Will think of the reason for first love girlfriend:
1, first love lets men know what love is.
When men and women are the same age, women tend to be more mature than men. Most men know nothing at the age of their first love, while women need to be taken care of and cared for. Therefore, women often assume the role of a "teacher" in the first love, teaching men how to love a person, how to take care of a person, and how to care for a person.
First love is the initiator of a man's love. This kind of enlightenment left an indelible impression on men's hearts, making them understand what love is and what love is. When a man falls in love for the first time, he may not deeply appreciate the love that his first love taught him.
But when two people break up, when men face other women, they are used to telling men how to fall in love with women, what women need and what kind of love women crave. Therefore, men will be nostalgic and grateful for their first love, and men will feel guilty about their first love in their hearts and have unforgettable psychology.
2. First love is simple and beautiful.
Everyone has good expectations for the first love, and is endowed with all kinds of beautiful symbols. When the first love between men and women, the seeds of love germinate, they are still a little shy. This shyness contains the ignorance, simplicity and yearning of the first love. The first love is often the beginning of the love stage, and the first love is always stumbling, beautiful and profound.
When two people fall in love, they all communicate with a simple and pure heart, and they all walk together simply because they like each other, without complicated elements in society. Two people's first love, with the simplest purpose, the purest heart to build a fortress of love.
A few years later, after experiencing society, love and marriage, men often miss the love of that innocent period, the love that fell in love just because they liked each other.
3. Breaking up at first love is the most painful.
The first two people often have the greatest enthusiasm and expectation for love, so in the process of love, both sides devote themselves wholeheartedly and show themselves to the first love without reservation. A love is a huge energy consumption. When all the energy is put into it, I finally find that my first love has been lost. This energy will have the opposite effect. How deep love is, how uncomfortable it is.
This unforgettable energy will be deeply imprinted in my heart from now on. In the future love experience, it is difficult to invest huge energy, so the investment in love will be discounted. If we break up again, it won't be as unforgettable as the first love.