My wife yelled at me on the other end of the phone, and I put down the mouse and pinched my brow.
Her comment made my head spin, but I was used to it.
She said it once every three days, as if she and my mom were at loggerheads, as if it was a matter of life and death.
What can I say?
This is the first time I've ever seen a woman with a high school diploma.
The first thing I'd like to say is that I don't know who I'm going to marry, but I don't know how she's going to be able to take care of the kids on her own if my mom leaves.
"Don't be in a hurry, first tell me what happened this time." I asked patiently.
"Again?"
My wife Song Yue snorted.
"You know it's again? Get your ass back here, I can't stand your mom anymore!"
"Mom, don't argue, don't argue, please ...... I don't look at it, I listen, I listen."
I heard my son crying on the other end of the phone, and I heard my daughter-in-law, Song Yue, yelling at my son, "You give me a side to die! I'm not going to be able to do that! I'm not going to be able to do that.
"I'll be right back, so turn off the engine and don't scare your son," she said.
My head was spinning, and I was comforting her as I drove home.
Whatever the reason, Song Yue is very short-tempered, a bomb, and has to be coaxed down first.
1.
The house was a mess.
Until I entered the house, my son, Xiao Chen, was still crying and looking at his mom secretly while crying.
The son is very understanding, secretly told me that he is very afraid of our quarrel, so I am in front of my son, are suppressed anger, do not want to let my son leave more psychological shadow.
My mother was trying to calm him down, "Tatsuo, it's okay, grandma and mom were just fooling around, look, grandma, it's not okay. I don't want to see you in the dark," she said.
I fixed my eyes to see, my mom's face seems to have broken a mouth, there are traces of blood, the ground is also scattered with a large piece of broken glass crumbs.
The iPad next to her was shattered all over the place, the TV was smashed to pieces, and there were broken bottles and white milk on the ground.
I've been working in a high-pressure job for years, and I have very bad migraines.
When my mom saw me come back, the corners of her mouth moved slightly and she turned her head sideways.
Although she didn't say anything, I saw that her eyes were red.
No need to ask, see the scene in front of me also guessed what happened, it is only the old man spoiled the child some, let the child watch a little more cartoons.
Song Yue saw me come back, rushed over to roar: "You see! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do it! I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new product or not. I've never seen a grandma who can do that. I've never seen a grandmother do this to her child!
She was furious, I looked at the child in tears, I had to avoid the sharp edge, "watching too much animation is definitely not good, but mom didn't do it on purpose, it's her own grandson, how can it be a harm to the child.
Song Yue glared at me: "What do you mean?
Song Yue glared at me: "What do you mean?
My mother immediately stood up nervously.
"No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
My mom put her hands behind her back, her movements were a bit awkward, and there was still red color on the floor tiles.
I rushed over and pulled my mom's hand over, her hand was bleeding, dripping on the floor, many small glass crumbs were stuck in her hand, maybe she didn't have time to deal with it in order to coax the child.
"Mom! What happened to your hand?
Song Yue glanced over and sneered, "I pushed it! Who let her stop me from smashing the TV? I'm not sure what I'm talking about.
My migraine got worse and I said, "Song Yue, what are you talking about? What crime did my mom commit for you to do this to her?"
Seeing that I am a good old boy, I know that my mom has always been gentle and tolerant.
I've been married to Song Yue for three or four years, and even though Song Yue has a temper, she has never mentioned a single bad thing about Song Yue in front of me.
I was heartbroken, Song Yue really went too far this time!
But my mom still pulled me to persuade: "Xiaotian, what are you shouting at her for, don't scare the child, I'm not in pain, this injury is nothing ......"
"How can it not hurt!" I was about to give my mom a bandage, Song Yue stopped in front of me again.
"Tell me clearly, what do you mean? She's allowed to harm my child, and I'm not allowed to push her around?"
My temper exploded, and I held my mom up and yelled, "Song Yue, she's my mother!
