1, to consider the feelings of others
Many times, when we think about things, we will always unilaterally think of their own feelings, and will not consider the feelings of others, this time will lead to interpersonal relations become stiff. If we want to have a good friendship, then we have to think more about others, are to give others advice. Don't hurt others for your own opinion, this will also bring a big crisis to the friendship. In our social process, we must grasp a good degree, to do the right thing, take into account the feelings of others, to give others a sufficient face.
2, a little more understanding and tolerance
Understanding and tolerance is the most important point in interpersonal relationships. If you can not do to understand, will let the friendship in the contradiction always happen, so that the contradiction can not be lifted, this time the friendship is also broken. Therefore, we must have sufficient understanding when dealing with friendship, and more tolerant of others' shortcomings. If there is a contradiction, then we must consult each other's feelings, more understanding and more tolerance.
3, improve self-confidence
Many people have social phobia in their hearts, which is actually the reason for the lack of self-confidence. People's social skills are not born, but the formation of conscious cultivation. Therefore, we can do more to improve self-image in general, to improve self-confidence to do more efforts, so that in the usual interpersonal communication will not appear fear phenomenon.
4, do what are active
Some people tend to lack of initiative in interpersonal communication, these and the factors around us are closely related. In an unfamiliar environment, we will have a certain distance to strangers, resulting in the failure to make friends, which is actually their own lack of initiative. In our life should be positive and cheerful, to be a little more outgoing initiative, so that we can be in life by more friends, we should normally keep open-minded and open-minded, will help people be met with more good friends, in the interpersonal communication is not necessary to be catty.
5, don't lose your temper
Many people treat their close people will always lose their temper, will be some of the temper forced to spread on other people's heads, this time will make the friendship hurt. If the mood is very easy to fluctuate, you should learn to self-de-escalation, control your temper, so that people can get more popular in interpersonal communication.