Born into a man, want the wind to get the wind, want the rain to get the rain of the day is really rare, sometimes you can hear a song that fits your state of mind, will really give you the power, like "sailor", "believe in yourself" and other inspiring rhythms, may allow you to metamorphose into a brand new self; sometimes a book, a sentence, a confide in a book, will be able to change a person's life. But I want to say to you: "Go read, only the book is your most sincere friend."
Of course, there is a kind of helplessness, a kind of trouble, a touch of sadness, just unique to the teenager, that is, "teenagers do not know the taste of sadness, love on the floor. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots. But now I know all the sadness, and I want to talk about it. I want to talk about it. But the sky is cooler in the fall." For this, I have a good way, that is to practice long-distance running, run a 10 kilometers a day, adhere to, physical health, psychological times great. In addition, if you are young, what are you afraid of, life is not over the hurdles.
If the heart is still helpless to find the root of the station, it is recommended to look at the Yu Hua wrote "alive" it!
Take a deep breath, and then silently say to yourself, nothing great, everything will pass, I can, I can!
When I resigned from a middle school in a county in Sichuan, I went to Guangzhou. The family almost broke up with me because of my unwise behavior. I still dragged the suitcase, carrying only 5000 dollars, determined to embark on the train south. To Guangzhou, in Tianhe rented a 400 yuan underground dark room, out to look for work was also carried away from the bag. All the documents, bank cards, cell phone was a pot of money. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you can get your hands on some of the most popular ones.
One of my high school classmates, a guy I didn't know very well before, gave me a great help at a critical time, and became the person I will always be grateful to in this life. He kindly offered me a room and lent me 400 dollars. His help gave me immense warmth. I ran through the streets and alleys of Guangzhou and all the major job markets under the scorching sun of 30 degrees. When I got home, I could only eat a plate of the cheapest fried winter melon. The thought of being uprooted out of the country, you can not go back to the gray face, just grit your teeth and insist.
In countless nights, hiding in the dormitory silently crying. One day, the pocket is out of ammunition again, the thought of work no door, gray future, I watched the TV, the tears on the face came down. My classmate came back from working late at the office and happened to see it. He didn't say anything, just put his arm around me and let me lean on his shoulder and cry. When I had cried enough, he said: places like up north don't believe in tears. Life is tough a lot of times. But there is also a lot of beauty in life, you have to believe in yourself. Difficulties are only temporary, just push through and you'll get over it. Later on, with his help, he introduced me to a job, so that I could adapt to the fast-paced life in Guangzhou.
After all these years, I still remember what he said to me. Because of his words, I chose to persist when I wanted to give up countless times later. It is also because of perseverance that I am still full of hope even though I am not rich or successful even now.
There must have been the most helpless time, the only stick to that is the faith, do not give up, do not recognize the faith
As the saying goes, the world is not as good as nine out of ten things. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.
The reason why I say "hit" is because the trough of life is not the norm, people can change their situation through their own efforts.
In my own experience, the first thing you need to do when you hit a low point in your life is to calm yourself down. There will be such and such disturbing things in the valley, it will be very easy to make their emotions ripple, sometimes it is irritable, sometimes it is disheartened. Remember, if you are not invincible, emotions, this thing, only when you can control, will benefit you, make the temper, play temper, never have any good results.
Secondly, think calmly about the various reasons that led you to the trough, analyze its causes, and try to find a countermeasure. If you are the economic reasons, think about how to borrow financing to tide over the difficulties; if it is the loss of love, comfort yourself "the end of the world", now lost than the future divorce is better, and then actively looking for new points of interest, as soon as possible to let themselves out of the shadow.
If you are in the workplace encountered a trough period, then please evaluate their own work is not to let their own favorite, worth their hibernation. If the conclusion is that it is worthwhile, then please take the "pay to taste the courage" spirit of the spirit of the "Su Wu Shepherd" spirit of not forgetting the beginning, waiting for the opportunity to seek a breakthrough. Of course, if the conclusion is not worth it, then please give up this job that makes you unhappy, and look for a new start for yourself.
If you feel lost and lonely after you have calmed yourself down and have nothing to do, be selective and read! "The book has its own golden house, the book has its own face like jade", read more, not only can help you relieve the pressure and boredom, more importantly, you can ask you to get up again to accumulate knowledge and energy.
In fact, the trough period may not be all bad for life. Just as not through the storm, can not see the rainbow, life is not through the hardships and setbacks, they will not get their own growth and maturity. Only in the trough period can realize what is "not for", in order to feel the warmth and warmth of the world, for their future to find the right way to deal with the world.
People in the trough period, the most taboo is to be willing to mediocrity and the spirit of decadence. A person who is overwhelmed by life, trapped in the "broken pot" state can not pull themselves out, never become a strong life, only those who are not satisfied with the status quo, the courage to challenge the life of the people, it is possible to pull up the sails, master their own life direction.
I appreciate this idiom, called "repeatedly defeated", compared to "repeatedly defeated" the realm and level of the gap between the sky and the earth. A person of sound character, should have a "defeat" this spirit of defeat and courage, in life at a low point, can control their own emotions and behaviors, to the spirit of vigor, to move forward, to embrace their own better tomorrow.
