One Wide Pinker
I married my husband, Wide Pinker, for a very simple reason really.
Not because the two sides of the door is right, not because his family conditions are not bad, not because my parents forced me to get married to the point of about to tear me down, and not because my mother and his mother is in the square dance floor at first sight like the iron sister, mutually decided that the two sides of the children are not each other not to marry each other not each other not to be married.
Neither.
I would like to marry him, really just because, we two get along especially happy.
The first time we met, he said, "Hi, I'm Kuan Faner.
I tsked: I'm Orange. I'm a tangerine. Tangerines and broadsides don't go well together, do they?
He smoothly replied: to engage in objects can not pursue so perfect, if the pursuit of perfection, I have to with hemp sauce, chili oil, garlic and cilantro we get together, too obscene!
Finally decided to marry him, is in the third month of our acquaintance, he came to my home to help my mom cleaning. I am a person in doing housework, especially like to sing. I'd like to sing out loud, and I'd like to sing my heart out.
But when you're singing without thinking at all, you often only sing one or two lines. The people around you listening to you howl are like falling into the hell of Aeolus, and the cycle is endless, never ending, never ending.
That day, whenever I sang:
"Red Cen ah roll, time and again ah love Sen, gathering and dispersing always four."
And he sang on in a serious manner:
"Cow half sober cow half drunk
Since sweeping the dream with your mouth with."
I don't know how many times I fell to the ground laughing at that one moment, I suddenly made the most important decision in my life.
So I and broad pink children so logical to receive a certificate, did a completely to both parents to see the unoriginal wedding, the broad pink parents have been rented a two-room house decoration, live a free and easy life in the world of two people.
Whenever each of us didn't have a date after work, the two of us would dress extremely scruffy, go out to our favorite grilled fish restaurant, eat a spicy to the extreme grilled fish on the oily table, on the choking stove, open a case of beer, and then you hitched a ride with me, I hitched a ride with you, all the way to the high song
"Friends for life go together!
Those days are no more
A word for life
A lifetime of love and a glass of wine
A friend is never alone
A friend you'll understand
There's still hurt and there's still pain
And there's still me to go
And there's still me."
Walking home to the scorn of the crowd.
Broadchild and I always had a lot to say together. I can tell him whatever is on my mind, and of course he can tell me whatever is on his mind. However, it's not like we both have something on our minds every day, most of the time we share all the fun we have every day. For example, there is a colleague from the design department in Kuan Fan Er's company who speaks very good English, and every time Kuan Fan Er meets with him, he will keep broadcasting his classic quotes to me. The most famous sentence is: tomorrow's sharing session of the death of the elbow that you die or not die out ah Tiffany!
The two of us very much like shopping together. Broadfaner has exceptionally good taste, better than me, and understands me. I like what he can always pick out for me very casually. One day, not my birthday nor any anniversary nothing, I came home, I saw a pair of lambskin nude pink sandals on the ground, simply I am looking for the world in the pair. I was so excited that I pounced on Broadchurch, who was munching on cantaloupe on the couch, and asked him how he thought of buying me shoes.
He shrugged his shoulders and said, "These shoes have your name on them.
The two of us also love to watch movies together. He loves to watch those Korean thrillers, reasoning movies and horror movies, while I prefer those nonsensical Japanese youth movies. But we love each other's favorite movies from the bottom of our hearts. We also love to watch old movies, Hong Kong movies and animated movies. We recommend each other's movies, and there's no room for error. On weekends when we have nothing to do, we spread out on the huge sofa bed in the living room, close the blackout curtains (once they are drawn, the room is as dark as night), turn on the projector that we bought with our teeth and our feet and spent a lot of money on and put it on the wall, and the sound of the movie comes out of the stereo that we bought in our third year of marriage with our frugal money. We ate and drank our favorite Baxi Rum ice cream and chowed down on our spicy duck necks while watching movie after movie, our eyes swelling as if they would fall to the floor if we watched any more.
Of course, as a couple that pays a lot of attention to self-management, we often meet to work out together.
Please don't picture two fit, beautiful, imported gym wearers with sweatbands on their heads, sweating it out at an upscale gym. We two are so poor that we can only dance Zheng Doyan at home in old man sweatshirts. Kuan Fan Er's grooming is particularly hilarious when he's dancing Zheng Duo Yan, and I can't look at him at all. I can't look at him at all. He'll burst out laughing, and once he starts laughing, he'll laugh all the way to the bank.
All in all, I can't tell you how much fun I had with Kuan Fan Er, but I can't tell you how much fun I had with him. We just care for each other, take care of each other, make each other laugh, encourage each other, our marriage has come to the fifth year.
This weekend is the one where we take turns visiting our parents once a month. Sunday morning, in my parents a thousand times, "do not want a child your uterus will be aging you give birth to a child to deform" in the sound of the urge to escape out, run his parents home, who know that a door, two old people a face of stagnation.
The two of us hurriedly put away the heartless smile, sitting upright.
The mother of the broad pink children said: Xiao Kuan, next week your father will drive back home, to pick up your grandmother to come over to live.
Broad Faner said in surprise: Grandma is not the least favorite to come? No friends, not used to living?
The mother of the broad pink child expression is very miserable, silent for three minutes, said: your grandmother was diagnosed with liver cancer, advanced stage. The doctor said that there is still one year left, a good rest, do not have to cure.
The father of the broad powder is I have seen the best temperament, the most manly man, but I have never seen him so old, as if the face instantly more than 10,000 wrinkles, each wrinkle is an unspeakable sadness.
