So it's naive to divorce after frequent quarrels. You know, the grandfather next door is 80 years old.
On the one hand, there are no couples who don't quarrel.
Quarrel also depends on the degree of quarrel. It's really tiring to make trouble often, but there's nothing to say about it. Quarrel is good for marriage, which can deepen mutual understanding, adapt to each other and make the family more harmonious.
On the other hand, mastering the skills of quarreling can promote marriage.
But quarreling also has technical content, so we should abide by some principles, otherwise small quarrels may develop into big quarrels and even shake the foundation of marriage.
1, quarrel does not turn over old scores.
In the past, my sister and brother-in-law often quarreled. Every time they quarreled, my sister would dig out the old story of brother-in-law, saying that the position of brother-in-law was given by others, and what skills she had. This often makes my brother-in-law angry. Later, after my sister went to a happy marriage class, I realized that the relationship was getting better and better.
2. Don't quarrel with others.
There is a young couple next door to my house. As long as the woman feels that she is square, she must ask the man to write a letter of guarantee and buy a bag, which makes the man very tired. Actually, it's almost enough. If you forgive each other generously and reasonably, you will only get gratitude.
3. Don't expand the fighting scope.
Once, because my uncle forgot to wash smelly socks, my aunt extended the problem of my uncle's poor hygiene to his whole family, and then came to various conclusions such as being uneducated and uneducated, which of course made my uncle very angry: What makes you say that I have a pair of socks and my whole family?
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