On the other hand, the mode of getting along with two children will also be directly influenced by the mode of parents' education.
After giving birth to the first son, colleague Lan Lan caught up with the second child policy and gave birth to another daughter.
In daily life, light light blue and her husband will ask their elder brother to help take care of their younger sister and instill in them the idea of loving her.
Now that my daughter is 2 years old, brother and sister get along very lovingly and harmoniously.
Once, my two-year-old daughter was scolded by Lan Lan for being naughty. Feeling very wronged, the youngest daughter turned away from her mother, ran into the room and threw herself into her brother's arms.
My sister muttered, snuggling in her brother's arms, as if complaining to her brother about her mother's bad behavior. Then light light blue came into the room to comfort her daughter. I didn't expect her daughter to cry as soon as she saw her mother.
At this time, my brother quickly hugged my sister, patted her back placidly and wiped her tears with his hand. This warm and loving scene has also warmed Ma Bao's heart.
In most families with two children, both children grow up fighting. However, some children become more and more intimate in the battle, and some children become more and more alienated in the battle.
Therefore, there are two children at home, and parents must learn to handle the relationship between the two children and give correct guidance.
1. Pay more attention to Dabao.
After Bauer was born, it was easy for parents to put all their energy on Bauer, thus ignoring Dabao's feelings.
At this time, Dabao will have a serious gap in his heart and feel that he is no longer loved by his parents.
Therefore, in daily life, parents should spend more time with and care for Dabao, so that Dabao has a full sense of security.
2. Balance balance
In order to create a harmonious family atmosphere, parents should keep the balance of scales and not express their preference for one of their children at will.
Especially can't let dabao blindly let Bao Xiao. This will not only make Bao Xiao arrogant, but also make Dabao feel that his parents don't love him, which will make him hostile to Bao Xiao.
3. Let the children solve their own problems.
Conflicts between children come and go quickly. When two children are in conflict, parents should give them more space to solve the problem by themselves.
This can not only promote the cultivation of the relationship between the two children, but also exercise their problem-solving ability.
1. Spend more time with children.
No matter how busy the work is, parents should take time to accompany their children.
After school, parents may wish to take their children to play games, watch movies and so on.
In these contacts, children can realize their parents' concern for themselves, thus effectively enhancing the feelings between parents and children.
2. Communicate with children more.
If parents really can't spare a lot of time to accompany their children, then they should communicate with their children in an equal manner.
Children who lack companionship tend to alienate their parents, and they often feel timid towards their parents.
If parents can communicate with their children in an equal manner, they can effectively enhance children's sense of closeness to their parents, thus enhancing parent-child relationship.
3. Don't interfere with children's decisions.
In the process of children's growth, the sense of independence will become stronger and stronger.
In many ways, they want to be able to make their own decisions without being restricted by their parents.
Therefore, parents should not undermine the law of children's growth and should not interfere too much in their own affairs. When children encounter difficulties, it is enough to give appropriate guidance.
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