With the development of social and economic, medical and health conditions improve, people's living standards continue to improve, longevity of the elderly is also more and more. As the saying goes: there is an old man in the family, if there is a treasure. But is this really true in real life? For some people, having a long-lived old man in the family is a burden. Let's listen to the experience of 50-year-old Auntie Liu.
I was born in a rural area and was the only child in my family. According to rural customs in those days, it was necessary to recruit a son-in-law to come to the house, but my parents were more enlightened and didn't force me, and I eventually married my current husband. In the last year, my father died due to illness, my mother's health is also deteriorating, so I will be more than 70 years old mother section to their side to take care of.
At the beginning, my mother was quite a relief, eating and drinking every day in the small park and other people of my age chatting and dancing in the square, and the days were quite comfortable. However, since I retired, my mother has become more and more behavioral, bossing me around as if I have to be around her every day, throwing tantrums when she doesn't see me, and it's hard to get along with her.
Once in a while, when I want to go out and have dinner with friends, my mother won't allow me to do so, and says that it's not safe for her to be home alone at her age. So, I can only put off the party and stay home with my mother. Maybe the mood is happy, nutrition also keep up, mother's health day by day better. In theory this is a good thing, but mother is getting more and more venomous.
It's a good thing that I've been working on this for a while now, because I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do it, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it. I also said that he is my own mother, I raise her is supposed to, even if scolded me I have to suffer. I really feel very aggrieved, but there is no way, after all, is my biological mother, I have no way to let go.
While it is said that all good things come first, filial piety is what we should do. But the old man should also control his temper, know how to sympathize with the child's not easy, and stop. As for the children, we should do our best to tolerate the parents' capriciousness, cherish the reunion time, to avoid leaving the "children want to raise and parents do not wait" regret.