The topic of marriage always goes in two extreme directions.
Those who live happily will stay together until old age. Unfortunately, they broke up in one fell swoop.
Hai Quan said, for a person like you who is very pure in love, you will definitely not refuse him when he comes.
He Jie suddenly said: I will never get married again.
Obviously, He Jie is the latter
Speaking of He Jie, many people still think of that cute girl with a charming smile. She is good at singing and dancing and full of energy.
In 2005, she stood on the stage, together with Zhou Bichang, Li Yuchun, and Zhang Liangying, singing with hopeful eyes, "Sing if you want, and sing loudly, even if no one applauds me." ”
In 2017, when she was in front of the camera, her face no longer had the brilliance it once had.
Her eyes showed a deep sense of exhaustion. Life was not gentle and kind to this girl.
When "Golden Melody" was on the air, many viewers were surprised by He Jie's singing skills and her interpretation of the song was so touching. Among my friends, one is a fan of He Jie. She always said:
She is a capable singer, but she has been busy with her family these years, so her career has been delayed.
We watched "Golden Melody" together in the living room, and she shed tears silently while listening to the duet between He Jie and Joker Xue.
“Our Dabao has always been a great singer. If she hadn’t gotten married and had children, her career would have been even better.”
“I gave birth to two babies in three years, and I am so fat. They don’t even want to look in the mirror. There are also the ridicules of passers-by. Dabao really suffered a lot.”
“It’s so difficult for a woman to have two children in three years and suffer from postpartum depression, but she doesn’t get the love of her husband. . What kind of life."
She sat next to me and burst into tears, and I felt uncomfortable at that moment.
Fans always love their idols like family members. It doesn’t matter whether you sing or not. As long as you live a happy life, we can support your choice.
But seeing your life getting more and more difficult and becoming more and more haggard, I always feel very distressed.
There are many reasons why fans like an idol, but my friend likes He Jie’s personality.
The kind of personality that is not afraid of anything if you are sure of one thing.
When it comes to love, He Jie said: I think two people who are not rich can fight together, but the key lies in whether the goal you pursue is consistent with the values ????that two people have.
It can be seen that she is a woman who puts emotions first. She is qualified to say this.
In this marriage, He Jie assumed almost all roles in the family.
She is a wife who loves this man without hesitation. She is a mother with two children to take care of. She is the backbone of the family, and her income is much higher than that of He Ziming.
He Jie forced herself to face reality and make herself stronger. But He Ziming did not grow at the same time.
As a result, marriage has changed from the companionship of two people to the burden-bearing of one person.
The recently popular TV series "The First Half of My Life" opens with the heroine Luo Zijun experiencing a marriage change. Although it was Luo Zijun's husband who cheated on her and she was the victim in the relationship, many people still pointed out the pain points: Luo Zijun was a stay-at-home wife who was separated from society, while Ling Ling was Chen Junsheng's close friend.
Ling Ling and Luo Zijun are separated by the workplace, which determines that they approach life with completely different attitudes.
As a stay-at-home wife, Luo Zijun always talks about trivial matters such as firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. She is worried that her husband is having an affair with a pretty girl from the company, and her daily life is to check on the police and catch her.
And Ling Ling knew Chen Junsheng’s hardships in the workplace, so she could share his worries. This thoughtfulness is something Chen Junsheng cherishes extremely.
Chen Junsheng is not the same Chen Junsheng as before, but Luo Zijun is still the pampered, full-time wife.
Even though emotionally everyone feels sorry for Zijun's experience, but rationally they all understand that only a well-matched marriage can last long.
When a husband and wife live together, you sometimes walk a little faster, and I sometimes run a little farther. The difference in rhythm can be adjusted.
But the important thing is that both people must always keep moving forward.
Just like this line in "The Divorce Lawyer":
Marriage is an investment. Some people are worth investing in, and some people will depreciate over time.
A happy marriage turns a woman into a child, while an unhappy marriage turns a woman into a superman. Nothing can be obtained only through marriage. Marriage is a promise made by two people who love each other.
But the value of a promise lies in whether two people manage and maintain it carefully.
The girl who forgot herself in marriage was severely awakened by reality, stubbornly wiped away her tears and moved on.
I only hope that she can let go of those pains.
The girl who is still gritting her teeth and persevering deserves to be loved.
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