Standing on your own point of view to see, that is selfish.

Many people's relationship interruption, not because the feelings changed, but because of the breeding of conflict, you do not understand for me to consider, I will not think differently, bent on not sympathetic, shirking responsibility, not introspective.

Slowly, and then deep feelings, there is a disconnect, and then a good relationship, but also less contact.

? The relationship is no longer good, but also distance.

In the TV series "Ode to Joy", Andy and Qidian were a good pair of lovers, it is because Qidian took the liberty of investigating Andy's life, and sought out her father for her, which drew Andy's anger, and made their feelings have their first conflict.

So in interpersonal communication, no matter with whom to get along with, to retain the distance, the so-called distance, not personal distance, but each other to leave space, you do not participate in my life, I do not interfere with your things, get along with the appropriate, not close to not far away, the smooth feelings, not thick and not light.

? People who do not know how to think differently are actually selfish.

Previously, there was a news that the square dance mom and young man had a fight, the young man said that the mom's stereo opened too much impact on their own rest, but the mom's said that no one sleeps at this time of the day. This is the two sides had a lot of trouble, and then after the police mediation, the ladies left the square, go to the place where few people fitness.

When it comes to problems, standing on your own point of view, that is selfish.

Standing in the position of others to think, that is called thinking differently. You have to learn to think differently, and don't think only about yourself. No matter where, as long as you think about others, others will think about you.

? Know how to be thankful and share

Giving people roses, hand, throwing people mud, hand will become dirty. The French thinker Rousseau said, "When we love others, we also want others to love us."

People, it is always mutual, how you treat people, how people treat you.

So no matter who you get along with, you have to know how to get along, and you have to know how to change places, only learn to think differently, and life will usher in more beauty! ? []? I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get the best out of me. []?