There are countless things that happen to people in their lives, both good and bad.
What are some of the things that a person should do when they reach the age of sixty in order to have a blessed and more prosperous life?
First, do good things.
On the long road of life, we should refrain from arrogance and do more good deeds.
On one occasion, Lei Feng in Shenyang transfer, he saw a gray-haired old lady on a stick, carrying a large bag, very difficult to go forward.
Lei Feng walked up to understand where the old lady was going, he immediately took the big bag, with a hand to help the old man, said: "Go, old lady I send you."
The old man was touched and praised him with a mouthful of praise for being a good boy.
Lei Feng has done a lot of good things in his life, from generation to generation, we will always learn from him.
Second, store up good intentions.
Storing good intentions can help others as well as yourself.
I'm sure you've all heard of the accident of the blind man lighting a lantern: a Zen master saw a blind man walking at night with a lantern.
The Zen master didn't understand why the blind man would do more than that, so he asked the reason.
The blind man said, "After dark, everyone is like me, unable to see anything, and that is why I light my lamp to light the way for them."
The Zen master said happily, "So you lit the lamp for the sake of others, you are very kind-hearted."
The blind man said, "In fact, I also lit the lamp for myself, because I lit it so that others could see me in the dark night and wouldn't bump into me."
Be kind in all things, both for others and for yourself.
Third, speak kindly.
No matter what time it is, for anyone or anything, do not judge others.
If you have to, say the best thing you can.
For example, if you have to comment on someone else's behavior, say something good about them.
No one is perfect, and a person has both strengths and weaknesses.
Since you're going to say it, say what's good about the other person.
Learning to praise others sincerely is also one of the most important communication methods between people, and the most effective method.
Whether it is work or life in all the trouble, most of them come from people can not control their own mouth, do not know how to say good things.
Do these three things without distraction, and you will live freely in this life, and happiness and life will naturally follow.