I remember the first time I went to my mother-in-law's home with my husband to visit her, just entered the door I saw my mother-in-law and an aunt chatting, the two of them saw me immediately laughed, my mother-in-law smiled at the aunt next to her and said, this is my son's girlfriend, that aunt said, looks can be really watery ah, I laughed a little.
This aunt is called Auntie Zhang, is the mother-in-law's neighbor, is also the mother-in-law's best friend, the two people's relationship is very good, often about to go to the square dance, and then go to the grocery store, my husband said to me, his father died, he did not have much to accompany his mother, fortunately there is Auntie Zhang accompanied by him, he was really thankful for that, I smiled and said, life is so good to have such a friend by your side.
After that, every time I went to my in-laws' house for dinner, I would see Auntie Zhang, and my relationship with Auntie Zhang got better, and then I dated my husband for five years, and we were planning to get married, and I didn't take my husband to see my parents for these five years because I really didn't want my husband to see my mother too soon, and my mother sometimes really makes me helpless.
My family also has a younger brother, mother favoritism brother some, but also very indulgent brother, now brother so big mother is still giving brother pocket money, I often for the younger brother's things and mother quarrel, but the quarrel is not much use, the mother is still spoiled brother, mother once said to me after I got married, let me put the dowry money to the younger brother to buy a house, in fact, at that time, I was very angry to hear, but at that time I was not yet in love, so I felt that I was not in love, so I was not in love. I hadn't fallen in love yet, so I didn't feel the need to talk back to my mother about the future.
But now that I'm getting married, I think I need to have a good talk with my mother. When my parents met my husband, they had a good impression of him, especially my father, who likes to play chess, and so does my husband, and they had a lot to talk about, and at dinner, my mother asked my husband how much he could take out of the bride price, and my husband smiled and asked my mother how much she wanted for our side of the family. Mother laughed and said, can not get out, do not get married, I look at the mother, pulling the husband away , out of the time I said to my husband, you know, why I do not want to take you to my house, right, my husband pulled my hand and said all right.
The disagreement, also caused me and my mother did not speak for a long time, my father and my mother in the middle of the persuade us, after I talked to my mother, I said 200,000 is really too much, you take 200,000 is to want to buy a house for his brother is it, the mother said, I've told you before, you get married to the dowry money I want to give your brother to buy a house, no 200,000 you don't want to get married, I laughed coldly under the said, you can control me? The mother looked at me and did not say anything, this time my phone rang, I picked up my husband, he said to me, his mother wants to ask my parents to talk, I gave my mother said, the mother promised.
The two families discussed, mother-in-law is very polite, I saw my mother condescending look, really angry, mother-in-law look at me feel bad, let my husband to take me out of the box air, we stayed outside for a while, I think it is not good to leave my mother-in-law and mother inside, it is still in, did not expect to go in I saw my mother and the color of my mother-in-law and said that agree with our marriage, I asked my mother I asked the mother how much the bride price, the mother looked at the mother-in-law said eighty thousand, the husband said with a smile, eighty thousand he took out, so, our marriage is also considered to be a good discussion.
After marriage, my husband and I are living outside, this house is the father-in-law in the world when the husband bought a good, not very large, but enough for us to live in the couple, I discussed with my husband, we will give my mother-in-law 2,000 per month for the household, after all, our dowry money is the mother-in-law out of the money, because my husband was in a hurry to get out of the money for the dowry, but my mother-in-law did not let her, my mother-in-law said that this should have been her out of our money to their own! The first thing I'd like to say is that I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to afford to pay for this, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to afford to pay for it.
I often go to see my mother-in-law, once I came out of my mother-in-law's house, see Auntie Zhang, she saw me pull me aside and ask me, your mother-in-law recently how ah, to the end of the month on the money, I inexplicably said how can she have a retired salary, my husband and I will also give her 2,000 per month, she is completely enough, Auntie Zhang surprised and said how could your mother-in-law to the end of the month on the money, that day we are dancing shouting to buy clothes, she is all the time, she is a good person. The day we danced and shouted to buy clothes, she did not have the money out of the beginning of the month there is still a little money, the end of the month there is no money, I listened to Auntie Zhang said, very puzzled, I am the fifteenth day of every month to send money to my mother-in-law, ah, how can she have no money.
To go to my mother-in-law's house again when I want to ask her about this, but I do not know how to speak, I play the phone, I heard my mother-in-law a little coughing, they went to her closet to get her clothes, I opened the closet, I saw the small drawer of the closet, some white notes, I took out a look at all of the transfers of transfer orders, I look at the name above is actually my mother's, I took these transfer orders to find the mother-in-law and ask her! I was so angry that I went out and went back to my mother's house.
I put this list to my mother, my brother is also at home, looked at me and asked how to come back, but also a face of anger, I ignored him, I put the list in front of my mother, asked her what's going on, my mother laughed and said that your mother-in-law owes me, I initially asked for 200,000 she agreed to, but said that there is not so much, it will be the first to give me eighty thousand, and then turn a few thousand dollars a month to me, has been the rest of the 120,000, pay off until the end of the.
I heard my mother say this, angry not smashed my mother's home, my brother and my mother pointed at me scolding, I said to my mother, no wonder my mother-in-law to the end of the month, no money, it is the middle of the month she has a salary, immediately sent the money to you, the end of the month on the tight living, I give you, you do not want to get a penny from me and my mother-in-law's family, don't even think about it, I said I left, my father chased him out, I watched I said, you have to persuade the mother ah, she is so spoiled brother, later she will suffer, father nodded and said.
I went to my mother-in-law's home, I said to her, don't send money in the future, if she still sends like this, I will really be angry, my mother-in-law sighed and said why bother, I said, is it not that time to discuss the marriage, I'm out of the box after you promised my mother, my mother-in-law nodded her head and said yes, I said don't send it in the future, my mother-in-law said yes, I can't help but say yes.