The article lists the poor college students who borrowed hundreds of thousands to reward female anchors, but their parents lived on the government's minimum living allowance in 400 yuan every month, the reaction caused by the teacher's chicken blood when the author took the postgraduate entrance examination, the dialogue between the author and his mother, the author's analysis of his parents' living conditions, the author's explanation of the word "getting along", the author's guilty and humble understanding, and the investment opportunity missed by the author because he regretted not asking his parents for money.
After reading the author's article, I really beg to differ. Because, I also know how my life came from and who gave it to me. At the same time, I can't even forget who gave me the opportunity to learn, who gave me the environment to grow up, and who enabled me to realize my ideals without worry, including the pursuit of poetry and distance.
Everyone has the right to pursue their own happy life, and parents are no exception. However, looking around the world, how many parents will give up their children's poetry and distance in pursuit of their own happiness? Look at China again. How many parents never stop working for their children's happiness? This has nothing to do with their status or their money and rights. You can't say that a classmate's father is a real estate tycoon, so he is not worried about his children's academic performance and growth at all. On the contrary, the more parents with status and ability, the more worried they are that their children will lose at the starting line. For the sake of their children's future, they will do their best to sacrifice their happiness. The parents of ordinary families treat their children in an unparalleled way.
That's ridiculous. In the author's postgraduate class, the teacher's passionate chicken blood did not play a role in refueling. On the contrary, the author has doubts or even misunderstandings about "parents are still struggling" because of the whispers of several students, just because of a sentence in the teacher's chicken blood: "In order to let her sleep well, I crouched in the corridor of the hotel like a dog, and any room rushed out when I heard the sound."
In my opinion, the teacher's words are completely correct. Parents don't have to be cattle and horses for their children, but only ask their children to give their lives. When you were sick, they repeatedly told the doctor to use the best medicine. When you were at school, they ran around begging the headmaster to save a seat for you. Therefore, parents are humble to life, and their living conditions are largely subject to the happiness of their children. They prefer to live proudly and happily, not bargaining with vegetable vendors for a few dollars, nor going to the cinema to save money. They gave up too much for their children. As children, we have no right to deprive our parents of happiness. Therefore, in the author's eyes, the happiness of parents dancing in square dance and a group of aunts grabbing red envelopes is temporary and superficial. They don't want to be divorced from society. They don't want to worry about their children because of their health problems. If you see your parents dancing in the square dance, playing mahjong and grabbing red envelopes, you are all wet, because they know their children better than their fathers. On the one hand, they may also want to relax and adjust. Therefore, they are children's humbleness.
As children, we should feel guilty about our parents. Of course, you can't sing filial piety songs in KTV with your parents' hard money. Of course, you can't have a nutritious meal regardless of your parents' poor food. Of course, you can't go to the cinema often and forget your parents' old DVD player. Because everything you have is closely related to your parents. Without them, you don't even have a chance to come to this world. What about poetry and distance? Guilt will let us know what to do and what not to do. Guilt will make us cherish the life we have, and guilt will make us think of thanking our parents.
So, on the other hand, as children, we should be considerate of our parents' difficulties and spend more time with them instead of taking their parents' money. It is only natural that our parents provide for our schooling and our wives. No one is born to owe anyone. In foreign countries, many parents will educate their children like this: Son, what you eat and wear now is spent on parents' money, and parents' money is also earned through their own labor. Therefore, you should also exchange wealth and realize your self-worth through your own labor when you are an adult.
China's parents wouldn't do that. They are always willing and desperate to work hard for their children's schooling, marriage and even their future life without any requirements. Nowadays, the materialistic and fast-developing society has made many young people in the new era have different values and worldviews. Some of them will think that parents are right to buy a house for themselves, parents are right to send their children to school, and parents are right to save money for their children's living expenses. In fact, we are too selfish to think that our parents are willing to do so. We don't insist, we selfishly think that they are doing well, and we don't put our so-called poetry and distance above their parents' happiness.
So, of course, you must feel guilty, guilty of your parents. Only in this way can you make correct and more rational choices in some things, instead of eating whatever you want and playing whatever you want. Anyone with a little conscience in China will put the word "filial piety" in his heart first. The so-called filial piety among all virtues is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation and the character handed down from generation to generation by Chinese descendants. We should never allow or do anything to disappoint our parents, let alone pursue lofty goals in our hearts and keep our parents awake at night. You have poetry and distance. What about your parents?