My child is not talkative after middle school, what activities should I arrange for him on weekends to make him more outgoing?

Parents need to create a relaxed family atmosphere for their children, which means not being too harsh on them and being gentle with them. Let the child be in a relatively free environment. When parents talk to their children, some children are afraid to respond to their parents, and that's okay. Parents need to be patient with their children. Sometimes it is helpful to answer questions and put his thoughts into words. When the child's nervousness disappears, they will slowly be willing to open up and try to speak boldly.

If your child is really an introvert, play to his strengths and make him more of one, rather than turning him into a different kind of person. To turn an introvert into someone who looks like a fake lively extrovert can be a particularly damaging educational approach and a mistake. Don't over reason with your introverted and sensitive child, introverted children are already overly anxious and over reasoning will make them feel anxious. Introverted children are prone to feelings of guilt and shame. Correcting a mistake in an introverted child requires only a small amount of talking. Acknowledge your child's feelings and give him enough understanding. Capitalize on your child's feelings of guilt and shame to prevent him from developing an inferiority complex.

Don't worry if your child remains shy no matter what the parents do. Introverted children have as many advantages as extroverted children. Introverted children are usually more steady, observant, calm and less impulsive. It is good for parents to see more of his strengths. In normal life, don't overprotect your child, try to let your child solve things on his own, and if he really can't, then the parents will help him. Parents should not force their children to do something when they are not ready. There are square dances in the evenings and mornings, so take your child there and dance with him, and let people praise him and commend him more often. Where the community and the school have cultural performances, you let him participate, so that he and his classmates to get along, and classmates to take the initiative to communicate.