What should people do when they reach the age of 60 to make themselves blessed and live longer?
First, do good deeds.
On the long road of life, guard against arrogance and rashness and do more good deeds.
Once, when Lei Feng changed trains in Shenyang, he saw a white-haired old lady walking forward with a big bag on her back.
Lei Feng came forward to inquire where his aunt was going. He immediately took the big bag, held the old man in his hand and said, "Come, aunt, I'll see you off."
The old man was very moved and praised him one by one.
Lei Feng has done many good things in his life, and these good things have been handed down from generation to generation. We will always learn from him.
Second, be kind.
Kindness can help others as well as yourself.
I believe everyone has heard of the accident of a blind man lighting a lamp: a Zen master saw a blind man walking at night, holding a lantern.
The Zen master didn't understand why the blind were redundant, so he asked why.
The blind man said: after dark, everyone can't see anything like me, so I lit a lamp to light the road for them. "
The Zen master said happily, "So you lit a lamp for someone else. You have a good heart. "
The blind man said, "Actually, I also light a lamp for myself, because when I light it, others can see me in the dark and won't bump into me."
Be kind in everything, whether to others or to yourself.
Third, put in a good word.
Never judge anyone or anything at any time.
If you have to say it, say the best.
For example, if you have to comment on other people's behavior, just say their advantages.
No one is perfect. A person has both advantages and disadvantages.
Since we want to talk, we should talk about each other's advantages.
Learning to praise others sincerely is also one of the most important ways of communication between people and the most effective way.
Most of the troubles in work and life come from people who can't control their mouths and don't know how to put in a good word.
Do the above three things wholeheartedly, and you will live freely in this life, and happiness and longevity will naturally come.