As a tone-deaf person, the few songs that I can sing are special and often looped songs that I love to listen to. The mom's brainwashing effect is so strong, it's almost desperate. If it was before I simply want to shout this is also too earthy, do not put it!
Nowadays, I will only silently continue to shoot the water, the heart silently read a respect, after all, my mom is I go to work during the day, a person with a child, almost the whole hold does not let go of the hand, but also can handle their own breakfast and lunch and the child supplements, scrubbing the floor to do the laundry of the strong, she can have such optimistic energy to listen to the music simply let me want to applaud.
The child in the stomach has always felt unloaded on the easy, however, born to understand that this is the first step in the escalation of monsters - born to build a new character needs to do too many tasks, so I came to help bring up the child's in-laws, the mother's admiration doubled, and then the understanding of the parents also doubled.
Before I had children I was an inveterate skeptical nihilist with some black and white childish tendencies. After having children my heart seemed to soften and I felt connected to the ground I was standing on, grounded.
Because all of a sudden I know that there is a person in this world because of me, and I have a responsibility to her.
But parenting isn't easy. When I was a newborn, I had to breastfeed her every two hours while my body was still struggling, and when I got better, I realized that my time was taken up by my child, and there were no more weekends and no more relaxation.
Sometimes I get irritated and feel like life is a bad cycle. But when I go home and see my mom, she's always calm, singing her favorite song, happily turning the spoon in the kitchen, cooking and washing dishes, and then I'm at peace with myself.
Your parents' love for you will always be deeper than your love for them. Whenever dad is walking alone outside, call the video to ask what mom is doing, whenever I come home the ground is clean, clothes folded, tea cups spread out in the cool water, whenever mom in my tired, take the initiative to hold the child, let me rest more ... and I also obediently let her continue to labor when the words will come from the bottom of the heart.
I didn't know my parents before I had children. The first thing I learned when I started to learn about society was resentment, why I didn't have what everyone else had, why other people's moms and dads could be like that and they couldn't. I didn't understand the pressures of life at that time, and I was still a bit resentful because I was incompetent.
Until I had my own children, I realized the weight of the word "responsibility" and understood the difficulty of life.
From time to time, I think back to the time when conditions were tough. Paper mill lights dim, mom will sometimes take me and my brother to work overtime, my brother and I slept in the pile of paper just made, woke up in the middle of the night holler holler eat mom overtime night snacks, that time mom hungry? Carrying a sick child on my back and walking in the pouring rain to take me to the hospital, was mom cold at that time?
How did Dad get out on his own and send back his monthly living expenses? I'm not sure if you're a good person, but I'm a good person, and I'm a good person. In my brother and I will soon go to college with what courage to buy out their own insurance decided to start their own business to open a factory, the most difficult time in the pocket only to buy cigarettes money. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.
Understand the life of ordinary and helpless, only to know that the sky will not fall pie, a needle and a thread, a bowl of porridge need you to pay labor and time to get. The myth of overnight wealth describes those who fly on the wind or by the marketing network, it is difficult to fly up to the sky piggy you do not want to deceive themselves that can only helplessly follow the steps.
The tools borrowed in life keep changing, we came into contact with more new concepts, encountered more different levels of people. However, we are not much more trendy than our parents, how much more advanced, it becomes a tool, which contains the human nature, the truth of life is very similar.
Parents' understanding of life is richer and more layered than you can imagine, and their hearts are stronger than yours. And they know you better than you think, much more than you know them. Talk to your parents more often, and you'll realize that maybe they don't know the same thing as you do, and that the beginning of one's adulthood is to reconcile with one's family of origin, and to reconcile with oneself.
Mom is a very emotional person. Yet when I talk to my mom about something really bad, she's always calm and ask she always says you're old enough to handle it on your own or that this kind of thing is normal. Yet she would shed tears because one day the baby was naughty and didn't eat enough on her own at lunchtime, and she went out and came back to find that she was starving and ate a bowl of egg custard in one gulp, and felt that she hadn't looked after her child well enough.
Moms who have new babies and forget the old ones, my heart is soft because of you.
I am in this world because of my parents, my children are in this world because of me, we are one blood and one blood.
Life has drawn a circle from further back to intermingle you and my family.