The bond in marriage is not children or money, but spiritual **** with growth, which is a partnership. Two people together may have different personalities, one may be more forceful and impatient and the other more gentle. If two people don't **** the same language in life, it's hard for a relationship to continue. If they share with each other every day and know how to put themselves in each other's shoes, then their lives can be very interesting. After a while ****same language will become strange to couples who don't communicate for a long time, and life will become boring. So that they go on for a long time, couples have no feelings for each other, and their marriage will change, so the most important thing for couples to get along is to learn to communicate first.
2, mutual respect
Couples need to learn to respect each other, which is also the most basic conditions for growing old together. Men and women have their own face and dignity. If they do not get each other's respect in marriage, it is always at the end. We often say that men are afraid of their wives. Actually it is not fear but love and respect. Men have a lot of face outside, so as women, we should give men respect and dignity. Don't always say men's shortcomings, learn to praise each other more. Two people together is a continuous learning process. As time goes by, they will gradually understand each other. This kind of mutual understanding and mutual companionship can accompany them to old age and is a marriage we all envy.
3, loyalty
The most important thing for two people together is loyalty, loyalty is vital in marriage, you decide the quality of marriage and marriage can continue to go on. Since we chose each other to be responsible for each other, even if I can meet better we have to keep their own bottom line, if easily betrayed the marriage that rises to the character problem, the marriage encountered betrayal, the two people can not go to the end. So in my opinion, the most important thing in marriage is the word loyalty, the only loyalty between two people together can make love more solid. Marriage is like a practice, two people from ignorance to the final companion to the old, this process is not long to say short, is between two people each other to each other's love to grow old.