From the conscience will certainly go to help, but the reality of the case there are a lot of good people to help people in this case got into unnecessary trouble, if this happens in front of me, do not want to get into trouble under the premise of the first alarm to explain the situation, in addition to see if there are witnesses around or monitoring, can be for me to help the old man fell down and get out of the way, why I'm so cautious it?
A colleague of mine drove home from work some years ago and encountered a sixty-plus vegetable farmer riding a bicycle fell on the road, and fell very seriously, as a conscientious person certainly do not hesitate to help, but my colleague on the help of this trouble, because of the fall of the vegetable farmer is very serious injuries, and can not speak, and then he chose to call the police and the 120.
When police To the scene and my colleagues to explain the specifics of the situation, while the police also carried out a careful observation of the scene, the police still require my colleagues to show ID cards and personal detailed statement before release, of course, this is the necessary formalities of the police to deal with the case is not surprising, but then the vegetable farmer in the hospital for treatment during the time of his family always suspected that my colleague's car collision, the police also explains the situation at that time, but his family is not to be forgiven, and always door-to-door The police also explained the situation, but his family is not relentless, always coming to the door to look for trouble, until the vegetable farmer woke up to explain the real situation after the matter was closed. The first time I saw this was when I was a student at the University of California at Berkeley.
I think that regardless of the extent of the fall, the first time to call 110 police! First, no matter whether he (she) good bad people, or want to touch porcelain, we are not good judgment, the police most direct. Secondly, is really fell, 120 will also quickly arrived, after all, they are professionals, the rescue is also good. Today's world, although still good people more, but also let a few bad people stirred into a mess, true or false is really difficult to distinguish!
Look at the age group of the crowd it: square dance disturbances, bus seats, coaxing public **** facilities, outbursts, according to the old, and even lost people are lost to foreign countries! We are a nation that honors the old and loves the young, and it is the first element of the world to make one's parents practically filial.
I think that thirty years ago, every good and compassionate people will be obliged to help the elderly, because in that era, this action is to highlight the goodness of human nature to learn the spirit of Lei Feng to do good deeds, is the embodiment of a good social climate.
And today, due to the distortion of human nature, the social atmosphere is not as good as before. More and more similar to the old man fell down after the good people to help and then was the old man and his family blackmail events and news appeared, was supposed to do good things should be the other side of the thanks, but instead of being blackmailed by the other side to ask for a huge reward, do good to the people but become a victim. This has led to a lot of people see a similar situation do not dare to venture out to help each other. This is really an unfortunate thing for the modern society, people have to think twice about doing good things for fear of being cheated.
If I had met the old man fell to the ground in this case, I think I will go to help, but must determine whether there are bystanders around to testify, next to whether there is monitoring, to ensure that they will not be blackmailed under the premise of going to help the elderly. Otherwise, you can call 110, 120 police. For the old man fell can not turn a deaf ear, the good nature of people can not change, people are doing, God is watching. Respect for the elderly and young people to help the elderly is the traditional virtues of the Chinese people, we can not leave this fine tradition.
Some of the society to help the elderly and was blackmailed after all, the vast majority of people are still good, as long as everyone is not afraid of blackmail and to avoid injuring themselves, pay attention to the protection of their own case to do more good, I believe that the social atmosphere will slowly get better, although there is an evil side of the people, but the people show more or good.
To be honest, such a problem really should not appear in China, because the Chinese people have 5,000 years of civilization (in fact, more than 8,000 years), and is known as the state of etiquette; by the same token, such a problem is not necessary to discuss and debate, but unfortunately has been discussed for many years, and continues to be discussed and debated. Discussions and debates on this issue, fully proved as people are about to lose the bottom line of being human? People are struggling at the edge of the bottom line of being human.
What is the root cause of this phenomenon? And what is the reason for the continuation of this phenomenon? How can the soil of such problems be swept clean as soon as possible? This is what we should discuss and debate the issue? In the face of the old man fell down in front of, in the end to help or not to help the problem, the discussion and debate should be adjourned!
No hesitation, to help to "care"! Because this is the most basic quality of people only so for people.