When you encounter a thing, has not been able to solve, or even has affected your life, mood, why not stop, give the mind a meditation meditation time.
Perhaps a different approach, perhaps a different perspective, perhaps a different way to go things will be much simpler, "If we go too fast, to stop and wait for the soul to follow.
There are always setbacks in life, that is not the end, just to remind you, the turn. Learn to give up, bury yesterday in the bottom of the heart, leaving the most beautiful memories, let go does not mean your failure, let go just let you find a more beautiful road to go.
In fact, many times in life need to consciously give up. When everything has become a cloud of smoke, give up has been the best interpretation, is also a kind of best happiness.
Give up the hate, leaving behind is love, in tears before turning away, leaving a gorgeous back, so that the load of the mind easy and dynamic, the heart should be left behind is the kind of calm, when the time quietly slipped by, that kind of feeling, has been with the time and slowly go away, the heart of Vivo a thing called love.
Zen Master Rikyu once said: life is only three days - yesterday, today and tomorrow. People who live in yesterday are confused, people who live in tomorrow are waiting, and only people who live in today are the most down-to-earth.
Obsession is a kind of burden, even a kind of suffering, counting too much becomes a kind of detention, lost for too long becomes a kind of pain.
Giving up is a kind of bosom, is a kind of maturity, is a kind of self-confidence and grasp of the inner self. The first thing you need to do is to give up the pursuit, but let people face life with an open mind.
Ancient people say: "Lost, gained," life, gain and loss, but also occurred in a thought. In the end to get what? In the end to lose what? I'm not sure what I'm talking about.
Life is short, we are just a world of a hurried passer-by, in fact, in this seemingly short life journey, gain some, lose some, and what harm?
The most precious thing on earth should be to grasp the happiness in your hands and cherish the people in front of you.
With the growth of age, experience, people should adjust their life point with time. Loss is a kind of pain, but also a kind of happiness. Because of the loss of green, but got a fruitful golden fall. Lost the sun. But in exchange for the stars in the sky.
How to face the gains and losses in life, which I am afraid that many people have pondered over the centuries.
The get do not miss, the lost, give up gracefully, do not have to care too much, have to cherish, not to say regret after the loss; too much care will make the joy of life halved, look down on everything will have more life release.
Not the road has come to an end, but the turn.
It is time to put down the said
It is time to put down the said
(a) The original breakup is so sadistic thing, never thought we would have such a day. I know that from now on I will never meet anyone as good as you are to me. I don't want to miss you either! But some stories should have no ending ~ it's time to put down ~ I sincerely hope that you live happier than me better than me. The heart will always live with a you
(2) addicted to so long, it is time to find my own, the put down is time to put down.
(3) Is it true that people who love to cry are particularly unproductive? I'm the one who's not. I have to promise myself not to think about it anymore, it's been so long, it's time to put it down
(4) seventy-nine days, today there is nothing in the phone, photos, chat records, maybe God is telling me, it's time to put it down, and live a good life, I've sworn many times to delete not deleted, God to help me to delete, deleted completely.
(E) to grasp the turning point of their lives, I think once those who could not put down the people and those who could not put down the feelings is time to put down, because the front of the people you want and want you to think about the people, hello, tomorrow!
(F) you want to get married, but the side can not be me, I can only wish you happiness, it is time to put down, it is also a kind of relief
(G) the walk, the stay stay, you want to go, I do not stay, it is not that I changed, I am still the same me, just with the past is different, and you, become a stranger, become difficult to contact, it is time to put down, you love me, I love you, but our love is not the same kind of love, but we are not the same kind of love, I love you. It's just that our love is not a kind of love, go and find your love, goodbye baby, last time to call you baby. Put down the unrealistic fantasy, only to find what is really their own to do. Karma is a matter of fate, and it is a matter of lightness. Do not prevent yourself from becoming a positive and optimistic person who loves life.
(IX) books and pure music can be the most hypnotic, suddenly feel very tired, should be put down, it is time to rest ~
(X) today is the eighth month of our separation. Counting the days almost a year to, time will erase everything, you should have your own new life, it is time to put down.
