eyes turned to look around, to now, running all over the place, will be angry, will be pouting, will hold your legs and say, mom hug, heart soft mess.
So birth is a hope.
The child grows up and brings you a sense of fulfillment far greater than the pain you suffered at the time.
I myself am in middle age, but my parents are older.
The first time I realized my parents were old was when I was working outside the home for a few years, and once I went home and talked to my mom, she didn't hear me clearly even though I said it twice.
I suddenly realized that she was getting older and starting to lose her hearing.
Maybe it's because they used to have gray hair, so for me, more gray hair is not so sensitive.
But the moment I realized that she was getting old, I ran to my room and cried for a long time.
At that time, I made up my mind not to run outside, and went home to accompany them to the old age.
Discovering your parents' old age is not a matter of fear, but a matter of heartache, and finding that the all-powerful Superman in your heart has an old age, and you feel that there is something collapsing in your heart.
There is a folk saying, "Don't have anything to be sick about, and don't don't have anything to not have any money about".
This is very true. A person who is sick is not only physically difficult, but also psychologically unacceptable.
So the mind is very important. I've seen a lot of old men and women on TV who have survived cancer for decades, and everyone is happy to dance and do gymnastics.
Sickness is not scary, have a good mind, live out the most wonderful self, is the most beautiful.
Old or sick, there is still a breath of life.
But when you die, there's really nothing left.
Ashes to ashes, dust to dust, no more hope.
The person will disappear from your life.
My greatest fear now is death, that my old father and mother will one day be gone.
Although I know that this day will come sooner or later, I can only hope that it will be a little later, a little later.
Let me accompany them to talk more, more to them to cook a meal, more travel out once, so that they have no worries and no regrets.
Do you agree with me? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.
I'm a little stranger, I just want to live in your heart.
Life, old age, sickness and death are all terrible, there is no most afraid, only more afraid!
1. birth, refers to childbirth, as a woman, childbirth is equal to the ghost gate! If it were not for the development of modern medicine, there would be a lot of maternal deaths in the birth of this barrier!
When I gave birth to my son, I had prenatal pains for 48 hours! The pain was so severe that I couldn't even drink water, had trouble breathing, and was put on oxygen! The midwife flirted with me and said:
"Stop screaming, you can be heard three blocks in front of the hospital! You're scaring all our customers away!"
My cub also drank all the amniotic fluid, the natural output will certainly be life-threatening, the doctor decisively open clipping.
So women are afraid of the dangers of childbirth!
2. Old, refers to natural aging, also refers to old age. Women love beauty the most, beauty is late ~ unbearable! Who is not afraid of it! When it comes to old age, the state pension, their own more storage tickets, it seems not afraid of old age, but if the children and grandchildren cold-eyed to treat more money is also desolate! So, also afraid of the old!
3. Refers to sick, that is, in the face of the current high medical costs. There are tickets seem to be able to solve! However, the physical body is tortured by the disease, not to mention that some of the terminal illnesses of medicine is still helpless! Then let's have a painful euthanasia! I hope the country can legislate euthanasia to be legal! If euthanasia is legal, it seems that the disease is not so terrible!
4. Death should be the most unafraid. Because death, the most fair, no matter the royal family and nobles, or grassroots white people, are all hard to escape a death! Moreover, when you die, you don't know anything! Whatever it is after death!
Life is a train to death
From time to time, people will get off the train and run to death
People who are alive just need to think about how to live well
When death comes
Accept it openly
Because, afraid, there will be a death!
People experience birth, old age, sickness and death in their short lives. Being born and getting old is beyond our control, and my greatest fear is sickness! Fear is also sick, sick, we must carry out checks, take medication, small illnesses and small pains okay just spend some money, serious illnesses or curable diseases, can cure the disease but the cost of millions of uremia, leukemia, all kinds of cancers, severe burns, too much, I know of these, and now the ordinary small illnesses are going to cost thousands of dollars, the medical treatment is too expensive, a little bit can not afford to hurt. A big disease really back to the liberation of the former, the average family really can not afford, my family also have the elderly sick, severe heat stroke ejection disease, spent about 200,000 salvaged, life is barely self-care, so people have to take good care of the body, health, no good body is everything is too much, I hope that all people are healthy and happy every day! My family Yixing Zhenlou
Life is not only so, we can be in a limited life, to create unlimited memories, my life down period, we now you, have not experienced, you who have parents in the case of sleeping on the street, no one asked for their own, who have wanted their parents to ask for a bag, their parents refused to go to the almsgiving. Who has ever, for 2 days, had 6 meals a ****. With only 5 dollars on me. At that time I wanted to go over and die, but I stayed strong and survived. Because everything we have is, we can only get it by our own hard work, everything, is self-reliant. We do not have to rely on all the parents, is their own love, career, everything into the doldrums, we also want to fall down, bravely in the stand up, carry through. Wait until you face difficulties in the next time, think of the past strong self, good cheer up, will be able to carry things through.
I met the first death of the patient is my sister ...... and then from then on I began to life black, to go to which section which section of the dead ...... patient death is what feeling I think I do not need to describe, experienced people understand. Regret, frustration, powerless, hate their own inability to save lives, questioning their own good intentions when studying medicine is not a pipe dream, can not trust the development of modern medicine. But I remember a teacher said: you are here to learn medicine, not to cry. So ...... instead of staying shocked and sad, do something you can do. Old age, sickness and death is a natural law, if we do nothing that is to comply with the will of God, but the existence of medicine is contrary to common sense. It's only when we do it that we have a chance to save lives. Also, I admire you because ER doctors are the hardest. I, too, am afraid to go into the clinic because I can't see life passing before my eyes. A salute.