"Daughter-in-law, the dowry to the younger brother-in-law as a bride price," the wife aggrieved to agree to the mother-in-law's request, the husband how to do?

It is said that the dowry is a woman's last guarantee, and Xiaoli's this guarantee is taken away by her mother-in-law. Xiaoli's husband has a 25-year-old brother, but also the time to talk about marriage. However, the other party requires the man to give the full 180,000 bride price. When Xiao Li got married, but not a penny of the bride price to ask for, the mother's family's mother and father also gave Xiao Li 100,000 dowry. I hope to help my daughter and son-in-law buy a house and live their married life.

But, Xiaoli's mother-in-law does not think so, Xiaoli's mother-in-law that Xiaoli's money is the people of their family, so Xiaoli also have to for their youngest son to marry a daughter-in-law to make a contribution, if not, that is not to take them as a family. The mother-in-law also said very nice, said later and then save money to buy a house for Xiaoli them, now the money first for his brother to marry a daughter-in-law with. Xiaoli's husband also relieved Xiaoli said, "I'm sorry to marry me to make you suffer, I promise that I will try to make money in the future, your dowry money for you to earn back ."

01, Xiaoli's husband the right thing to do should be to reject his mother, for Xiaoli to keep the dowry money

You should know that this dowry money is the woman's parents to the woman. But not the male parents out of money, if Xiaoli mother-in-law wants Xiaoli to take the dowry money out to the little uncle as a bride price. Then that's a different story, because the money does come from your man's side.

But the dowry money is entirely the woman's parents' money. It is the money that the woman's parents use to give their daughter a good life, not for your son to get a wife. Legally, this money is all recoverable. Xiao Li's husband even agreed with his mother's approach, is a typical mom's treasure man, phoenix man.

02, Xiaoli is too weak to guard their own property

Kindness without teeth is cowardice, Xiaoli this is equivalent to give people riding to the head of the urine, but also do not dare to fart the kind. Yes, she needs her husband's protection. But her husband can't protect her. She needs to protect herself, and even if she doesn't have a choice, don't take the liberty of giving dowry money to your mother-in-law. Because it's your own parents who are giving you the money. You should ask your parents before you make a decision. At least, your parents can help you and protect you. This thing, no matter where you put it, is the wrong of Xiaoli's mother-in-law, Xiaoli refused is a natural thing.

03, marriage is not to help the poor, but to support each other

Small Li mother-in-law's family is obviously a little poor, counting on small Li to help the poor. However, marriage is not poverty alleviation. Xiao Li apparently did not realize this, a clear aggression, and finally will only end in tragedy. Xiaoli's parents gave Xiaoli the money, is to hope that her new life can be good, rather than to others as a dowry. And Xiaoli's husband, too, is counting on Xiaoli to help himself. A big man, but also want his wife's dowry to give his brother a daughter-in-law, is also very useless.

But any man with a little bit of responsibility would not want his daughter-in-law's dowry money to give his brother a wife, the two brothers have no responsibility. Xiao Li actually want to do is not to refuse, but to change a normal, responsible husband.