(xi) there are some things that do not need to be said by others in their hearts are also clear figured out will not be so obsessed with it is time to put down
(xii) there is a car is not bad, in the case of you have nowhere to go, you can also deal with deal with it, it is time to put down, and each of them are well
(xiii) if the marriage allows you to feel the warmth and cold to know that self-sufficiency of this feeling is the time to put down. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
(xiv) half a month, not a greeting, not a little said, and I myself have borne the unspeakable pain, pain to the point of not being able to move to forcefully get up, but also can not have any performance, the responsibility of the two, a person to bear the heart of the difficult to how to meet such a person, the bitter can only be swallowed in the stomach, the heart of the cold as the weather, it's time to put down
(xviii) I do not understand my people I never go to explain, emotions are only said to know people listen. The road is still long ~ go slowly
(18) every time to say goodbye seriously, so miss the time that do not know anything about their own, when the game to bring their own only endless pressure and irritation, it is time to put down.
(19) so long have passed, last night and dreamed! It's time to let go!
(20) later in the day to chew on the memory is also a kind of happiness. Walking familiar streets to think of the original scene, life is only a few decades, there may be a few years, a few months, a few days, or even a few hours a few minutes, all the obsessions are time to put down, thank you for the feelings of guilt-free, only to come to today's heart of the heart of the matter, and from now on to see each other as well as nostalgia.
(XXI) I have long known that the thing in the affirmative answer or sad to death does not belong to this place why to so attached to it is time to put down.
(22) Finally the day still came, I originally thought I would not be shocked, I thought I would not care, but why my heart is still so painful? I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that.
(xxiii) You and I are not thinly veiled people, leaving must be disappointment saved enough. I don't know how to change, I don't know how to fade, I don't know how to disperse. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.
(xxiv) It is time to put down a lifetime so long why so aggrieved yourself to separate perhaps too tired for us all to choose their own life again time will wash away everything I will be good
(xxv) Once the love, it is time to put down.
(26) It is time to put down ~ finally came to the time that can not let go also does not help ~
(27) Come on! I'm not sorry for anything. I do not have any sorry, time will forget everything, time will also prove everything. My heart is too soft. I want to make it strong. Good people will always have good karma. But bad people will always get bad karma. It's time to let go, there is no point in staying strong. Plant a seed in my heart and hope it takes root. I won't be crushed by love in the future. Everyone's fate is fair, it depends on your determination and perseverance. People must grow to make themselves stronger.
(xxviii) It's time to put down, and later live your life well this time I must do to cheer!
(29) Since the try have tried, it is time to put down, after all, time is the best medicine
(30) When you decide the moment can never go back, goodbye to all my fantasies and expectations, it is time to put down.
(31) It is time to put down, do not be fond of, since the choice to give up why to have been entangled in not letting go, people have put down, what you can not put down! The end, to re-live their aspirations, even if you can not achieve can not be committed to their own
(32) It is time to put down, stay in love for so long has long been a break, heart it, in your world stayed so long, I was just passing through it
(33) to the manuscript to change the deletion of, and is probably about the direction of the approximate. I'm not sure if I've ever had a good time, but I'm sure I've never had a good time before. I don't want to stop, run, don't look back!
(34) So long after the separation. A person went to Chongqing, went to Wuhan. Later will go to a lot of places to wake up that kind of night to find that from now on in life without you after hugging the quilt crying like never forget but it is time to put down
(35) I understand that it is time to put down, too much self-insistence of the end of the end is this kind of life should be centered on their own, do not be too much emphasis on the past, a relationship with a long time can not be described as anything, perhaps we are waiting for the life of the world to come to an end. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on the right person for the right job.
