No need to worry too much about other people's opinions, for those who talk about you behind the back of the people, to use the strength to prove their own, pointed out to the face of the other people will let others think that you are weak-minded, so We should laugh it off, and do their own thing, as for how they say, just let them go.
First of all, suffering from discussion also shows one's own ability from the other side, because generally people won't talk about people who are worse than themselves, and only if they feel that they are not as good as the other party in a certain aspect, then they may talk about it behind their backs; my cousin has a good mindset, and she and I work in the same company, and we don't disclose the relationship between the two of us to other people, plus we have some age difference. relationship, on top of the fact that we have some age difference, so we don't often commute together.
And she is a person of outstanding ability, the leadership is very important to her, intends to cultivate her, so there are a lot of people in the company are jealous of her, in behind the back of the discussion about her people are not a few, initially, heard people talking about her, I would say with her, want her to go to the face and the people to say it clearly, It's a good thing that I've been working with you for a long time, but I'm not sure if I've been working with you. But she didn't think so.
I was very puzzled, because those people are sometimes very excessive, do not understand the truth of the matter on the nonsense, so I asked my cousin to ask what not to go to confront them face to face, my cousin just smiled at me and said: "You're still young, a lot of times do not need to care about these things, there is time as well as to think about your next The first thing I want to do is to get a good job.
Then I did not quite understand her words, but then I slowly understand, because no matter how well you do, there will be so many people think you're not good enough, so we really do not need to waste time in this regard, after all, it is difficult to convince the crowd, so a laugh is not a good way to keep a good attitude, positive and optimistic face work and life.