Auntie Zhao, 56, has been living on her own for many years. In the first few years, their husbands died in an accident because of a car accident, and for so many years has been living on their own, after retirement, Auntie Zhao at home, usually the biggest hobby is to go to a square dance.
And in the process of square dancing, but also met their dance partner, the dance partner is usually very knowledgeable, and in photography has certain attainments.
Life partner often take a camera to take pictures of Auntie Zhao, it is also because the partner usually learn the knowledge of the camera, so always be able to Auntie Zhao shot very good, which also attracted the attention of Auntie Zhao.
The two people were in the process of getting to know each other normally, and they had a certain good feeling about each other.
Not long afterward, Auntie Zhao's dance partner confessed his love for Auntie Zhao and said to her, "I'll take the camera and film you every day when we're living together.
And Auntie Zhao asked back, "You have your own hobbies every day, so what will I do after I marry you?
The result was that Auntie Zhao's dance partner replied to Auntie Zhao that your only task in marrying me is to take care of me and the family, you don't need to do anything.
It was also because of this one sentence that Auntie Zhao expressed her anger on the spot and said she was marrying someone, not trying to find a job as a nanny.
And in response to this view of Auntie Zhao, I personally think really rare on earth sober, after all, at the age of 56 years old a lot of women are hoping to find a similar male partner for life, and like Auntie Zhao this attitude of not settling for anything, we must learn from it.
Marriage is a two-way street, and doing housework and bringing up children is not something that women do aloneAfter seeing this, I believe that many women will have a lot of the same feelings. In the marriage, the vast majority of women are playing the role of doing housework while bringing up children, and their husbands, although they seem to be busy every day to make money, after returning home is also completely a shirker, with the children can not help, do housework is not counted on.
It is also because of this atmosphere, many young people now also see through this model of marriage, resulting in many women on the marriage is no longer so longing.
In fact, whether it is Auntie Zhao or any woman in life, we must think clearly when choosing a marriage, if you marry a person to become a free nanny, then this kind of marriage is not considered a marriage, can only be regarded as an employment relationship without a labor contract.
And the real marriage is the two sides to pay, so that can appear to be equal, just one side of a person to bear all the words, the marriage has lost its meaning.