(36) you have hatred for me, normal, but instead you said to me, each live their own lives, each have their own way, I would like to follow your choice as usual, not as before, a breakup on the cry, no, people will become, not every woman is a crybaby, to see if it is worth it, thank you for once appeared, and now left, I do not blame you, I can only blame myself, it is time to put down, no longer will have quarrels, and now I will not blame you, I can only blame myself. Put down, there will no longer be quarrels, the daily fight of the heart, you ask yourself, you do not love me so much, I just say a word, you will be so angry with me, I think I'm so wrong, habit
(37) Maybe it really should have been put down, or what else can be done? The first thing I'd like to say is that I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it! Once promised me are also all fallen, I still bitter support, seems too underhanded. This wooden man I am willing to do from now to no end, to be a person without feelings. We have been growing, should learn to put down, have people must cherish na, life, no matter what, there is a enough, more than not, less than not. I used to think: all are life, half a point not by people
(40) love also love, hate also hate, it is time to put down. The color of the heavy also has to fade one day, and then the deep memories also have to become fuzzy one day.
(41) All the anger and anxiety, it is time to put down!
(42) Huh! That said, it's time to let go of these stale things. These days, I feel like I'm in the clouds, and suddenly I don't want to mess around, maybe because I'm getting older. In the end, the put down still have to put down, I think my future desire is to have a stable job to find a stable boy to live a stable day it
(forty-three) behind her heart inexplicably some difficult to look at the back of Li Xiang Li Xiang suddenly shouted out that this is not your fault is the time to put down.
(44) in the morning also makes a good meal card suddenly can not be used, after all, three years, it is time to put down, study hard
It is time to understand the said
It is time to understand the said
A mom and dad are old, it is time to understand, to work hard to hold up a piece of heaven for them, at least do not let them again for me to worry about. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that.
Secondly, we have passed the age of capriciousness, it is time to understand.
Third, it turns out that a lot of things and your original cognition is not the same; the original dream in front of the reality is so humble; the original in order to your dream your parents back a lot; the original is more than you don't know things en, perhaps this is growth. The pain and gained, it is time to understand.
Fourth, like our age is not so small is always so selfish, seems to know a little actually do not know anything, always will not be in the heart of those who care about their loved ones to stay in a position, can always be forgiven for their forgiveness, but also always take us as a child who grows up not much care, always think it is so unfair. I don't know what I'm busy with all day, always can't find time to visit them, it's time to understand.
Fifth, happy birthday, I am very happy! Once a year, once a lifetime, age is gone! I have to admit that I grew up, it's time to understand, it's time to mature! It's time to go out and hustle! I will always go forward because I have too many people around me who support me and I can't let them down! I love you all~ Forever and ever, my favorite people! I'll love and adore myself too!
Six, because you, I will be so so so attached. It is time to learn to face everything, it is time to grow up it is time to understand. Obviously love is very painful, but to insist on watching themselves continue to hurt. Dreams do too beautiful to wake up will hurt very painful, has gone to the edge of the cliff, as if a gust of wind can be blown down. Some things, we have been unable to do anything, we can not guess the end of each story, so can only bear.
Seven, the reasoning understand but can not do things happened in the regret is not useful restraint do not figure the moment of speed stand in the other's point of view to think about regardless of the right or wrong to learn to endure everything is but smoke and clouds do not compare do not drill the bull's-eye do not hurt the closest people do not leave to make up for the regret of the lesson has been more than enough in the future, before moving their mouths, brain the same mistakes can not be repeated it's time to understand the matter.
Eight, heard a lot of Mom and Dad's past, I realized how difficult they are, it is time I should understand.
Nine, you have twenty-four, five, do not still meet a little something on the sad, meet a little setback on the retreat, now is your most important period, the understanding, it is time to work hard. The most important thing is that you have to be able to get the most out of your life, and you have to be able to get the most out of your life.
Ten, smiling and laughing, somehow, I'm twenty, it's time to understand, it's time to mature, it's time. Wish yourself a happy birthday, twenty, hello.
eleven, when it is their own choice of road, so no matter whether it is bitter or sweet to learn to bear, or never grow, it is time to understand.
twelve, before said have forgotten now want to think up feel very guilty very no responsibility they said can not do why I am such a person good hate is also time to know the responsibility of the understanding of what I'm talking about ah.
Thirteen, young me has been still playful, it's time to understand, no matter what others say, go their own way let others say go.
