Good family background, high academic qualifications and high face value, any combination of the two can play the king's fried. However, the chances of winning the king's fried noodles in life are very low, and you need enough luck.
If you are not so lucky and a poor and kind girl, then this article is for you and gives you 7 life suggestions. May you warm others and take care of yourself.
1, give priority to yourself, be kind and do what you can.
Kind as you. Do you love others more than yourself? Are you embarrassed to refuse other people's demands, even if you will be wronged? Do you always want to do your best to satisfy everyone, whether friends or classmates, even if you are injured or damaged? Do you tell yourself silently every time you are embarrassed to refuse others, never again, never again, but again and again?
Girl, kindness is true, stupidity is wrong.
Be kind to people and things, not all people deserve your kindness. Some people in life may just take advantage of your kindness and do their own thing.
At the beginning, there is a saying that kindness is not a cheap virtue, but should be matched with ability.
With a kind heart, you will always be a bodhisattva. You want to be good to everyone, but you forget to be good to yourself. You abuse yourself because your ability can't support yourself to squander your kindness like this. When the ability is insufficient, the "good" to others will be exchanged for the "bad" to yourself.
If the people you treat kindly can treat you gently, then your contribution is still meaningful. If that person just asked for it, why bother you?
So, kind girl, if you are poor, if your life is not very satisfactory, if your life is not rich, then please put yourself first and be kind. You should love others on the basis of loving yourself. First of all, you should love yourself enough to ensure your rights and interests, and then you should spread goodwill and "educate all beings."
Make a long-term plan and a short-term plan for yourself, don't muddle along.
Kind as you. I hope you have a bright future and a smooth life.
There is a saying: kindness is good, and the rest is left to time and fate!
Although "one good deed deserves another", we don't know when we can get God's mercy and care. Then take responsibility for yourself and make a long-term plan for yourself.
Calm down and think about what kind of life you want and what kind of standard you want to achieve in your life. Plan the time to achieve the goal according to your actual situation.
With a goal, the direction is clear. Then refine the goal and divide it into small goals in stages. Then keep working hard! Remember, it's persistence, not persistence.
With direction and goal, our life will have a good start. Even if you can't achieve what you want in the end, at least you have tried and won't leave any regrets. Because life is like this, seeking the best, seeking the best. If you want nothing, life will naturally be bitter and tasteless.
3. Keep learning and strive to become better at any time.
Do you find that many people are better than you? Do you sometimes feel helpless? People younger than you are not only more attractive and richer, but also more popular than you? Is there a moment when you feel old and out of touch with society?
If yes, please continue your study.
Learning is a lifelong thing, whether it is reading or learning a new skill. As the old saying goes, "It's never too old to learn". The more you learn, the more transparent you become.
Kindness is like you, I hope you will live a rich life and be full of spirit.
If your life doesn't meet your expectations, please don't lose heart and try to improve yourself first! If you are excellent, you bring your own aura. We live in a very good era, and the Internet is developed. We can really "know what's going on in the world without going out." This creates convenient conditions for our study. As long as you want to learn, there is a wealth of knowledge online.
In your spare time, don't entertain foolish ideas and read books! Reading can soothe the restless mind and calm it down. When you calm down, you will find that your mind is full of ideas, and many problems you can't figure out will be solved. Or learn a new skill, such as dubbing, such as writing, comparative painting and so on. Learn a new skill according to your hobby, and then turn your hobby into a specialty. You can make your spirit more full and your life more fulfilling.
4. Learn to make up.
Do you think many girls are dressed up? Have you ever envied other people's beautiful faces? Do you feel rustic and can't dress up? Do you have social barriers and dare not go to crowded places? Have you ever had appearance anxiety and inferiority complex?
Girl, a kind heart is very important, and a beautiful appearance is also essential. If there is no innate appearance advantage, then work hard the day after tomorrow!
Of course, the "hard work the day after tomorrow" here is not to let you have a drastic facelift, but to let you learn to make up.
Although "women tolerate themselves", they should also tolerate themselves. Learning to make up and wearing a makeup that suits you can not only give yourself extra points on important occasions, but also respect others.
Show your best side with limited resources, and your self-confidence will be improved instantly. People are advanced visual animals, who doesn't want to appreciate beautiful things? So girl, it is a meaningful thing to make yourself beautiful.
5, clothes should pay attention to quality, not quantity.
Do you often feel that you have nothing to wear, but there are many clothes at home that you don't want to wear anymore? When you buy clothes, will you give in to the cheaper price? Do you often buy some cheap but tasteless clothes? Do you regret the clothes you bought?
If the economic conditions are not very good, I suggest you buy some clothes with texture instead of a bunch of cheap clothes without quality.
Cheap clothes are only happy at the moment they are bought, and it is actually more wasteful to wear them again after wearing them several times.
Bite your teeth, buy some textured clothes and wear them for three to five years, so you won't have the urge to throw them away. In this way, clothes also play its greatest value, and there is no need to buy clothes back and forth. This will save money in the long run.
6. Have a good meal.
Do you often have a big meal because of work? Do you want to lose weight by dieting? Do you occasionally have a slight physical problem and don't care?
Girl, health is the capital of revolution. Even if you have money and leisure, if you have no health, everything is useless.
So love yourself! Take care of your health. Your body is your lifelong ally. Take good care of this ally.
Three meals a day is responsible for yourself, no matter how busy you are, you should eat well.
Don't try to lose weight by dieting, it will definitely work in the early stage and will definitely rebound in the later stage. If you are hungry, you will lose more than you gain.
You can exercise regularly, which not only has the effect of losing weight, but also is good for your health.
7. Make money and save money.
Talking about money is vulgar, but in all the dust, we are all vulgar. It is difficult to move without money, and the rich have confidence. Eighty percent of the troubles in life can be solved with money.
Kind girl, if you are kind and poor, making money hard will give you enough security. Do your best to earn money within the scope permitted by law.
If you earn money, you must plan rationally, plan your own finances well, and insist on saving money.
Deposit is your greatest protection. Even if it is meager at first, it proves the harvest of your work and the balance of your life. Every little makes a mickle, and the mood will definitely turn from cloudy to sunny.
May every kind girl be treated gently by years!
May every kind girl running on the road get her wish!