Never fall in love with a man in distress. This is not an alarmist statement, but rather a lesson learned from the past. Falling in love with a "fallen man" and suffering with him may not end up being loved and cherished by him. On the contrary, when a person has money, he becomes bad. I would like to advise women not to fall in love with a "poor boy"!
Many people ask why girls don't want to grow up with a guy who has nothing. The answer is that the risk is too high and the expected return is low. Growing up with a boy is like raising a child. There are always countless risks and challenges in growing up. If you're not careful, bad things can happen. Not to mention that after raising a kid, the kid is famous. I'm a champion. He takes it with him wherever he goes, but a man doesn't have to. You can only be the yellow face of his family and face the threat of women outside at all times, so accompanying one is conceivable.
Every tender and bitter boy has a woman he has taught to love. That woman was beaten and bruised by him. Eventually he learns to love, to take someone else in his arms, to cut ties with the past, which can be the price of growing up.
How do you find a prince in distress without a pair of snowy eyes, and it's not that there aren't examples of couples who make the effort in life, there are just too few of them. Many girls don't have the ability to recognize people in their twenties. You never know if the person will turn bad with money. Just by virtue of the sweetness and infatuation of being in love, he doesn't hesitate to throw his person and money into this big pit. Whether he will lose everything in the end depends on the character of the person. When he is "in trouble", the girl's financial situation will certainly be better than his, and will certainly spend money on him. Whether or not he has worked hard during this period, whether or not he is motivated, will predict the movement of this stock. If he finds something bad, he must stop in time.
Growing up with someone is not so easy, when he is not good at everything, your life will experience a lot of pressure, work is not going well, can not afford to pay the rent, the other side rely on themselves. If both sides of the psychological quality is not strong enough, it is easy to bring negative emotions into this fragile family, it is easy to blame each other and resent each other for dragging their legs. The economic foundation determines the superstructure. If you eat the last meal and not the next, the building will not be sustainable, and the two people living under the roof will not be any better.