Full-time mother, as the name suggests, is a mother who quits her job and devotes all her time to taking care of her children. In modern society, the mode of bringing children from the old man is slowly transformed to the mother to bring, full-time mothers more and more, really can be said to be "a handful of shit, a handful of urine" to raise the growth, so it is very hard, but the process has been rewarded with endless happiness.
Full-time mothers have advantages and disadvantages, the disadvantage is to stay at home for a long time, only to face the child, the vision is not open, so it is easier to complain, that they are at home is a sacrifice, if you can't get to the point in a timely manner, the long time will lead to the husband's relationship with the feelings of disharmony. But there are advantages, because the baby long time with the mother, parent-child relationship than with the father a lot of close, for the child, the mother is the most important person, dependent on the mother, and in this get together, can be in accordance with the mother's ideas and plans to educate the child, will not appear in the education of the disagreement. But all full-time moms are asked: "Why doesn't your mother-in-law help you" "Why doesn't your mom help you" "Why don't you go to work and let the old people help bring up your children" "Why don't you hire a nanny to help".
First of all, let's talk about the nanny thing, if you get a good nanny, treat your child as your own, cherish and care, this is the best, but if you get a relatively bad nanny, that's not good for the child, the nanny's cultural level is relatively low, can't be on the child's early education and guidance. And do not change the nanny frequently, so that the child lacks a sense of security, but also always pay attention to the nanny's words and deeds, if you find something wrong, immediately dismissed, such as verbal abuse and scolding the child and other behaviors. Secondly, why not let the mother-in-law or mother to bring, mother-in-law and mother's age, in terms of health is not suitable for too strenuous, the newborn needs 24-hour care, the old man's body can not eat. Since ancient times the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a major problem, the original mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship is not good to get along, in the disagreement, can not directly point out the old man's mistakes, after all, scientific parenting and old-fashioned parenting in some practices there is a big difference. On the Internet often see grandma and grandma with children in the square dance, and mom and dad with children in the Latin dance, this is not to say that the square dance is not good, but expresses the two generations of people with children, will bring to the children themselves, knowledge, insight is different.
Grandma and grandma bring the child as long as the food and drink well, while mom and dad bring the child, not only to eat and drink well, but also to wear beautiful clothes, follow the parents to go out and play together, walk around, expand the child's horizons, increase the child's way of movement, so that the child in the moral, intellectual, physical and aesthetic all-round development. The last is not to work, it depends on your mind, children and work, which you want more, since the ancient fish and the bear's paw can not be both. In fact, you may want to do a full-time mom when the child is 0-3 years old, 0-3 years old, for the child's life is crucial, is an important period of the child's character development, early education he will benefit for life. And the job can be found again, the child's growth only once.
The hard work of a full-time mom is something that outsiders can't appreciate, but the happiness and relief that comes back is also tremendous, and can't be described in words, as you watch him turn over for the first time, call his mom for the first time, and walk for the first time, and you'll be witness to countless firsts for him, and it's such a happy thing to be a part of.