"Yo, I didn't know it was your mom? I don't know if it's your mom, but your mom is right about everything.
"I don't know if it's your mom, but your mom is right about everything.
Song Yue turned around and was about to leave.
My mother rushed forward to persuade, but was pushed back by Song Yue.
"You've got to be kidding me, you've been pretending all day, don't I know you?
My mom rushed forward to persuade her, but Song Yue pushed her back again.
My head hurt more and more, and I pulled Song Yue's collar.
"Shut up!
Song Yue was not afraid, and smiled at me, "Dai Xiaotian, you hit me, hit me! I don't care if you don't have the ability to make a lot of money, but you dare to beat your wife."
My hands and feet are cold.
My son was so scared that he was trembling, and he ran over to me and hugged my legs, "Dad, dad, you let go of mom, I'm good, I'm good ......"
My mother was also anxious and cried, "Son!
My mother also cried out, "Son, you let go, you want to be angry with mom!
I pushed Song Yue away from her and let go of her hand.
Song Yue turned back and grabbed the cell phone on the coffee table, "Dai Xiaotian, you're really good, don't come back and beg me to come back in the future!
She left, the son cried even harder, wanted to go after his mother, but was pushed back by Song Yue.
"Get lost, asshole! If it were not for you, I divorced you this waste of a father long ago, what to do what can not be, but also want to hit me, count me blind ...... you give me to get out, divorced I also do not want you!"
She slammed the door and left, my mom holding the crying child in tears.
The back of my head clunked and shook, but also to hold back the hate and anger to deal with the follow-up, put the son into the house to sleep, and then for the mother to carefully bandage the wound.
"Xiaotian, Song Yue is an only child, pampered at home, married into our family, we can not let her suffer, you yell at her, this is not to intensify the conflict?" I'm not going to be able to get the best out of her," she said, sighing.
"But, mom, can you be wronged? My father is limping on half a leg, cooking by himself and planting a vegetable garden, you do not worry about him to help us bring up the child, and I have not seen Song Yue said you a good ah," I think more and more aggrieved, "Besides, is it possible that I am not good to her? Did I let her suffer? The money I earn is all handed over, and when I get a little bonus, I buy her something nice, so I almost treat her like a grandparent.
"Today, because of watching a cartoon, the problem that can be solved by rubbing it together is still such a big deal, is it really necessary to scold you like this?
My mother heard this, look a little hesitant, "small days ...... today, not because of cartoons."
I froze.
"Not cartoons? Then what is it?"
Facing my gaze, my mom turned her head and sighed, "It ...... was ...... hey, it's because I made milk for Xiaochen and added an extra spoonful of powdered milk, it was too thick."
"That's not much of a thing, she obviously just wanted to use the subject to kick you out!
"She's obviously trying to make an issue out of it and get rid of you, mom.
My mom looked at me, then at the chaos in front of her, and said quietly, "It's okay, son, it's normal for a young girl to be a little bit angry.
I wanted to say more.
My mother, however, said y, "Marriage and love are two different things, son, you have to remember mom's words, now this society, no matter who with whom, there may be accidents, you encountered anything, be calm, think about the children first ......"
02. That night, I thought about my mom's words over and over again.
She seemed to be hinting at something, but no matter how much I asked, she didn't say anything.
Could it be that she was implying that there was something wrong with Song Yue?
She seems to be suggesting something, but no matter how much she asks, she doesn't say anything.
I think it is unlikely, since Song Yue gave birth to a child, it is not keen on that matter, she is not willing, I do not force her.
Although she still loves to dress up and go out to play, but it's with her few friends, I know.
Not true.
I suddenly froze.
I thought carefully, Song Yue still has something wrong.
For example, in the past, her cell phone was not set a password, and threw it everywhere, but recently she looked at her cell phone very tightly, and sometimes the phone rang, but did not answer it, and then found a reason to go out after a while.
I also asked how not to answer, she said that her best friend Mu Zi broke up again, because of the love lost has been annoying her.
