In the era of face value is justice subterfuge darkening, her looks are endearing, but there seems to be so much euphemism but firmness. In an objective assessment, she is a slightly chubby, double-chinned, middle-aged woman with ordinary features and a slab of hair on top. Of course, my favorite thing about her is her fleshy double chin, which has to do with the fact that I have a honeyed obsession with Coach Anzai's double chin.
Coke is a lovely girl, even though she's 37 years old. However, in my opinion, she's still a sweet girl, one who deserves to be loved more than her first love, and who has remained a lover. Actually, I have not met Coke face to face in reality. It was by chance that she became my WeChat friend, and had a few superficial chats. From her circle of friends from time to time to shake a dynamic, I saw a meet happy girl, envy and silently admire their love.
Her dynamic has a screenshot to share, that screenshot is her previous QQ log, is she in a certain time to look through their own space when she found, those fragments of text reminds her of that period of time, so specially screenshot sent to the circle of friends.
I've looked through that record of her love countless times, and in her simple words I see a 35-year-old her with a child and a 36-year-old him.
In class today, the class advisor, who is in his golden years, brought up a recent anecdote about his relationship with his wife, who actually called his mother "baby". The students at the bottom of the class had a look of "My God, such an amazing style". Yes, we children who have just left our parents are still calling ourselves "baby". At that moment, I remembered Cola and her soldier, and suddenly I wanted to know how they met and got to know each other. So, after struggling for a whole day, I had the cheek to send a tweet to Cola, saying that I wanted to "interview" her about her love story. The first thing I'd like to say is that I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this.
20 minutes later, Cola replied to me, she said she would be happy to tell the story of how she met the soldier. She also told me that people around her think she's a bit of a "do-gooder" and think she's still in love at her age like a 17 or 18 year old girl. In fact, she really wants to talk about her love with others, just like friends chatting. Yes, why do we need to critique other people's lives and presume to interfere. Isn't it nice to act like a child? Who hasn't been nostalgic for childhood while playing the role of an adult.
Let's start with Coke meeting G.I. Joe, who was 35 years old. The first time I saw this was when I was a child, and I was a child, and I was a child. She had just divorced her ex-husband. During the days when she was working alone in a foreign country, Cola didn't find it boring or hard. She felt relieved in a way that she hadn't felt in a long, long time. Even if it is still the repetitive work on the assembly line and the noisy staff dormitory.
This married life, arranged by parents, is like many girls of the same age in the old country. Blind dates, marriage, and several unsuccessful blind dates, the girl must be difficult to marry out of the house, the girl must have any bad problems, the girl must not have a good tutor, the girl must ...... Coke in the seventh blind date after the marriage object is determined. This time in the eyes of relatives and neighbors, second only to the next door "can not marry out" sister.
The factory shift rest days, Coke sometimes lying in bed, looking at the empty ceiling, she occasionally feel like life as if nothing is left. In addition to the responsibility of being grateful to parents for loving their children, there is nothing left for yourself. It was as if every time she took her family on a bus, she would first put her "parents" and "children" in the seats and stand by herself. It seems that no matter what time of day it is, she is the guardian standing on the aisle.
After working in a foreign country for almost half a year, Cola met Dabing, a 35-year-old woman who had an inexplicable nervousness, and felt that she was looking forward to love for the first time. The first time I saw him was when he was a young man, and I was so happy to see him that I was able to get to know him better. She realized that both the matchmakers and the matchmakers seemed to be saying "make do, make do". This time, she did not want to repeat the same mistake, she also wanted to do a "rebel girl".
After meeting the soldiers, she felt as if she was hiding a secret in her heart that she couldn't tell, lying under the covers at night with headphones and secretly listening to songs, cycling through the song "Because of Love" over and over again. She told me that she heard this song from her niece's circle of friends, and it was the sound she heard that she wanted to remember the most. Cola began to try to avoid picking up the phone to listen to the song during the day, always worrying that her colleagues in the dormitory would find what she was listening to.
When we sit together in our free time, Cola is always mopping the floor over and over again, and her coworkers joked that they could see eye lines on the floor. The first time I saw this, I saw a lot of people who had been in the same place for a long time.
The first time I saw DaBing was in the factory guard room. I was asked by Cola's cousin to bring some specialties from his hometown. The first time Cola saw him froze for a moment, not tall, slightly fat, and the same as himself with a double chin. Dabing and Cola got to know each other like this, I don't know if it was a coincidence, but after that Cola felt that she often ran into Dabing in the nearby park, and the two of them gradually became familiar with each other, and they would go to wherever they wanted to play next time they were on vacation. The places they go are very common, parks, squares, lakeside ...... are all places where people after a busy day will go for a walk with their families. They learn Tai Chi behind moncler outlet store the grandma and grandpa, and also go to play see-saw with the children, and sometimes even make a date to watch TV and sing in the rented room.
I found their time together heartwarming, and at the same time a bit disconcerting, as the two seemed to have skipped certain steps and gone straight into the mode of an old married couple.
I asked her when she fell in love with Da Bing, and she said she didn't really know, she just had a good feeling about it. She told me that sometimes when she is lying in bed at night, she suddenly remembers the naive smile of the soldier, and then she is inexplicably nervous. She would clutch the covers tightly to cover her head, and gave a small scream with great force and restraint, which no one in the dormitory heard. Except for herself, after a long, long time, she could still feel the voice of the big soldier echoing in her ears "May I ask if it's Chen Cola?", "Cola?", "Cola", "Cola"......
When she and I talked about this detail, I could imagine her shy smile even through the screen. It made me, who didn't know what love was, really envious.
One day Coke returned to the dormitory from work, and halfway there she met Dabei, holding a jacket and a bouquet of flowers she didn't know the name of. When I woke up in the morning, I found that the headphones are still singing "so we are still young look ......", this time she got up the first thing, not to go to work, but to the team leader to ask for half a day off. She looked into the eyes of the soldier and asked him, "I will take it seriously, you can not lie to me." Dabing smiled like a child and answered seriously, "Me too."
Coke in 35 years old this year, carefully recognize their own heart, drummed up all the courage to take that step, like a 17 or 18 year old girl, even though the heart is full of uncertainty, but also want to try this time without fear. No, maybe we can all stay at this age forever, and age has nothing to do with it.
Later, Cola and Dabing would watch TV together, square dance together, and learn to skateboard together ...... They are happy now, and will be so in the future. The first time I saw them was when I was a kid, and I was a kid, and I was a kid, and I was a kid, and I was a kid, and I was a kid. Coke sent me a WeChat message with this sentence: everything will be fine.
"Everything will be fine", I clicked on that screenshot again, fragmented text, intermittent records. I think she meant:
Whether the past was good or bad, it's all about waiting for the present to be good.