Are you guys willing to help your kids with the grandkids when you get old?

I am not willing to bring up my grandchildren when I am old. The old man has no obligation to help young people with children, children are young people should bear the responsibility of their own, with their own sons and daughters is the obligation of life, but with the grandchildren absolutely no direct relationship with their own, these things should have been borne by the child's parents, with the child's grandparents grandparents is not any relationship. Now some young people feel that the elderly had already retired, there is nothing to do, they still have to work, the elderly to help bring grandchildren is also something that should be done, after all, they are a family.

But I don't think that's the case. My parents worked hard when they were young in order to bear the burden of the family, and it was hard for them to survive until they retired, so they should enjoy their own lives.

The pressure of life nowadays is really great, usually two people in the family must work, some time there is no time to bring the children, you can let the elderly help take care of some time, but most of the time should be their own responsibility to take care of. Our parents brought us up on their own when we were younger, so we should find a way to overcome this on our own instead of transferring the pressure to the elderly. I wouldn't ask the elderly to help with my grandchildren myself, and naturally I won't be there to help with my grandchildren when I'm older.