I rushed to look at the wide powder.
The wide powder grew eyes, face white.
I know how much Grandma meant to Kuan Fan. The first time I saw this, I was so happy to see you, and I was so happy to see you. The first time I saw this, I was able to see it in the back of my head, and I was able to see it in the back of my head.
I opened my mouth and didn't say a word.
Wide Pinker once jokingly told me that if the Grim Reaper dared to touch his grandmother, he would kill himself first and then go and kill the Grim Reaper.
Although this word is mixed, but I know that in his heart, never, never so moment, thought of his grandmother will be seriously ill, will be old, will pass away.
In fact, how normal it is for an 80-year-old to get sick and die. Of course Broadchild knew it was normal. He just wasn't mentally prepared for it.
He could never be mentally prepared for that.
The next week, Kuan Pinker's dad brought his grandmother back from her hometown. His dad was his grandmother's only son, and he was her only grandson. Grandma looked as kind and gentle as she did last New Year, and her hands were always very, very warm. She held my hand as she does every time she sees me, and I wanted to bawl my eyes out as I was held in her dry, old, extremely warm hands.
Even I did, and I really don't know what was going on in the mind of Kuan Fan Er at this time.
Whatever is on his mind, he will be the first to tell me without reservation. For example, he may have hemorrhoids, for example, he thinks his father seems to have an affair.
But this time, from the time we learned of Grandma's illness to the time she was picked up, when I was alone with Kuan Pink, he didn't mention a word about her.
Although this had never happened before in our marriage, I could understand how hard it hit him.
Wide Pink's mom and dad said Grandma didn't know about her condition yet. After all, the face of terminal illness is too heavy, we are happy to pretend that nothing, happy two families ate a dust feast, the table talking and laughing, the grandmother coaxed into a happy smile.
The first night of Grandma's arrival, wide powder children live with Grandma.
From the time he was three months old until he was fifteen, he slept with his grandmother every day. Kuan Fan'er said: "You can't smell the smell of my grandma's arms, it's especially fragrant. When I smell it, my eyes fight.
I was alone at home and chewed a bag of potato chips, almost all night. The next day oogly-eyed green to go to work, and almost at the end of the day I received a call from the wide pinker, saying that he was coming to pick me up.
"Let's both take a walk." He said.
Wide Pinker and I can still have fun even if we don't drink or go to the movies or go shopping, but just press the road. But today he was so silent, so sad. Walking beside him, for the first time, I was like walking beside my immediate leader, as if I were sitting on pins and needles, and it was hard to get around.
After walking for about half an hour, Kuan Fan Er suddenly spoke up and said:
Let's have a child, okay?
For a few minutes, I didn't realize what he was saying. After I had walked several steps in the same rhythm as before, the significance of the words surfaced in my brain. I first felt a wave of anger slowly float up my back spine, a tingle in my brain. Simultaneously dragging my feet, I practiced slowing down and finally stopped.
It took a moment for Wide Powder to realize I'd stopped, and he stood still, twisting to look at me.
I stiffened and asked him: how raw?
His face was also very stiff: how other people give birth, how we give birth ah.
I didn't know how to answer him.
Looking at his never-before-seen brutal expression, I came out of anger and yelled: others? Are we the same as others?
Broad Powder looked at me and slowly a heavy sadness filled his eyes. He walked back and took my hand.
Pulling the hand of the wide powder was originally something I do every day, but today, the palm of my hand touched the hand lines of his wide palm, but it was like catching a cockroach. I sweatdropped and shook him off vehemently.
Wide Pinkie obviously didn't expect me to react this way either. His eyes grew even sadder.
After a few moments of silence, he looked at me quietly and said, Orange, have I ever begged you for anything over the years?
These words calmed me down. He had obvious helplessness written all over his face.
I said: the two of us to have a child, only I can give birth. In addition to carrying a child for ten months, out of shape, all kinds of chronic diseases, to give birth to a child I also risked dying. I still have to breastfeed after giving birth, and my figure is completely finished. All this is just the physical damage to me. What about the rest? What about the rest that I have to pay for?
Wide Pink was almost in tears as he lowered his eyes and after a while said, I'm sorry, Orange.
I looked at the redness of his eyes, and my heart softened another point. He came to grab my hand and I didn't push him away.
I asked him, "What did you say to the girl about this?
He said: If I can convince you, of course I can convince him.
I asked again, "Even if I could, what about you? Can you?"
He said: for my grandmother, I can die.
After all, I do feel sorry for him. If I had come to such a desperate situation, wide powder must not be snappy with me, must not think only of himself. He would have sacrificed himself to help me.
So I held his hand hard.
Wide powder may be to see my heart, so calmly continue to say to me:
Orange you think about it, we were why we want to get married. I'd like to say that it was not to block the mouth of mom and dad.
The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
I have nothing to say.
Of course, to disguise as a normal person, just get married or not enough. It's just that before this afternoon, there was Wide Pinkie with me hemming and hawing to resist the pressure to push for a baby.
We discussed lying to our parents that we were both infertile. But once together, my mom knows the president of the People's Hospital, to give me a comprehensive examination is naturally not difficult. The first thing I'd like to say is that I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it.
So over the years, the only thing we can do is to play dumb and say: "The child is not coming to us, what can we do to fool around, and now we finally fooled around for five years.
And wide powder, finally was grandmother's condition down, surrendered.
Emotional comedy with three daddies child chapter 2 -
(unfinished)