I talk about my own story of being most helpless in life.
In January 2014, it was very cold here, often snowing heavily.
I decided to return home from the closest family area of the local tax office due to my health reasons. I didn't realize that this hutong a few days ago to repair the water pipeline, thick ice, covered with snow. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to get out of this one, but I'm going to be able to get out of this one.
At that time, the phone was placed in the right pocket of the pants, and the right hand was pressed behind the body. Lying on the cold snow, I saw someone passing by, and rushed to call for help. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots, and you'll be able to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.
The snow is bigger, one after another pedestrians, passed by me, I became anxious inside, began to be a little disappointed. I lay in the snow for over forty minutes, and 25 people passed before and after me.
Just as I was about to despair inside, a woman in her forties appeared in front of me in a voice that was close to pleading. I internally warned myself that this might be hope, so don't rush! After an eastward climb, the woman moved forward and approached again. Taking advantage of her inattention, I grabbed her jacket violently with my left hand. She backed away in shock and yanked me up in the process.
Looking at her stunned appearance, I was going to let go. Just as my right foot hit the ground, the piercing pain made me choose to give up. She helped me to sit on the curb and helped me pull out my cell phone again. When she took advantage of me to call my friends, broke away from my hand and disappeared in the snow.
A friend, out of the goodness of his heart, was at the hospital trying to inform his parents of the situation. The father, who was already impatient, urged the mother to walk too slowly all the way. The mother was crossing the street when she accidentally fell down again.
After examination, I was right hip fracture, mother is a slight concussion, in order to facilitate the escort, the hospital will be our mother and son arranged in the same ward. The first half of the night safe and sound, in our persuasion, father went home to rest.
In the second half of the night, my mother began to nausea and vomiting, and her symptoms became more and more serious. At that time, the call to the doctor's phone on the right side of the bed, I want to lift the right hand, arm pain can not move. The mother's vomiting was even worse, and I tried to grab the phone again and again, but I didn't realize that I was trying too hard, and I yanked the phone line out of the way.
Our mother and child ward is in the innermost part of the building, a certain distance from the doctor's duty room. I had no choice but to scream for help in the ward, over and over again. The same helpless experience, in less than 24 hours of short time, but repeated twice, let me really desperate to the extreme.
What made me even more desperate happened again, after I called out for help for several minutes, the nurse appeared rubbing her eyes with sleep not too awake. After understanding the situation, she helplessly said she could only wait until dawn to deal with it. I realized afterward that the doctor on duty that night had something at home and temporarily slipped home.
That night, I was in my mother's vomiting sound torment until dawn, tears a drop after a drop, silently across the face. Because of the pain in my body, I could not get up, but only clutched the sheets with my hands, cursing myself inwardly.
The best medicine is to put your head down and not think about anything!
Too there! My most helpless time is, I insisted on about a year or so it, by himself to stick to the brick-and-mortar position, simply can not describe the feeling of helplessness, there is no language can express the mood at that time.
I do agricultural machinery sales, the second half of 2017 began, due to the entity business is not good to do, I originally invited the Gu Gong, one by one to leave, because the business is not good, we all seek careers to go, my family store is only left with an after-sales maintenance of the master and I, as well as my family Mr., the previous brilliant are past, in the face of the rest of the brutal marketing, it is really out of reach ah, so that I already let the Can not eat it, less than a month, my husband's unit and a notice, let them insist on going to the unit every day to report to work, every morning and evening once a brush face, you say this can be done, the store is left with me and after-sales la, which can also be insisted on, but the luck has been done from the new deployment, I insisted on a period of time with the after-sales, he because of his work to leave, really helpless ah, the back of my home, leaning on the mountain, I can not help but to face the empty field, I can not help but to let my family, and I can not help but to help my family. The face of the open space, helpless, immediately recruiting a moment to find the right person, business off-season, every day to see a person, the phone is the only partner, hungry snacks, a person cooking is not the quality, especially at night, dark, the house do not dare to turn on the lights, so it's still getting by, and sometimes a customer into the house, the heart of the heart, but also to pretend to be calm and calm as if nothing had happened, and fear that others know that they are looking at the house, but also to find the right person to help them. Fear that others know that they are watching the store, really can not stand, looking for my friends to companion, people can not insist on three days often, but I think every day, since the fate of this arrangement, we must hold on, a lot of time is spent in isolation and pain, never like relatives and friends to confess that they encountered the helplessness, probably insisted on a year or so. Finally, there is a breakthrough, joy from heaven, to find the right team of three people to work with me. At present, I am very happy to lead them from the brick-and-mortar store to the fast green platform. Through this period of refinement to maximize my physical and mental growth. Grateful for the arrangement of fate!
Feeling my way through the suffering
First of all, everyone has their most helpless moments, just to a different degree!
Secondly, the way I got through my helplessness was to turn to numerology, and through self-study of numerology I inadvertently walked into the halls of Buddhism, then returned to Yijing, and am now re-reading Confucianism!
Finally, I would like to say, no matter how helpless, there must be a road that belongs to you alone, that is, it belongs to you alone, that is why you are helpless, helplessness is actually your salvation, face it, save it, only you can unlock your helplessness!