Many mothers are reluctant to let the elderly take care of their babies, in addition to taking into account the physical reasons of the elderly, the main reason is that the parenting concepts of the two generations are too different, and mothers do not feel confident to leave their babies in the hands of the elderly.
Dressing inappropriately. If the family is a grandmother to take care of the baby, when it is cold, the grandmother is worried about freezing the grandson, will give the baby to wear a very thick, some old people have suffered from hunger and cold when they were young, so they do not want the baby to be like themselves, the weather gets a little bit colder, it is easy to give him too much to wear. In winter, the home is usually heated or air-conditioned, indoors is not necessary to give the baby too much clothing, as long as in the out of the baby to do a good job of keeping warm.
When the baby is brought by the mother or the grandmother, you can tell by his clothes, because the mother brings out the baby fashionable and handsome like a child star, and the grandmother brings out the baby dress randomly will dance. Mothers will be more like to dress up their babies, while grandmothers only focus on practicality, give the baby to wear warm on the good. In fact, the baby's image is also quite important, who does not like beautiful baby?
Elderly people always force their children to eat, children are more mischievous when they are small, and do not eat well when eating, the old people always force their children to eat, and think that the more the child eats, surely it will be able to develop better.
The old man does not want to criticize the child, the old man loves the baby, the baby in the baby naughty time also do not want to scold him, a pampering is very easy to let the baby become impolite, this is the baby's growth is very unfavorable. Some babies in the mother criticized him when he will find the grandmother complained that the mother is a "bad man", this is also very affect the mother and the baby's parent-child relationship.
In the final analysis, the reason why mothers don't want to let the old man take care of their children is that they are afraid that the old man will spoil them. After all, the baby's growth is only once, the mother does not want to be absent, but also afraid of his growth on the road there is a step wrong, always have to accompany their own to rest assured.