How to understand a woman's heart, there are some differences between boys and girls. Many people say that a woman's heart is a needle in the sea, because some are suitable for girls and don't express their thoughts directly. Here are ways to understand a woman's heart.
How to understand a woman's heart 1 Many brothers want to know what a woman's thinking is like? Here, I will share some key points to open her mind.
We men, when thinking, see more, which is the result of logical straight line, while women are perceptual divergent thinking.
She will bypass a point.
For example:
Male, I got a promotion, a raise and more money.
Female, I was promoted, my colleagues liked me more, my ability was affirmed by the company, people in the company valued me more, and I was more and more sure of myself, so I was promoted.
The above example is the most direct female thinking. They just like to spread a message (I got promoted), and then spread their feelings and continue to go around. If you can't understand a woman's thinking, then you can't read the real subtext behind her, and you can't be a man who knows a woman's heart best.
So, how can we start exercising and learn to read women's minds? Here, I would like to remind you of the following super-core points:
It is difficult for people with fixed minds and narrow horizons to learn to read women's hearts. To understand a woman's heart, we must first do the following two things.
1, reverse closed thinking, use your head and let go of your thinking.
Let your head work first. Whenever you look at anything, remember to look with an open mind. Don't think about what you can't do, but think about how you can do it.
When your mind comes from the seal, you will find that when you look at a person or a thing, your first impression is: doubt! You are wondering whether it is true or not, and you are wondering whether it is a lie.
Having said that, I will ask: What good is doubt to you? Besides making you feel afraid to move forward, making yourself too lazy to think and hesitate, what are the benefits? When Ma opened TB, many people were skeptical, but they were not the ones who did it directly. What happened now?
How important an open mind is to the promotion of life. If you want to learn something, the first thing you need to do is to abandon all ideas based on closed thinking. What you need to do is to accept everything in this world and believe that everything you encounter in this world is worth learning. Stop being arrogant and live in a self-righteous fantasy;
Look directly at the reality, you can see through the falsehood and get the truth, you can fundamentally solve the problem and be a surreal brave!
So, what kind of framework does an open mind give me? What have I done to open my heart to reality?
Let me give you my own example:
I met a madman on the road before. He was naked and unkempt, and kept saying something, but I still paid full attention to what he said.
So what if you're crazy? I believe there is something worth learning. Maybe he's thinking about his crazy process. So after listening, if I encounter such an experience, will I not be crazy? This is my learning attitude!
From now on, don't look at and judge anything with a sealed "self-righteousness". There is no right or wrong in the world, just from which angle.
Even if it is right or wrong, what does it have to do with you? Spend more time thinking about whether you can learn something from it and whether it can be used for you. This is the way of thinking that is really useful to you.
2. Open your narrow eyes, look directly at people who are better than yourself and learn from them sincerely.
Open your eyes, don't be limited to a little bump, don't care about a little setback and a little loss. If your mind is full of rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, you can't do much.
As a man! You must set yourself a goal and keep moving forward. You should have the courage to abandon all people and things that have an impact on your goals. Don't waste your time on a trifle. Always remember that time is greater than money, don't put the cart before the horse.
Open your eyes, face people who are stronger than you and more knowledgeable than you, learn with an open mind and constantly improve your own shortcomings. No one is perfect, so we should learn to accept our own shortcomings, learn from them and improve, absorb and improve, and communicate with stronger people. In this way, you will gradually find that you have become such a person.
If you look at a person with jealousy from the beginning, then you don't want to learn useful knowledge, what you want to learn, look at a person with sincere praise and admiration, learn how they did it with humility, and always think about how you can do it, how I can do it, and what I still lack.
When you learn to think like this, your vision and mentality can really start, you will continue to learn and improve, and the perspective of looking at people and things will gradually start to deviate from subjective to objective.
From now on, don't envy and hate anyone who is better than you with a narrow "small belly" vision, open your body and mind to learn, praise, praise and learn how to do it.
Do the above two things, and then start learning:
Empathy.
So what is empathy? At the beginning of the article, I said that women are a multi-faceted emotional thinking, so if you want to understand girls' thinking, you must first learn to look at the same point from different angles.
For example:
Without knowing anything, you are walking on the road and see two people fighting in front of you. The thin man couldn't beat the strong man and was knocked down by the strong man.
The first perspective: the strong man is your brother, and you will ask: Brother, what's wrong with you? Are you okay? It is good that your subjective consciousness will be biased towards your brother. )
The second perspective: the thin man is your brother, and you will ask: Are you okay, brother? Why did he hit you? Let me help you. Your subjective consciousness will be biased towards the good side of your brother.
The third perspective: if you are a demon, you will say: stop, both of you squat down against the wall. (Your subjective consciousness will be biased towards neutrality)
The fourth perspective: If you are a passer-by, you will vividly point out why they fight, play badly, play excitingly, etc. (your subjective consciousness is good or bad).
The fifth perspective: If the place where they fight is in front of your store, which hinders your business, and you are the boss, you will say: Hey, hey, you stay away from the fight and don't block my business. They are all wrong. )
If you want to exercise your empathy, try to look at the same thing from different angles from now on. Only when you habitually do this can you be qualified to ask how to read a woman's mind.
Because at that time, everyone's thinking itself was a combination of many points:
1, site
2. Time
3. Space
Step 4: Location
5. What is she doing
6. What she experienced today.
7. What are you talking about?
8. How much does she like you?
9. How much do you know about each other?
10, her impression of you, can you accurately put yourself in the other person's shoes?
1 1, combined with her own experience, what could she think of at that time?
12, did she say this because of the past, the present or the future?
13. Did she send you a message or ask you for information?
What does she want you to know?
