A while ago and friends dinner, the meal friend stared at me, looking at my hair flabbergasted. He couldn't help but say: you're getting thinner and thinner, and among us you have a high heart, so hard to do what. I smiled but did not say, honestly, I do not know how to answer. He lit a cigarette, came over and asked: Seriously, why are you so hard?
On the way back at night, I drove the car wind, one hand resting on the cheeks, looking out the window at night. Yes ha, why do I have to work hard? Because, because, it seems like there are a lot of reasons.
I turned my head and asked my drunken buddy next to me, and he said, full of booze: why, for the wife, for the house, for the car.
If it was before, I'm afraid I would have to dislike him, so vulgar, but he is indeed right, everyone has a reason to work hard, and is not to take to the table to the elegant words: for the dream, for the poems and faraway places.
So when I got home, I wrote on one of the platforms, "Why do you work hard?"
This is probably the meaning of hard work
It is really unintentional, a few days later I opened the platform and saw more than tens of thousands of comments.
Someone said: you went to a third-rate university, does not mean you have to live a third-rate life. In order to catch up with the self that once had high hopes.
Some people say: I don't want to be said "rely on men".
Others say: in order to meet the favorite person can boldly confess, in order to let those snobbish relatives have nothing to say, in order to mother in the square dance army can show off their two sons.
There is a 00 said: girls have to make more money, or else someone else sends you a 520 red envelope, you think you have met love.
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Someone said: don't want my parents to be looked down upon because of my mediocrity.
Ten years ago, the people around you would treat you according to your parents' income;
Ten years from now, the people around you will treat your parents and children according to your income;
That's probably the point of trying.
Don't get drunk on dreams, we should live in reality!
Maybe my sentence, for everyone derived a platform for expression, perhaps it is the unspoken, or the heart is not willing.
I brush like a microblogging, brush to see everyone's comments. There's no right or wrong, it's all from the bottom of my lungs.
Some time ago, I tanned a section of food in the circle of friends is written like this: the day is hot, to the customer service ordered a chilled fruit beauty package.
I have to say is not this, but the owner of this fruit package, is my senior brother, before doing milk tea store.
I clearly remember the words on the wall of his store: one year to buy a car, two years to buy a house, three years to marry a beautiful woman.
I clearly remember the words on the wall of his shop: one year to buy a car, two years to buy a house, three years to marry a beautiful woman.
Now he has changed his business again, because the traditional business is not doing well. Some say he has no staying power, I don't know, let alone the meaning behind those hard-working handwriting on the wall.
Intermittent Hesitancy, Persistent Juggling
This was commented by a netizen, and then among the millions of comments, the bright spot appeared.
In the midst of everyone's chicken-blooded, warm-hearted comments, he has stabbed the hearts of countless people. So there is a side like the sound of reversal, the sound of denunciation. I'm inclined to favor him, but behind him are a few voices of support.
A few days later, there was a big reversal, and more and more people supported him.
There is a 90-year-old girl who said timidly in the sound of the waves: "Chicken soup will be said by anyone, but there are very few who insist on it.
Even began to appear such a voice: poor people must be hateful.
In fact, who's words are right, in front of the results of your efforts but wrong many people!
Sorry, I can not help you!
There was once a discussion of such a problem, and this problem has said through the hearts of many people!
It has been said that there are three results of a person's efforts to perform:
The person who is strong enough inside (the extremely strong internal drive)
This is further divided into two kinds of people: I. Introverted extremely strong action For them words are pale, action is the most favorable proof.
Two. This kind of people will use words and deeds to prove themselves, the more so, the stronger the internal strength.
People who need encouragement from others to spur them on (people who need to draw on chicken soup)
This type of person, in the process of endeavor, needs a push, like an acceleration. In a 100-meter slide, I push you you can slide 60 meters with a boost, while you can only slide 35 meters by yourself . This is of course a good thing, a valuable person in your life (Bole). But you have to know that Bole is not always there, and will not be with you forever.
Push not to go, playing backwards. This kind of person is probably hopeless. Intermittent smugness, persistent mucking about! You really are like this, three or five seconds, three or five minutes, three or five hours, three or five days of intermittent effort. After that it's all about discouragement and muddling through, and it's still contagious!
What doesn't work is still not working, and what works is still working. A month, a year later, you're still you, he's still him, just not the same guy he was before.
Effort: lies in thinking + power of action
Leaving aside the Sven, push the cup, we eat dishes, big mouth soup, say a heartfelt words: why try, in order to live a better life. Just like the saying: you eat to live, but you live not just to eat.
The old iron, say a heartfelt words: now, money is good to earn? The first thing that you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what you are doing and what you are doing.
The old neighborhood brother, home to stay at home! Thirty years of age, the first few years is also good, every year in the brick kiln, a year dry down to 100,000 dollars. Now the state advocates environmentally friendly smoke-free city, and then there is no work. The first time I saw this was when I was in the middle of the night, and it was the first time I saw it in the middle of the night.
Some people are really screwed up, how do you say, he is not believe. My grandmother's home across the street neighbors, and I'm the same age of the young man, according to the generations have to call my little uncle. I've been working in a Shenzhen electronics factory for several years. Because we played together since childhood, every year party, I said you can not do that for a long time, the future is certainly modernized. He stared, where modernization, you people are talking nonsense. Now, he will also come, because the factory is full of robot production.
Sometimes when you can't keep up, you really fall behind.
My high school classmate, a few years has been working in a company. Every time I eat, I say I don't want to do it, and now mobile e-commerce is very good, and I want to do something on my own. Then every time it is not settled.
Then, there is a gap.
There are not so many curved paths, the opportunity to come, you did not hold its hand,
Other people's success, turn around, countless days and nights in the struggle!
We put our hands on our chests and look at your current or future girlfriend, ask yourself why you are trying, and whether the results of your efforts can satisfy you!
Without further ado, it's ten o'clock, I'm going to read the book "Okay, Okay".
I am Da Yan, is writing on the road. I'm a professional health care teacher, and I've been running for five years, and I've been writing for 1,088 days.
I've been working on this for a while now.