XIV, I can not be unrestrained, heartless life! I want to be quiet! I should think about the problems I have been avoiding, it is time to face, the grown up, the understanding
fifteen, never like now so incomparable want you! So I'm going to eat to remind myself of that, but after I'm done eating it's time for me to get my act together.
sixteen, it is time to be silent, it is also time to understand, why so catty, and why to be satisfied with the status quo, from now on, I want to live every day enough, let yourself move.
seventeen, it is time to change their temperament, although I do not like this social mode of living together, however, want to do what you want to do what you want to say what you want to say is not feasible way to understand it.
eighteen, sixteen years for the first time I think I'm growing up it's time to understand the future I will be even better I will no longer be a little trouble because of some small things to let you worry about letting you tired and will no longer be in a bad mood because of the backtalk with you mom you when the mother of sixteen years, sixteen years of you sixteen years of me this is the first time to open up the heart to do so there are tears of the thing, but we did not cry on us are very strong! mom you hard I love you I believe you must also love me!
nineteen, mom has been behind me with great expectations, it is time to understand.
Twenty, the birthday represents another year older, finally stepped into the 18, it is time to understand, wish yourself a happy birthday! Forget about the sadness that should not have been memorized!
Twenty-one, three years ago I, two years ago I, a year ago I, and now I, a little bit of growing up to become mature, it's time to understand, just want to tell themselves have been adults, there is no reason to play recklessly, to be responsible for their own. Happy Birthday.
Twenty-two, ignorant of the 19 years, it is time to understand! 20 years old, wish me a happy birthday!
Twenty-three, it is time to understand, to work hard, to sympathize. 20xx620 the first turning point of my life, wait for me!
Twenty-four, suddenly realized that I still did not grow up, it is time to understand, go.
Twenty-five, to see you look I really heartbroken, very much want to ask yourself in the end can help you do something. But they are very useless what can not do. I'm very tired really but I don't want to show it, I grew up it's time to understand. The fact that the development of the present so I really did not expect, since it happened I should be happy to face. After crying, you should know some things.
Twenty-six, it is time to understand, cherish everything we have in front of us, do not envy, do not envy, do not regret.
Twenty-seven, dreaming of grandpa, woke up crying, tears can not stop falling down, recalling the carefree college life, almost let me forget the pain, but a dream to let me reminisce. I numb the heart of ignorance, cold to parents, it is time to change, affection is always the deepest, nothing can shake.... It's time to understand. I miss you. My closest relatives.
Twenty-eight, tonight and mother argued, although there is a mother's not right to say, but ultimately she is her own mother, I said I should not say words, do not do things, really do not understand things! Damn it! Seriously my mother is really a good mother, I know she paid a lot for me, but really did not think in the heart for her, and my father, it is time to understand!
Twenty-nine, must be a good mix, mix a look, my goal grid, from now on to be taken seriously, after all, you do not have much time to go to school, you are worse than those in the village of the same age too much, people have a job, have a car, and you, nothing, relying on mom and dad to live, it's time to understand, can not be like the same as before, only know how to play, carefree, you want to have ideals and goals, you also do not want others in the future, but also to have a better understanding of the situation, and the future of the world. You have to have ideals and goals, and you don't want people to say that later.
Thirty, the youngest brother in the room ushered in his 20th birthday, so that this group of big boys in the room are embarked on the road to three people, it is time to understand, think about the future ~
Thirty-one, a lot of things have happened suddenly lately, the past two days cried too many times, feel so helpless, want to escape and have to face, always hope that they grow up quickly, now realize that the more you grow up on the body, the more you can see, the more you know the world. Growing up, now realize that the more you grow up the heavier the burden on the body, suddenly found that the previous I am really too unintelligent. Crying, crying after drying tears, replaced by an impeccable smile to face all the aftermath, it is time to understand, it is time to grow up.
Thirty-two, don't think of the old don't think of those impossible things don't wait for those impossible people don't do those things that don't have any meaning are grown up to understand it is time to let themselves live a realistic point is time to love themselves well the will always come to go you can't stay I have retained who.
Thirty-three, in fact, with the power and not imagine so difficult and not imagine so easy everything seems to be destiny in general, as if the flowers will bloom birds will fly I will grow up. The second year of high school, it is time to understand the matter perhaps I am more late into the muddle through seventeen years, as if I have never worked so hard as now....