15. What does she want you to say?
16, how does she feel about you?
17, how do you feel about her?
18 How did you make her feel?
19. How does she make you feel?
Can you confirm what she wants?
To understand a woman's mind, first learn the first two points in the article, and then start to exercise your empathy. If you can't even do the first point, then don't ask this question: what is a woman's thinking?
How to understand a woman's heart 2 How to read a woman's heart?
1) only cares about gentle accommodation. Most men believe that as long as they are considerate and obedient to women, they can win their favor. Actually, this may be a very, very big mistake! I have read the analysis of many psychologists and found that even the most normal women have the psychology of attaching to men. Every woman needs an independent and generous man to accompany her.
Because they don't love, they give everything when they love. Do you think they will be stupid enough to cling to a weak person? When dealing with women, you should give orders when you should take the initiative; When you are tough, be tough to the end.
(2) Don't pretend that you are capable. When a woman asks a man for help, many men will agree, but in the end they will make a mess and drag their feet. Instead, they don't understand. They would rather do what they can in the morning and politely refuse when they know they are incompetent. They may still think you are honest and have a good impression on you.
(3) Should not be shabby. In fact, most women haggle over every ounce, but they don't like men haggling over every ounce. As a man, you must be psychologically prepared, knowing that going out with women should be generous, at least not shabby. Don't date without money, okay?
(4) Don't be absent-minded. When a man is dating a woman, he should concentrate on her conversation and intentions at any time. If you are always absent-minded and stare at her questions and topics, it will be a very disappointing thing for her! Next time you want to date her again, she may treat you to a ton of lemons. So, let go of those things that often disturb your thoughts for a while! For example, people often dial your mobile phone, so turn it off! You can't die without listening to a few phone calls!
(5) Avoid asking age. You may have listened to it all morning, but I still feel it necessary to say it again. Even if a woman is honest and sincere at ordinary times, when it comes to age, she will always try her best to dodge, hide and even cheat!
A middle-aged woman with white hair will tell you that she doesn't know what Star Wars is, and ask you if you know the sequel to Dreadwind-The Earth Strikes Back? In short, women under the age of 18 and over the age of 60 care a little about their age. So, in the face of a woman, you can ask almost any question, but don't forget her age, understand?
(6) Seriously joking. Of course, it is ok to joke with women. There is a familiar way to joke, and there is another way to be unfamiliar. If it is some funny jokes, it will also have an excellent regulating effect on the whole atmosphere of getting along. But if the joke goes too far, the effect will be very bad, and your ending may be tragic. So be sure to be measured, observe their reaction to you, and avoid getting carried away, so as not to cause their disgust and anger.
(7) Don't satirize your figure. Never, never, never talk about a woman's weight! Even if a woman says she doesn't mind her weight, she still cares. I would rather praise a woman with a strong figure and a good face than dig at a woman with a poor figure.
(8) Interested in her. Women hate that men pay attention to other things while being nice to her. They will wonder if they are completely unattractive to you, and then they will think worse and worse, thinking that you don't respect her at all. As soon as you feel this way, you will fail more than half. The other half, she will also wonder if you only like her figure, so you only associate with her!
(9) Don't be too frank. Don't be too frank with women, because women don't like to be too frank. Most of them like to talk to funny people, sometimes even tit for tat in words, but they don't like humorous words that are too frank and explosive. Therefore, in fact, all witticisms need not be made too clear. Let them take a moment to chew what you say and guess the hidden meaning between the lines, and then they will smile like solve riddles on the lanterns.
Therefore, what you say in front of them must be subtle and naughty, so that she will be happy to get close to you.
(10) Try not to talk about sex. Unless you know them well enough to drink a glass of water together and get to know each other clearly, you'd better not mention anything obscene in front of women, no matter how minor it is, share it with your friends! You know, when talking to others, women are also interested in all the private affairs of each other, including feelings, friends and even marriage problems, but to be clear, this has nothing to do with sexual concepts!
(1 1) flattery. Women like to be flattered more than men. Because they like and are used to flattery, they are quite sensitive to flattery. For example, if you praise her tight dress, they may have heard it 300 times, so even if they are happy, it will not help much.
But as long as you further say: (You really look good, you will choose this blue skirt, which matches your figure perfectly! ) She will think that your praise is full of realism, and your flattery is not like flattery. Her happiness is from the heart!
How to understand a woman's heart 3 1 What are the 60 details of reading a woman's heart?
1, there are actually 60 details, not that many. We just need to choose some more important details, because if you want to find 60 details, and all of them should be done according to the details, it will be too much trouble. First of all, women like passionate men, which is their unique charm. However, if boys talk obliquely and hesitate, they will think they have no confidence.
2, and women don't like men to be too straightforward. For example, this woman often uses some words to cover up her original intention, but the man can see it at a glance and directly pokes the woman's heart. This kind of situation often gets women's disgust, so when pursuing women, we must master the art of speaking.
Besides, women want to find a brave, enthusiastic, responsible and indecisive man. They all hate him, because men should fully show their excellent qualities as men in front of women.
Finally, women also want to have a passionate life and make life interesting, so they don't like men who are too rigid and conventional, but they also need men's sincerity.
To sum up, the above are the 60 details I introduced about reading a woman's heart. I hope it will help everyone. If you have more good suggestions, please leave a message in the comments section below.
Second, how to understand women's psychology
1 First of all, we should understand this boy from the physical aspect, not only a woman's language, but also his expression, and look for clues from his manner and body language to see what he thinks, for example, he says he doesn't like it, but his body is honest.
2, but also appropriate to ignore what girls say, some girls are duplicitous about their own good things, say they don't want to, but they still care very much. This mainly depends on a man's sixth sense.