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Off duty time, women wringing the bag, the speed of a hundred meters sprint out of the office, roar to the home to run.
What about the men? At this moment, they are still not slow to work. Waiting for the first wave of off-duty people to finish, they get up and leave the office, in the corridor, looking east and west, they are looking for something, looking forward to something. Before long, the men who stayed behind gathered in piles, discussing the eternal topic: what to do tonight?
Undeclared, they walk into the same bar and drink and talk and brag until the night is over.
Why don't these men want to go home? Nine-tailed fox after a number of visits, interviews, found three fatal reasons.
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Reason one: empty nest feeling
Those men who are in their middle age, the children are like full-fledged birds, have already lifted their wings and flown away. Women are either busy earning money or busy dancing. Home is just a house with no warmth and no temperature. The warmth of the past is no longer, only the flavor of loneliness and isolation remains. What do you want to go home for? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.
Reason 2: Bored of the other half
No self and growth of the woman, often boring men. This kind of woman, the easiest to fall into the man's emotions. Men can not laugh, laugh more, women will be more heart: he is certainly not normal lately, so happy, could it be that there is a vixen outside? He can not cry, men cry, women on the one hand, blame themselves for incompetence, on the one hand, despise men, look down on them; men can not be too enthusiastic, otherwise it will be considered to have done something wrong, want to make up for the fault; men can not be too slack, otherwise it will be considered cold-blooded, can not become a warm man. In short, men are neither left nor right, coaxing their wives is not an option, nor is it an option not to coax. Small quarrel every day, big quarrel three, six, nine. Go to work to see the face of the boss, go home to see the face of his wife. For the sake of three buckets of rice had to bend over. However, your wife is different, stay away from her. In order to escape, drink to go.
Reason 3: release the pressure, looking for fun
Men are concerned about the country's major events (in the eyes of women, and he has no relationship with the hair), never care about family affairs. Men are concerned about the complexity of human relations, complicated affairs. The family has an old man and a young man. Work and family double pressure, sometimes let them breathless. In terms of releasing pressure, men can never compare with women. Women's minds are simple and clear, see the problem line, never complicate things, deal with the problem to relatively easy and comfortable. So women can never understand the weight of the man's pressure.
Comparatively speaking, people of the same sex can understand each other better. The first time I saw this was when I was a student at the University of California, Berkeley, and I was a student at the University of California, Berkeley. The people and things that you are not used to, the psychological pressure that you can't bear, are all spread out on the table, allowing them to flirt with, mock, and spit on them as they please. The same groove, by them over and over again to spray to spray, until they get to vent their anger and calm their feelings. If there are still women or small characters in the bar, they will also brag and brush their sense of existence; or make fishy jokes and show a little evil that is inconvenient to release when you are sober. A lot of trouble in this wine and food in the ashes.
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Stabilized marriage relationship, the woman is independent and intelligent. They generally have their own business. Men at home, they will give them "homework": do a certain chore or arrange some fitness program. These things will neither bore the men nor make them feel bored. If the men don't come home, the women have their own things to do, and they don't care if the men are out on the town.
They have a strong heart and absolute confidence: men will miss the woman at home. When their bad moods are released, they will love their women twice as much. So, what does it matter if a man chooses to go home or not after work? Women, just be yourself.