Thirty-four, it is time for us to grow up, it should understand, should not be on the parents worry about it.
Thirty-five, always looking for reasons and excuses for themselves! Speaking is not measured, the old hurt parents heart, it is time to understand, the burden on the shoulders of the heavy point, but ultimately can not be mixed up again, the boy will eventually grow up!
Thirty-six, very annoying! Look at mom so tired, the night with me with baby, she has not slept peacefully. Last night, the baby had a fever, she was more sleepless all night. I really fucking should roll to the in-laws, don't let mom so hard. How can I be so selfish and only take into account my own feelings, but do not care about my mom's body. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to get a good deal on the way to the next level, but I'm sure I'll be able to get a good deal on the way to the next level. It is time to understand.
Thirty-seven, children, it is time to understand, when they are gradually aging, you should learn to go more to bear. This is a responsibility. On my shoulders, more in my heart. I will not and can not escape. Because I am your child. It's as simple as that. I don't want to see anything happen to any of you, because it wouldn't be fair to you.
Thirty-eight, I think, my good days come to an end, at the same time, I do not dare to imagine if one day, I have nothing, my side and who? I do not want to try the hearts and minds, do not want to guess the hearts and minds, I just want to take advantage of this difficult period, force themselves a hand, maybe it looks bad things will let themselves turn it all into a good mumble, or to move forward with positive energy, it must have to fight for the breath of life, it's time to understand, it's time to learn to grow up!
1, the top of the strange man, to turn the world to (Sun Yat-sen)
2, do not think, so there is confusion; do not seek, so there is no gain; do not ask, so I do not know.
3. Transform the angry state of mind into softness, and the soft state of mind into love, so that this world will be more perfect.
4, earn more money, but not so much that whoever looks at you, you will feel that its just looking at your money.
5, do not expect anyone to accompany you for life without light, even the shadow does not accompany you.
6, ten years of hard work to sharpen the sword, June sand field test sharp.
7, flowers to water, friendship to rely on people to cherish.
8. Those who know the true meaning of life can make the short life longer.
9. We are always too polite to strangers and too harsh to close people.
10, in fact, people and trees are the same, the more it aspires to the sunshine of the high ground, the more its roots to reach into the darkness of the ground.
11, love is always more beautiful than the reality of the imagination, such as meeting, goodbye is also the same.
12. Belief is necessary for people. The people who don't believe in anything will not be happy. Hugo
13. All the good feelings in the world together, but also not worth a noble action.
14, the hero, the chest of great ambition, the belly has a good plan, there is a hidden universe of opportunity, through the world of the will of the people. The Romance of the Three Kingdoms
15, sprinkled into the fertile soil of struggle, a drop of sweat is a good seed of hope.
16, the real way to measure our wealth is when we don't have a penny, how much we are still worth.
17, no execution, no competitiveness. /suanming/
18, if you do not want to do something, do not want to reach anywhere in the world.
19, the day again hot, hot but heart; have confidence, everything is possible. I wish you all the best for the college entrance examination.
20, human beings without faith, all living things, is dead.
21, the battle of the college entrance examination, change destiny. The first step is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what you are doing and how you are doing it.
22, can not hold out when you can say to yourself I'm so tired, but never admit in the heart that I can not!
23, sleep shows that tomorrow you have to get up.
24, time is the breath of our moment, every moment should live wholeheartedly.
25. Remember, what you lose, you can definitely win back again little by little!
26, touting themselves is self-deceiving pain, vilification of others is detrimental to their own despicable.
27, life is like an anvil, the more it is knocked, the more sparks can be issued. Galileo
28, life stay to be sweet, can also be bitter, but can not be tasteless. You can win or lose, but you can't give in.
29, love is the cause of suffering, put down the love, you can get free.
30, the long wind will sometimes break the waves, hanging straight from the cloud sails to help the sea. (Tang Li Bai difficult to travel)
31, and people are good, and the snake is good but evil.
32, there are a lot of things, you do not have to see through, just see clearly; a lot of bewilderment to lost days, you do not have to be alarmed, just be frank.