I came down from the countryside and met my husband. He said he fell in love with me at first sight, and after the party, launched a passionate pursuit of me. Our relationship was strongly opposed by his parents. Especially his mother. His family was not local, but in a provincial capital city. His parents were cadres in state-owned enterprises, so they could not accept a rural daughter-in-law.
My husband touched me, but he did not listen to his parents and insisted on being with me. When we got married, his parents did not come to the wedding. I have a very subtle word on the matter, not only endured for the sake of my husband, but also married to go to his parents.
Mother-in-law came to stay, I bought clothes with her and got married
I heard that my mother-in-law liked emerald. In order to please my mother-in-law, I spent a whole year's salary to buy her emerald bracelet. I have never spent so much money on my own parents, so I wanted to sincerely move my mother-in-law, but unfortunately it was for the donkey's hoof shot. My mother-in-law said she did not like the color and asked me to do it in front of my eyes.
I couldn't stand the evening. I complain to my husband that my mom is too much. Let my husband put up with me, before his father in the army, are said his mother alone to pull him is very difficult, I must let his mother to put up with, good to his mother. I thought my husband was strange. Because of my problems with his mom, he absolutely towards his mom.
In the past few years of marriage, I don't know how many times my husband and I have had problems with my mother-in-law. When I was pregnant, the pregnancy reaction was particularly large, and when other people's mothers-in-law were pregnant and beating their daughters-in-law, my mother-in-law happened to be retired at home with nothing to do, and my mother-in-law did not like to square dance at home.
For this matter, my husband and I quarreled. My husband even turned to his mother and told me to fend for myself. Since then, I was disappointed not only with my mother-in-law but also with my husband. After the birth of my daughter, the cultured people in this city are not even as good as the rural people, how men are inferior to women. My husband was also influenced by my mother and was cold to my daughter.
Six months ago my mother-in-law came to stay. I saw this as an opportunity to improve our relationship, and I wanted to make a last-ditch effort for that relationship. I took my grandmother clothes shopping. I drove my girlfriend around in a large department store and couldn't find anything I "liked". When I got home, my husband told me I was useless and couldn't even afford to buy clothes. That night I filed for divorce. I felt that a husband should find a wife he likes, but I was clearly not the right one. I took my daughter and left the house, and that day I was more relaxed than ever. The choice was still not wrong.