Later, her cell phone is basically mute, I look for her often can not pick up the phone, I also laugh and tease her to pick up the phone as fate would have it.
The more I think about it, the more wrong.
I sat up, give her a call, played a lot of, began to be able to pass do not answer, and then directly after the reminder of the shutdown.
My son cried all night and fell asleep at dawn, and I stayed up almost all night, thinking about her in the first half of the night and worrying about her in the second half of the night.
Although Song Yue is arrogant and willful, she is not a bad person, except for her bad temper, I still love her very much.
I was so worried that I gave Mu Zi a call.
Woody was in a daze and said he didn't know what was going on.
But early the next morning, she came back safe and sound, but she looked very tired, and when she walked past me to change her slippers, her pace was strange.
"Where have you been all night? Is everything okay?" I asked worriedly.
"Besides looking for Mu Zi, where else could I have gone?" Song Yue seemed to still be angry, and coldly replied back to me.
The alarm bells went off in my heart.
Looking into her eyes, I said, "You lied to me, you didn't go to find Mu Zi."
"Nuts!"
Song Yue scolded me, scratched open her cell phone and dialed Mu Zi.
"Little Yue, are you home?"
"Well, Mu Zi, Dai Xiaotian said I didn't go to you, you tell him."
The wood on the other end of the phone eeped in surprise and said: "Xiaotian, Xiaoyue came to me last night, after you hung up the phone, you two have a good time, don't say anything about divorce, she's so capricious, you tolerate tolerance, don't talk to her."
"I'm sorry to hear that, but I don't want to see you.
Hanging up the phone, I was a little embarrassed.
Perhaps I have wronged Song Yue?
I don't think much more, to be honest, when a man has this kind of speculation in his heart, he doesn't want to believe that it is true, unless he sees it with his own eyes and can't lie to himself before he has to recognize it.
I prefer to believe that she is innocent, I do not want to break up the family, the child needs her.
"Dai Xiaotian, if you don't want a divorce, don't let your mom live here. If you want to divorce me, I'll do whatever you want, give me the house and the kids to you."
I thought I had a very deep relationship with her, but I couldn't imagine that she would say such hurtful things after she had calmed down for a night.
She is really willing to give up our feelings for so many years and divorce me? The first thing you need to do is to get rid of it. The first thing you need to do is to get rid of it. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
My mother came over with a snakeskin bag, looked at Song Yue, and said in a low voice: "Xiaoyue, my mother will go back to the countryside today, Xiaochen is going to kindergarten, and it doesn't matter much whether my mother is here or not, but your father is looking forward to my return.
My mom's words shook me to my core.
She once again let herself suffer for the sake of her son.
Just when I was moved, I saw Song Yue incredibly shouting, "Go back to the countryside? I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm going to be able to do it myself," she said!
This is the first time I've ever seen a child in the world, and I'm not sure if I'm tired of it.
I was dumbfounded.
My mom was also dumbfounded.
It turns out that she didn't mean for my mom to go back to her hometown, but for me to rent a house for her in the neighborhood, and to call her when she needed it.
I do not agree, but my mom at the moment in order to calm the conflict, desperately pulling me.
I have no choice but to weigh my parents and my wife and children, and arrange a one-bedroom apartment for my mom in the neighborhood.
This house is not simple, but when my mom moved in, I felt very, very uncomfortable.
I am really useless, let my mom suffer this kind of aggression!
I am so unfilial!
"It's okay, mom likes to be quiet, so I'll be free to go square dancing in the morning and evening."
My mom smiled and comforted me, but I know that she is not interested in any square dance.
The reality is that I am determined to make a good living.
I think, when I straighten up, my mom won't have to suffer this kind of trouble.
In addition to my daily work, I have also been involved in the production of an animated movie without Song Yue's knowledge, which I have been working on since 17 years ago.
Originally, I wanted to give her a surprise, but with these things, I'm a little glad I didn't tell Song Yue.