Family style is crucial to the family heritage. There is no simple family style, can not make a family of melons and gourds, more can not make a family not to fall apart. There is a sense of identity of the family cohesion, this sense of identity is obviously not possible family property, because property is often divided and eventually exhausted, only one thing can be all members of the family share dip, not only will not be reduced, but will be therefore value-added - that is, so that all the members of the family are proud of the" family style". Family style" is a necessary element of an influential and reputable family, and it is also the core value of a family.
Family customs are often reflected in the family rules set by virtuous ancestors, which have many names in China: "family rules", "family rules", "family training", etc. If we put it in a nutshell, we can say "family rules", "family rules", "family training", "family rules", "family rules", "family rules", "family rules", "family rules" and so on. These family rules and regulations have many names in China: "family rules", "family rules", "family training", etc. In a nutshell, it is "family education". The intangible family style must rely on the tangible family teachings to be passed on and carried forward.
Family training refers to the teaching of the children and grandchildren in the world, the family business.
Since the beginning of the Han Dynasty, the writings of family teachings have become more and more colorful with the evolution of the dynasty. The family tree records a lot of famous quotes and aphorisms to teach the children, which became the good policy of the family and the model of "cultivating one's body" and "keeping the family in order" that people admire. For example, the idea of "a porridge and a meal, when thinking about the hard-earned" is still of positive significance today. In the family tree, there are a lot of detailed family motto, family rules and so on for the children and grandchildren to follow. Among them, the most well-known famous training, such as Yan's family training, Zhu Zi family maxims, etc., is still popular.
The reason why family rules are valued by the world is that they emphasize loyalty, filial piety, righteousness, and teach manners, integrity and shame. In addition, what to promote and what to prohibit is also an important part of the family law, such as: "thrift should be respected", "evil witch should be prohibited" and so on.
In short, each family has a different family rules. The more common ones in the family tree include the following:
I. Focus on family law and national law
2. Harmony between clans and villages
Three. Filial piety and respect for parents and elders
Four. Rituals and proper names
V. Ancestor worship and grave procedures
VI. Cultivation of the family
Example:
"Tseng Kuo-fan Family Trainings" quotes
Eight words: brothers, sons and nephews in the family, but should be remembered grandfather's eight words, said: "test, treasure, morning, sweeping, books, vegetables, fish, pigs.
Eight: Yu diary book and eight of the said, said: "reading to exegetical, poetry and text to the tone of voice for this, the relatives to get happy for this, health to quit anger for this, the body to not delusional for this, home to not up for this, for the official to not money for this, marching to not disturb the people for this." These eight books, all Yu experience and grasp the theory, I should also teach the children and nephews to remember, regardless of the world's rule and disorder, the family's rich and poor, but can keep the eight stars of the Xinggang Gong and Yu's eight books, always not lose the upper class family.
The twelve paragraphs of cultivation:
1, the main respect: neat and serious, always careful. When there is nothing to do, the heart is in the cavity; when there is something to do, it is dedicated and unmixed, like the rising sun.
2. Meditation: Every day, no matter when, sit quietly for half an hour, experience the static pole of the sun to restore the benevolence of the heart, the right place to condense the life, such as the town of Ding.
3, get up early: dawn that is, after waking up, do not dip love.
4, reading is not two: a book is not finished point, not read other books, turn east and west reading, futile follow the outside as a person, every day to ten leaves for the rate.
5, reading history: C purchase twenty-three histories, read ten leaves a day, although something uninterrupted.
6. Be careful with your words: Be careful with your mind, it is the first work.
7, gas: gas hidden in the dantian, nothing that can not be said to others.
8. Protecting the body: abstaining from labor, desire, and food, and treating all times as if you were sick.
9, the day to know their deaths: each diary after tea occasionally talk about one. Sub virtue door, learning door, economic door, art door.
10, the month without forgetting what can be: a few poems per month, to test the accumulation of more or less, to raise the fullness of the gas, can not be obsessed with, the most prone to drowning in the heart of the loss of will.
11, the word: half an hour after breakfast to make words, all the pen and ink should be treated as their own homework, do not leave it for tomorrow, the more accumulated the more difficult to clear.
12, the night does not go out: the work is tired of God, cut the warning to cut the warning